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Here's to...

Here's to that guy I talked to about to my friends. When I was busy gossiping about conversation to my friends, you were talking to another girl. When I was taking selfies with you, you were taking another bunch of photos with the same girl you talk to. We weren't together. I know that. But it hurts. That you can just easily take my heart away like that. Fuck you. But I loved you

Here's to..

Here's to the first guy who made me fall inlove with me. The guy who thought I was just all smiles and laughs. The guy who thought he loved me but didn't really. The guy who appears in every book or post I make. This is all to you.

#SBHThatGuy

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yeah i know u miss me it’s pretty hard to forget an angel

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I’ve been staring at this for 5 minutes

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That’s what it looks like. That’s really what it looks like

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Being out in the ocean is actually so scary because when you look really far out you can kind of see how the Earth is rounded out. It looks like a few miles ahead you’re just gonna fall off or something. Also fun trick: if ur on mobile, double tap zoom in and slide the picture side to side. It looks like you’re actually there looking left to right

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DO THAT DO IT RIGHT NOW

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Real Friends - Lost Boy

fuck this

i don't need a boy so i can be happy, i only need my family but it seems that they don't care about my happiness. they just want whats the best for me. thy dont care if i get upset about their decision or not. they dont care because they think everything is okay when in reality, it isn't.

#in a garden #flowers #good people die

You don't but I happily would.

#final girl scene #kill

Nobody wanted to play with me. Will you?

#sadistic #sadistic but happy #murder scene #so young #so damaged #killing

angelxhunter

Don’t Tell Girls

“You’re too pretty to be single” Why is one person’s idea of ideal aestheticism A basis for a relationship status And furthermore What is so goddamn shameful or pathetic about being single anyway Is confidence and comfort in being by one’s self intimidating to you

“Swearing is unladylike” Bullshit Swears are only words And these words do not negate my intelligence, or passion, or define anything about me as a person or my character Men are never told not to swear Swear as much as you fucking want

“Your standards are too high! Just give him a chance” No You are invalidating a woman’s right to say no She doesn’t need to explain herself to anyone She doesn’t owe anyone anything Ever Everyone should have standards for themselves, and not feel like they need to lower them to please anyone Or be shamed for leading someone on when they know it would never work Because that happens too

“If you dress like that, boys will get the wrong idea” What idea might that be? That women might actually feel beautiful and confident in their own bodies? Heaven forbid Because obviously women’s bodies belong to everyone else except themselves

“Don’t frown - someone might be falling in love with your smile!” Why Is it my responsibility to always smile no matter how I feel I am a human being who is allowed to experience pain, or confusion, or sorrow, or boredom Men are never criticized for having “resting bitch face”

“Short hair makes you look like a boy!” This is assuming That there is one certain way for “boys” and “girls” to look Not so Some boys have long hair, some girls have short hair, some people who are both or neither also have hair Hair has no gender Humans are allowed to look different from each other and express themselves how they like Gender identity and gender expression are not the same

They aren’t “real” girls because they were born with a penis Anyone is a girl who says they are a girl Stop trying to undermine someone’s identity They know themselves better than you do Anatomy and identity are different, and sometimes separate Why are you so obsessed with other people’s genitals anyway

“You’re going to break a lot of hearts one day” Why would you ever Ever Say this to a girl A young, impressionable girl Breaking hearts is not a compliment, or a goal Coming from someone who has broken at least one From simply being honest and being myself It is a burden - a guilt that has been (mis)placed on my shoulders since childhood I never wanted to be labelled a heartbreaker simply for existing

“You don’t want kids? You’ll change your mind one day” No I won’t Even if I do, one day, that doesn’t make my opinion right now any less valid or deserving of respect Stop disbelieving people about their own life choices Also, having children is not a necessary milestone for a successful or fulfilling life

“Don’t have sex before marriage - boys really want a virginal girl” Sure they do And are boys ever held to that same expectation To stay virgins until marriage? Because as women are shamed for “impurity,” boys are applauded for “experience” I love the smell of double standards in the morning

“You shouldn’t wear so much makeup” The natural look is great The makeup look is great The anything you feel like doing or not doing to your own face look is great Let people do whatever they want to their own bodies Whatever makes them feel good Why do you care

“Selfies are just for attention” Maybe Maybe not What’s so wrong about liking attention What’s so wrong about feeling beautiful and confident in your own skin And wanting to share that feeling with others We were taught for so long to hate our bodies What is so threatening about finally loving them

“Cat-calling is flattering! Learn how to accept a compliment!” “I like your hair” is a compliment “You’re a really talented writer” is a compliment The gross, vulgar things that men shout at women they don’t know on the street Are not compliments They are harassment - meant to imply ownership and dominance and even violence Compliments should not make people fear for their lives walking home Compliments should not actually get people killed

- angelxhunter (x)

onebuttscratcher

please boost the fuck out of this.

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^!!!!!!!!!!!

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I CANT ENPHASIZE MORE ON THIS POST

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I had a dentist appointment today and the chairs are massaging chairs. This is the first one that hasn't hurt my back and I need these more in my life

Scoliosis struggles

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I was scared more than all the seasons of American horror story

FIRST OFF NOBODY TOLD ME ADRIAN MA HAD A GIRLFRIEND

mental illnesses are okay

one time, i came upon a post about "Monsters of Mental Illness" and it represented illnesses like, depression, anxiety and schizophrenia and some other things. I showed it to my sister, who studies psychology, and pointed at monsters who represented anxiety, schizophrenia and such. (I do have anxiety and depression and I hope my sister will understand me) and asked her if I had that, which her response was, "No, you don't have those. Why would you show me these? It's not like you have one,— In my mind, I was telling her mentally, "Oh you just don't know, you don't care about me." she continued, "—and even if you do have one of those, it's not something to be proud of, it supposed to make you feel edgy and it should be hidden from any body else but you." I was literally crying in the inside. I didn't expect her response to be like that way. I thought she would undestand. I smiled sadly and fakely at her and said, "Yeah, and sis, I don't." That was a lie. Out of all people, it had to be her, my sister. Sometimes, my best friends would ask me, "Hey, you okay?" I would respond with an honest reply, "No. No, I'm not." "You want to talk about it?" "Maybe, not now. Maybe later." And I would smile at her. Honest smile. I would always tell her, my bestfriend, what was going on with my life. Of course I trusted her to tell her. Sometimes, my other friends would come and sig by my side at school and ask me questions. "What does mental illness feel like?" and "Why do you hide so much?" or "Do you have a mental illness?" I would nod shyly, I would tell them two sentences about it and that's for all. I already told one person, it was enough. What makes them happy to be with is because they are very cautious and they are people who understand you. That's why they are my friends. I think even my dad and mom sees it. Why not my sister, a Psychology student, sees it? To this day, I don't even want to speak mental illnesses about her. Ever. I'm just saying, (wrong or not, please don't judge.) that, if you have a mental illness, don't be afraid to let it out to someone or just maybe that one person to be able to understand what you are going through. Family or friends, it doesn't matter. Open up, let it out, it's going to be okay. Please don't be like me, don't lie to people who ask you things about you mental illness. Well, if you don't trust them, you can easily say, "I don't feel like talking about it to you." Be honest. Find that person/s and open up to them. Find people who care. If it's not the time, you can always try another time. And if they understand you, you should understand them too. I'm not bragging about me having a mental illness, and this is the reason why I'm still anonymous, so I'd like to just tell about my experience and give some suggestions and advices.