Blood Party

Kink Multi-blog; Multi-muse roleplaying blog with primary muse; Hiatus

[sadisticfiction]

((I heard about your rp with themoonlightthief thief. I was wondering if you'd like to rp with me if you ever get the time to. With my Kaito. My Saguru's already shattered.))

Yooo~ Oh gosh I shouldn’t be shocked that infamy is still circling, but I am. I’m sorry I haven’t made a post on my blog about this, but I’m not rping anymore. There’s only so many projects I can work on at a time. That doesn’t mean I won’t ever go back to it, but I currently don’t have any plans on returning.

If you’re looking for Kaito!torture though, kkrazy256 and I are putting together a blog specifically for that. It’ll be up hopefully soon [just started sending in the permission requests]. I can make a post with the url on this blog if people want?

For my own curiosity, where’d you hear about the thread from?

Sorry to disappoint =/ If you ever want to chat, I’d be happy to give you my skype ^^ Thanks~ 

[ugly-bread]

Anxiety attacks aren’t always hyperventilating and rocking back and forth

Anxiety attacks can take different forms, such as:

Unpredictable bouts of rage or irritability

Nit-pickiness (obsessive behavior, which may be a part of OCD), and even a hypersensitivity to disarray, chaos, or any sort of change

Fast-talking, stuttering, stumbling over words

Not talking at all

Sitting rigid, staring into space, almost seeming “zoned out”

Understanding the way our or other’s anxiety works can help to decrease the stigma and help to calm a person faster and get them out of that state. These are just a few, but it gives an idea of the range in which attacks can come.

[calryan]

[emelelizabeth]

[anniealder]

[duckeee-blog]

Dating someone with anxiety involves:

-them asking you the same question at least 10 times -them saying sorry at least 3 times a day -you promising them its okay -ordering food for them -making phone calls for them -repeating the same directions 3 times, then just going with them -texts as soon as you leave -sweaty palms -constant reassuring -them constantly changing their mind -checking to make sure something is done correctly over and over (ie writing an address/phone number) -ALWAYS BEING EARLY -NEVER BEING LATE -“yes, its at 4:30” -directions never being clear enough -ASWERING THE SAME QUESTION MULTIPLE TIMES -THEM BEING NERVOUS FOR SEEMINGLY SIMPLE TASKS

[bajo-el-mar-blog]

Reading about abusive men and the way they think. Very unsettling and an incredible book so far. Here are my very professional notes.

[imnotreallyherecheckagainlater]

what book is this?

[tehbewilderness]

This is from “Why Does He DO That” by Lundy Bancroft.

[chemicalheart-deactivated202009]

I’m so glad I’m seeing more and more Lundy Bancroft quotes on my dash because this book CHANGES THE LIVES OF ABUSE VICTIMS. The programs run for rehabilitating abusive men through the courts? Bancroft DESIGNED THEM. His programs are replicated ALL OVER THE WORLD. He literally wrote THE book on abuser rehabilitation.

[queen-mayhem]

Here’s a link to a pdf copy. If you haven’t read this book yet, read this book.

[appropriately-inappropriate]

Can we talk about how it seems like the entirety of the book is online on PDF, this making it accessible to anyone with an internet connection?

That is how we stop abuse.

We enable everyone to know what it looks like, so that when it happens, they can shut it down.

[nedahoyin]

Link is dead but…

[unsexybeast]

Did me some google box searching and I found a working link!!! (click the third one)

[mighty-science-deactivated20170]

If Mental Health Issues Where Monsters

[asrai-little-deactivated2017053]

Borderlines is pretty accurate! I was actually worries it wouldn’t be mentioned.

[oaluz]

long term effects of emotional abuse:

a distrust in your perceptions 

a tendency to be fearful or on guard

self-consciousness or fear of how you are coming across

an inability to be spontaneous

a distrust of people and in future relationships

anger that bursts out unexpectedly

sensitivity to anyone trying to control you

[hiddennurse]

My bathroom mirror is a reminder

[afadthatlastsforever]

Listen to me, your body is not a temple. Temples can be destroyed and desecrated. Your body is a forest — thick canopies of maple trees and sweet scented wildflowers sprouting in the underwood. You will grow back, over and over, no matter how badly you are devastated.

