sabrina always strays away

sabrina. femme. queer . sadist . switch ferociously feline ~happily owned~ 11/29/2017 *~manic-depressive pixie dreamgirl~* nsfw petplay . bondage . kink (this blog is 18+)

[sabrina-stray]

I’m not going to lie... I can’t wait for the kink community to evolve to the point where it nips poor behaviors in the bud. Stop excusing creepers who ignore boundaries for being “socially awkward”. Socially awkward people won’t keep doing something after they’ve been told not to because socially awkward people dislike confrontation. People pretend to be bumbling idiots to get away with some heinous shit and ya’ll are just drinking that up and then acting surprised three years down the line when that person you were told about from the start turns out to be a rapey asshole. 

[testimonyoflust]

[rumblegrove-deactivated20180513]

mountain asks

[morigirldreams]

moon: what is your astrological sign?

gingerbread: your moral alignment

birdseed: family or friends?

sheets: your sexual orientation

warm milk: when do you usually fall asleep?

pot of honey: your gender identity

snow: what is your favorite time of year and why?

yarn: what are your most enjoyable hobbies?

bicycle: what are you talented at?

folktale: what stories remind you of your childhood?

woods: where do you feel at peace?

chicken feet: what is your emotional “flaw”?

red cheeks: what makes you nervous?

sunflower: what do you love and cherish?

bells: what sounds are your favorite or calm you the most?

turnip: what is a food you could eat everyday?

spit: do you get jealous easily?

mushroom: list unique things you like about yourself

cupboard: a good childhood memory

eyebags: what do you think makes a person attractive?

fallen log: something you’ve gotten over that you never thought you would

dagger: your worst fear

whisper: do you have any secrets?

wild boar: which person do you feel closest to?

sweet: what candies or cakes are you fond of?

footprints: do you remember your past lives?

fur: name an animal you feel connected to

vodka: do you drink?

sour cherry: an obscure tradition from your family?

pine needles: what is your favorite scent?

heart-shaped: do you believe in love? are you in love?

home: where do you dream of living?

spice: list your favorite herbs

mud: something you’re insecure about but trying to love

tobacco: do you have any addictions?

sock: how would you describe your clothing taste?

cuckoo clock: are you a morning, a noon, or an evening person?

wooden fence: a favorite memory

[thebasildruid-deactivated202005]

Cleaning the house before a get together tonight. Ask me stuff!

[comeuppancee]

get you a freak that kisses you on the forehead before bed

[prettyboyjake]

Staff doesn’t give a shit about child porn and here’s why

I’m a veteran Tumblr user - I’ve been around for a long, looooong time (since maybe a year or two after its creation) and I was here when the very first shreds of kids running kink blogs showed up. This blog is pretty new, but for a long time I ran one when I was a part of the CGL community. Arguably, this community had the worst ratio of kids to adults (which is why I stopped being involved and stopped blogging CGL things entirely) and there were hundreds, if not thousands of adults working tirelessly to report kids and the pedophiles interacting with them.

Needless to say, Tumblr did nothing. They left known pedophiles’ blogs up despite double-digit reports, and they allowed minors to continue running NSFW blogs where they would generate their own NSFW content, and overall did not seem to care one iota about what was happening.

Now, here in 2018, they turned another leaf and it’s VERY obvious as to why they did a 180 from ignoring the issue to tackling it - and that is SESTA/FOSTA, as well as the current political climate here in the USA.

They have never liked adult content - I’m not talking about child porn, which they DO NOT care about. I’m talking about legal adult content, including and (especially emphasizing) queer content. This much is obvious from the random blog shutdowns and the shadow-banning, as well as the more repressive policies of hiding NSFW blogs from Google search. They are using the child porn issue to disguise their real motives here - something that I’ll re-emphasize - that they’ve never liked or supported adult content creators.

Tumblr did not and never will actually care about child abuse - they just care about looking good and cleaning their site of what they view as ‘inappropriate’. This is a zero-effort move and very political at that.

The child pornography has been here since 2013-2014 at LEAST and the fact that they are only NOW taking action in this year, in THIS political climate, is very telling.

Yahoo has always leaned conservative and it’s no surprise that this power-move is happening. It’s just depressing that they’re using children as scapegoats to push their new policy.

[happyotaku721]

Me coming back online after the purge

[sabrina-stray]

To follow my shenanigans: Fetlife: Sabryna Vanilla blog: graebird.tumblr.com  Mutuals, DM me for either Snapchat or Insta. 

[sabrina-stray]

The shit that is and isn’t flagged on this website is fucking bizarre.  @staff please explain why a vagina isn’t pornographic but a girl wearing a cat tail and clothing is?? 

[sabrina-stray]

Zen is that moment where you say fuck it during a run and break through that wall and run twice as far as you originally planned.

[biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist]

nb people are members of the fae

[biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist]

reblog if you’re nb, a member of the fae, or support nb fae people

[biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist]

people who want to be kidnapped by the fae can also reblog 

[cal0011999]

[sabrina-stray]

I expected being single again to feel... different. Huh.

[puplaika]

Face

Ya know, most of my petplay time spent doesn’t include my hood. Sometimes not even a toy or a collar. The scene evolves naturally from our interactions and I don’t always have the thought of “WAIT! Stop everything! Let me go put my gear on so I look right.”

He doesn’t really care. He sees his pet regardless. And I feel like his pet regardless. Sure, a set up scene with dressing up is fun, and he finds my hood cute/hot, but it’s almost rare that I wear it.

It’s not about the gear.

“Sure, easy for you to say!” someone without the resources or ability to get a hood protests. You’re right! I really wanted one and was able to have one. So it may sound canned from me. But the point I’m making is that my hood has very little to do with my actual petplay dynamic and everything to do with my blog.

I enjoyed hosting a kink blog years before I discovered petplay, but faced limitations in content creation due to needing to hide my face. You can only do so much if you need to keep your face out of photos. A hood - and a high quality, unique one at that - provided me that anonymity while simultaneously allowing me to cultivate a community persona. I enjoy that very much. I like making friends/mutuals, and sharing photos, gifs and stories. But I enjoy all that on an entirely separate level from petplay itself and our actual dynamic.

A hood makes it easier to share content and create a (safer) kink/petplay community persona. I agree with that. It makes you recognizable and it gives your content character and freedom. It can, as a direct result, increase your follower count and popularity. I agree with that too. It’s an advantage.

It does not define your worth as a pet, however. Not even a little bit. Your role is in you, not in any piece of clothing or gear.

I wanted to share this post to reiterate that if you are someone who can’t access gear, please do not worry that you are a less likable pet. Be yourself, do your pet play thing, have fun, and know that internet popularity (even as niche as this) has nothing to do with your worth to your partner or your pack or yourself.

[sabrina-stray]

One of my biggest turn ons is a person having the ability to move me around like I weigh nothing. I love feeling small and safe. I love feeling like a helpless little rag doll.

[sabrina-stray]

Hilariously reminded of this doing circus antics to change fly paper at the oddities shop the other night. Feeling weightless is amazing.

[sabrina-stray]

Being single after being in a committed relationship for two years is fucking WEIRD.

I don’t have to look for approval of my friends to be able to hang out with them. I don’t have to worry about jealousy anymore. I’m still having a hard time connecting with people but don’t shy away from being more cuddly with my friends like I was before he and I got together.

Seeing how things have been changing has been outright bizarre, honestly.

If we talked a lot before he came around, I apologize for disappearing. It’s been a weird few years.

[liddle-pup]

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