Stop looking for happiness in the same place you lost it
This quote could not describe me more to be honest and it is something I need to look back at every now and again to remind myself that there is a reason things don’t work out. I am an awful eijet for always going back to things and people that don’t truly make me happy. I am not the only one as I see so many people everyday going backwards in circles and it frustrates me to see it. I think it is the feeling of security and familiarity for some and that is why we put ourselves through so many try’s at relationships when both people know it’s not working out. Sometimes you just have to take a step back from everything and truly think ‘is this making me happy anymore?‘ most of the time when you have to ask yourself that question the answer is no.
But don’t be afraid of it, embrace it. Life is all about change. You don’t want to spend your life somewhere that makes you unhappy. Think about how much happier you would be if you were out of that situation, the possibilities are endless for love and relationships. Respect yourself enough to know when both your happiness and your partners has been compromised. Walk away and keep looking forward because there are always better things ahead than the ones we leave behind.