Beau Taplin  (via clubdaisy)

[shinjibayan2-blog]

In the Prison

[fungus-fairy]

[scaronhiatus]

The Basics:

What is Rape?/Types of Rape

Common Responses to Rape/Sexual Assault(ppt)

But How Do I Get Over It?

Processing New Information on Old Hurts.

Traumaversaries

Why You Aren’t Bad for Loving Your Abuser.

Finding Coping Mechanisms that Work

How to Talk About Trauma:

Talking About Trauma (ppt)

Talking About Trauma (to others)

What if they don’t believe me?

Need Help With:

Sleep

Nightmares

Surviving the Holidays (ppt)

Overstimulated Nerves

Self-Injury (ppt)

Flashbacks (ppt)

Making Peace With the Emotion Monster

On Holding Anger for Attackers

Disordered Eating, What it is and What you can do about it.

Admitting Weakness

Hygiene.

Regression

The Follower Collaborative Series:

Coping With Flashbacks

Triggers:

I’m triggered- Now What?

More On Triggers

On Purposely Triggering Yourself

Getting Over Triggers

De-triggering Abuser Names.

Reclaiming a Space

Boundaries:

Boundaries (ppt)

Boundaries 101

Boundaries: How to set them

Survivor+Survivor: Boundaries

Self-Care:

What is Self Care Anyway?

BACE Method

Self Care When You Lack a Sense of Self

Interpersonal Self-Care

Emotional Self Care

Physical Self Care

How to Do Self Care When You Only Have A Little Bit of Time

Self Care For Cold Weather

Self Care + Trauma Work

Consent/sex:

Intimacy After Rape

Lets Talk Consent

Lets Talk Sex

Sexuality After Rape

Using Sex as Self Harm?

Posts about Suicide:

Talking about Suicide (why we want to blame the suicidal and why we shouldn’t) 

Don’t Call Suicide Selfish

Suicidal Ideation

For Friends/Family/Partners of Survivors:

How to Help a Friend Who Has Been Raped.(ppt)

Avoiding Awkward- How to talk about rape when we talk to survivors.(ppt)

Sometimes the easiest thing to say is the worst.

Being Family/Friends isn’t an excuse.

A Friend is Self Harming (ppt)

Comfort In. Complain Out.

What Can I Do?

Reality Checks

[profeminist]

HUGE thank you and shout out to selfcareafterrape for creating this list!

[profeminist]

Sexual Assault Awareness Month

#SAAM 2015

[doodlesandmistakes-blog]

doodle

[sixpenceee]

How surface texture affects bloodstain patterns. (Video)

[thee-cobalt-lightning-deactivat]

“Don’t worry, I’m a writer”

[ancwritingresources]

do you have a blog post about mob bosses and being in the mob??

Here are some basic resources about writing mobsters/mob and gang life: 

Writing About the Mob: Ten Things to Consider

An Interview with a Mafia/Gang Author

How to Write a Good Mob Book (Brief Overview)

An Author Discusses: Writing Crime Life

How the Mafia Works

A Guide to the Mafia and Other Crime Organizations

Reference for Writer’s Mafia and Assassins Post 

How to Speak Like a 20′s Gangster

To really understand what it means to be a mobster, I think it is also important to look at real life examples. This should help you to keep your character realistic and believable throughout. To help, here are some resources on real-life mobster and mob bosses throughout history and more currently: 

Top 15 Crime Bosses and Drug Lords in 2012

The 10 Most Notorious Mafia Bosses On Earth

Top 10 Real-Life Mob Bosses

Famous Mafia Bosses

It also might be worth checking out the book: Mafia Girl which discusses mob bosses and heroins (Disclaimer: I have not read this book and can’t condone or condemn the content. I recommend it only to increase your knowledge of already existing mob related stories.)