Having to live up to everyone else’s expectations?
People believe that living up to everyone else expectations are what gets everybody by in life. They’re wrong. They expect you to be just like them. They’re wrong. If you’re feeling down, unhappy with yourself, compare yourself to others, don’t worry about what others are going to think about you. You are unique and it’s okay to be different.
I struggle a lot with body issues myself, and I try to live up to everyone else expectations. I’m not the skinniest person in the world and I’m not the prettiest. However, I’m starting to come to terms with my weight and the way I look, however I did make a modification to my hair. I find dyeing my hair is a release. It makes me comfortable and confident in myself. I’m unhappy, unmotivated and hate myself if it isn’t up to MY expectations. So dyeing my hair and my hair style is VERY important to me.
You should find something in which makes YOU comfortable in yourself. It doesn’t have to be as extreme as I made myself go, but you should find the one thing which makes you get out of bed in the morning, makes you confident and most importantly, makes YOU happy <3