val @sapphic-sir - Tumblr Blog

here's my pinned post!

I don't really know what info to include here, so I'll probably edit it as I figure it out. if you're planning to stick around or send an ask/dm, please read the whole post.

I'm 21 years old, genderqueer trans lesbian. neopronouns preferred (ask) but ok with he/him, they're not an option. in portuguese, ele/ela. all trans folk are welcome here! follows & likes come from tipsy****

CIS MEN & VENUS DNI I block liberally despite my lack of a more clear dni.

I'm a true switch and stone top; however I don't like submitting to strangers, which means that any attempts to dom(me) me will be ignored and get you blocked. my likes and dislikes apply to situations where I'm domming others. I may post about more submissive things sometimes, or about things I've done/am doing in relationships, but that is NOT me asking or consenting to be dommed. either way, I typically only feel comfortable submitting in non sexual kink scenes or dynamics. dms are always welcome from mutuals, any non man can send asks!! :) send me praise here!

I like flirting, feel free to send me asks -- dms open to mutuals! no nudes without prior discussion and consent! I won't send anything I'm not comfortable with, and I won't ask for pictures from anyone. you can address me as Val or Sir. if you feel like enabling me, feel free to ask for my venmo or cashapp with specific notes on what you'd like me to get ^w^

things I write on this blog: dubcon/intox/somno, snz, petplay, power exchange, exhibitionism, marking, hypnosis feel free to ask me to tag things so you can seek/avoid content

tagging system: #[blank] anon - anons #key to my cage - original post #me - pictures/videos/audios of myself #for [emoji] - for a specific anon/person/mutual #my writing - for specifically fics, not concepts #my mutuals are so hot - mutuals' nudes

likes, limits, & ask information under the cut!

pussylipgloss

moan directly into my mouth actually

bruzum

lavaditto

'my love' 'my girl' 'my sweetheart' ' my baby' “my” 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺

#me and who?

drowsy-corpsegirl

The Dom should be praised too

drowsy-corpsegirl

Take care of your doms. Praise them. Make them feel cared for and loved. Or you don't deserve them.

drowsy-corpsegirl

This applies doubly, x10 tbh, to transfemme doms. You NEED to be nice to her, you NEED to let her know she is doing a good job. That transfemme dom might have a lot of issues with her self worth, she may have been used up and left a discarded husk so many times.

Sorry but I got sick of scrolling through the notes on this on desktop and seeing all the red usernames marked by shinigami eyes reblogging this.

I'm a transfemme dom and I'm proud of it. Take care of us. Love us.

cognitohazardous

image of someone in jeans with the fly down and no panties but theyre bushless? do you hang empty picture frames on your walls? don't piss me off.

bamb1l0la

sorry if my cute face was misleading I’m actually a pervert

dyketitsofficial

should i get my nipples pierced or would that be a hat on a hat

dyketitsofficial

ok im going to the piercing shop after work to ask if my anatomy is right to get my tits pierced, wish me luck!!

dyketitsofficial

i did it 😎

dyketitsofficial

im so hot

#my mutuals are so hot

thyfleshc0nsumed

Btw rape play is okay not because "I'm a victim and this is how I cope," it's okay because it's play pretend. We are play pretend. We are just adults playing adult versions of house or doctor or firefighter. It's fucking play pretend.

sen-thebootbimbo

All kink is by definition not abuse. Abuse neccessarily; is done without consent of one or more parties, and involves unjust exercise of power over another/denial of agency of another.

Cnc, like all kink, begins and ends with consent. Just like juvenile play, all parties negotiate roles, responsibilities, improvisation. And if those guidelines are violated, play stops, attention is paid, and the players decide if they want to continue.

I’m begging y’all to develop a more complex understanding of violence and agency than, “thing bad, therefore people bad.”