Alright, guess we’re doing this. Friends/people I know outside of the tumblr nsfw/nsft space, ignore this post.
I’m an adult woman who experiences desire (who knew?) and thus have a side-blog that is less than family friendly to put it lightly. However, the way tumblr works means that my “likes” on nsfw/nsft blogs appear to come from this blog. There’s no way to change this that I know of.
When this occurs, the respectful thing to do for whomever I’ve liked a post from is to either not interact or to interact with my nsfw account (since that’s the reason I have it).
The disrespectful thing to do is try to contact me on this blog.
But the EXTREMELY disrespectful thing to do? DM me/send an ask saying that I can’t possibly be aspec/arospec if I’ve liked someone’s nsfw post. To the person who did so this morning under the guise of “celebrating” me “moving further away from aspec :)”, I wish for you a life where you learn basic human respect the easy way rather than the hard way.
I prefer to keep my nsfw and main blogs separate, so I hoped I’d never have to make a post like this, but today showed me that I need to set firmer boundaries.
If you’re a nsfw/nsft blog and I interact with you, please do not interact with this blog except to ask for my nsft blog. I’ll happily engage with you from the blog I’ve made for that purpose.
Thank you!



















