My SG DL Life

26|SG ABDL NSFW. Currently in university, and my diapers are my security blanket. This is an extension of my Wordpress blog. I write short stories here. Strictly no minors under 18 allowed here. https://www.patreon.com/selvstories 

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Trying to wake up

I’ve been away from the ABDL blogging scene for two years. A lot of things have happened in this space, both in the ABDL world and my own life. Honestly, it has been really overwhelming. It’s not that I have forgotten this blog. I have written several stories in this time, just that I have not published any. I remember once I wrote out a draft post on Friday, Jan 13, 2023, intending to publish…

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Diapers In A Backpackers Hostel

Diapers In A Backpackers Hostel

I’ve always wanted to attend the Melbourne Comedy Festival. The first time I went to Melbourne, I had just missed it, and everyone was just going on and on about it. This time however, it was a confluence of events which only made it even more crucial that I had to catch it. The thing is, could I also turn this into another Diapered Escapade – since I hadn’t had one since 2019? To be honest, the…

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Wattpad Story - When She Answered Nature's Call

Wattpad Story – When She Answered Nature’s Call

For a few months now I have been writing an ABDL story on wattpad. It’s actually a rewrite of an older story I wrote, but I’ve added more chapters to it to make it more complete. The story is at its end now but do give it a look if you haven’t already, and do leave a comment there to say whether you like this kind of story, or let me know what elements don’t work. You can read this story by…

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When I Switched My Daily Diaper

When I Switched My Daily Diaper

Longtime readers of this blog would know that my go-to diaper has been the Tena Slip Super. I must have worn them more than any other diaper, and while most of my readers prefer plastic-backed diapers, I have been a fan of cloth-backed diapers.I have been wearing them more or less since 2014, so it has been my nighttime companion, and its characteristics have been an inspiration for some of my…

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Extended Diaper Hours

School has just started, and I didn’t know how much I missed studying. Especially studying while wearing diapers. I am pretty lucky to have my own room this semester, with a shared bathroom. Fewer people share this single bathroom, and I can go from my room to the bathroom and back without getting noticed. Although I must say that the toilet does get pretty dirtied up. I probably shouldn’t name…

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Buying Diapers in Australia

Buying Diapers in Australia

I had begun researching how to buy diapers long before I had arrived. I knew that I had to get them, and I thought that the cities here should have similar systems, so I didn’t think it was going to be a hassle. Boy was I wrong. I was surprised to find that diapers weren’t sold in pharmacies. When I first arrived in Australia a spent a while in Sydney. Even in a world city like Sydney, it was…

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Settling In

It’s been a while since I last wrote. And I figured now is the time for an update. I wasn’t really sure what I was going to do about this blog now that I am building a dedicated writing blog. But we’ll figure something out. I have arrived in Australia for my studies, in the beautiful state of Tasmania. It really feels great to be here after a year of online studies, and I’m determined to make…

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Moving to Australia For Studies

Moving to Australia For Studies

In five days, I had to dismantle my Singaporean life, pack my belongings into 2 suitcases, dispose of everything else and say my goodbyes. Honestly, that period was very unusual, and is mostly a blur now that I think back about it. But when you are living in a period where there is a worldwide pandemic happening, nothing is unusual. It was the end of November. And at that point, my third…

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I again got caught wearing diapers

I again got caught wearing diapers

I am an ABDL. For those of you who don’t know, most of us like to wear diapers. Most ABDLs also like to dress up as babies and act like them, with some getting others to be their ‘caretaker’. But this is mostly a private thing for us, confined to the privacy of our houses and does not involve other people, unless with their explicit consent. (It’s also worth noting here again that we do not…

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Where do I go from here

Where do I go from here

I’ve been having a huge bout of writer’s block for the past few months. No doubt the things happening in my life have been affecting me, but this time it’s like a once-in-a-decade drought kind of thing. Previously I’d spend a lot of time on the train and those journeys could help me get ideas and even write them down. But now with home-based learning and work-from-home, those journeys have…

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Picking Up The Pieces

Picking Up The Pieces

It has been a year since I last posted, and I received an email asking If I’m still alive. In the physical sense, yes I am still living. In the metaphorical sense, I died with the onset of the pandemic (though not because of it). I am lucky to be living in a country where the situation is in control (although there’s currently a small resurgence of cases), and the environment is peaceful.…

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How did you overcome embarrassment related to your diaper fetish?

Personally, by finding other ABDLs to be friends with in person who are around my age. Once you go to events and meet other people, you realize abdls are just like everyone else and you don’t feel as weird about it. It also helps to know I’m not hurting anyone or anything; I’m just doing something I enjoy (which is something that is reiterated by hanging with other abdls!). A lot of times I feel ABDLs go to events just to try to find someone to engage in our fetish with, but truthfully the validation you get just from making friends that understand you is worth it even without the play.

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How the DK allegations are relevant to ABDLs and the Kink Community

How the DK allegations are relevant to ABDLs and the Kink Community

I’m sure many of you have been following the events of the past few days, of allegations surrounding media personality Dee Kosh. The actions of this vile person, whose name I refuse to keep typing, present to ABDLs and the kink community the dangers of putting your profile out in public.

It has been pointed out several times that this personality has built his career by sexualising women and…

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Struggles With Adulting

It’s pretty plain that I’ve been struggling a lot these past few months. While I do not feel comfortable sharing the details, I admit that it has come to a point where I feel obliged to explain my absence.

I’ve been working since I graduated and with the pandemic raging around, things have been very rough. With my grandmother’s health declining I was also tied down in her care for the past…

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What Its Like Buying Diapers as an ABDL

What Its Like Buying Diapers as an ABDL

I’ve been a DL for about a decade now. I’ve had those ‘tendencies’ as a teenager, but it was only around 15 when I knew that this community existed. At that time, it was strictly a ‘wear diapers’ thing, I didn’t really want to be part of a community, although I did start to turn to online forums a lot. It wasn’t long after that I started to buy my own adult diapers. 

In hindsight I think…

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Trying To Maintain A Routine

Trying To Maintain A Routine

I’ve been stagnating for the past week, unable to confront reality. My friends are using their free time to learn new skills or even just Netflix and chill. But I’ve been sleeping away much of my free time.

That’s not to say that I’m not feeling guilty about it. I have been trying to adjust my sleep schedule back to pre-Covid timings but it’s easier said than done. I’ve even tried melatonin…

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Snapshot: The Third Surge

There’s quite a bit of fear in the community about the sudden surge in cases. Initially it was reported as a ‘third’ wave of infections, but it soon became clear that it was just undetected the whole time.

The local government received praise in the early stages of the pandemic. The response was hailed as a ‘gold standard’ by many organisations for its aggressive contact tracing efforts, which…

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