Don't mind me:)

I don't really know how tumblr works NO MINORS! she/her 24

[pop-punk-butch]

today my femme and I went to the thrift store and found some great records, baked and decorated cakes, then saw nosferatu

any day I get to spend with her is a blessing

[semiaquaticbisexual]

🥺💗

[celebrate-lesbianism]

Dear butches,

You are not second place to a man. You are not an experiment, a backup plan, or a shameful secret. You are someone's first choice and she will love you, all of you, as you are. She will treat you like a serious and equal partner, she will be proud to be with you, and your love will see the light of day 🧡

[theehorsepusssy]

[transfem-goddess-author]

Not if I can impregnate her first

[ralfmaximus]

Happy Satan Impregnates His Bride season to those who celebrate.

[not-a-space-alien]

It's honestly such a shame that we've made such a huge thing out of swimming and swimsuits and looking good in swimsuits and fat people not looking good in swimsuits. Swimming is actually the perfect exercise for fat people because it puts zero pressure on the joints, which is a much bigger concern for us than it is for skinny people, and lets you exercise basically every muscle group without straining too much and risking injury. Yet somehow this is one of the least accessible exercises to fat people due to nothing more than a culture of body shaming. The work to unlearn all the shame to be comfortable in a bathing suit in front of strangers is huge even for conventionally attractive people, but I could probably count on one hand the number of fat people I've met who were confident enough to get in a bathing suit and go swimming in public.

And what is the exercise that somehow everyone thinks they should do instead? Jogging. It's more accessible, sure, it's easy and costs nothing to go outside and run. But I need you to understand telling a fat person to go running is basically telling them to go destroy their knees. Not to mention it's probably one of the most physically uncomfortable exercises to do when you have a body that jiggles even with compression garments.

Imagine a world where everyone had the ability and equal access to whatever exercise fit them best and helped them be happy and healthiest. Imagine a world where fat people go swimming.

[not-a-space-alien]

Before any of the zero reading comprehension bitches get a hold of this post and do to it what they did to my other swimsuit post by saying the most annoying things on the planet: I go swimming. I am not self conscious in a bathing suit. I also don't shave my legs. I'm always the weirdest and most off-putting thing in the pool. I go swimming anyway, because I love it. Telling me "there's nothing stopping you from going swimming, just do it" would be completely missing the point. My point is I would like for it to be easier for others to get where I am, because I know how hard it was to get here.

[pop-punk-butch]

last minute trip to the petrified forest!

[semiaquaticbisexual]

how do you feel about femmeness in relation to your relationship now (wlw) vs a relationship with a man? curious as a non-bisexual

Thank you for asking me this! To me, being femme is an identity that depends on a role I take on in a relationship with another wlw/nb. When I was in relationships with men, there was no way for my role in the relationship to be "femme". To men, I would just be "Woman", and expected to "act like a Woman/do Woman things". Meanwhile, being in a wlw relationship at all is inherently subversive to gender roles, and each femme can act and present differently while still being femme. Personally, I thrive off of and crave being femme for my butch; being myself for my person. With men, and even with other women/nonbinary partners, I couldn't fully embrace identifying as a femme or taking on that role in a relationship since it simply wasn't compatible with my partners at the time. I'm thankful for finally discovering what I wanted from a relationship before I met my sweetheart, and now we have that together and are so happy🥰 @pop-punk-butch

Thanks for reading! This is just my own opinion from my experience:)

[semiaquaticbisexual]

why are you so hot it’s driving me crazy please stop that

:0 omg what!!!🤭🥰(you're so sweet, thank you)

[vampireapologist-archive-deacti]

hey I saw the bi woman using butch/femme post you reblogged and I just wanted to let you know that bi woman can't use butch/femme. Butch/femme is more than a label, it's part of lesbian culture. An aspect of it is being yourself and dressing and acting how you like But Not For Men, only for other lesbians. It's all about the complete exclusion of men. If bi woman are attracted to men, how can they be part of this culture?

Butch and femme identities have existed since a time when differentiating between lesbians and bi women wouldn't have been as crucial and common as simply making it known you were a woman interested in other women.

They are not part of a lesbian culture. They're part of the culture of women who love women.

That is our link and our solidarity. That we are women who love women. Cis women, trans women, lesbians, bi women, pan women, we are all unitied in our love and in our struggle.

When queer bars and groups faced violence and oppression in the past, do you think police and homophobes stopped and said "all the bisexual women here may leave. We'll only assault the lesbians." Do you think that'd happen now?

Get a grip. Bi and lesbian history is intrinsically and irrevocably intertwined.

On a personal note, the bi community is precious to me because I identified as bi for years before I realized I'm a lesbian, and my bi community supported me every step of the way and celebrated me when I came out as a lesbian. I don't identify as bi anymore of course, but that identity was an important stepping stone that will always be a part of me. Many others have gone through the same journey. Others start out identifying as lesbians, then realize they're bi. Do their butch or femme identities suddenly disappear? Does some lisence get revoked?

For reasons like this, the bi and lesbian communities are again, linked on a fundamental level that can't be separated.

I appreciate and understand that you see butch and femme as identities which exist to deny the involvement of men.

However, for me, these identities exist to focus on the involvement of women.

That includes bi women.

You're so focused on a bisexual woman's attraction to men that you forget her love for women.

You need to learn your own history.

[theoutermenace1986]

YOU'RE SO FOCUSED ON A BISEXUAL WOMAN'S ATTRACTION TO MEN THAT YOU FORGOT HER LOVE FOR WOMEN.

[semiaquaticbisexual]

I went to a national park with my girlfriend today and had so much fun, holding hands and kissing. I wonder if all the maga hat wearers and families pulling their kids away from us knew that I'm not a Real Lesbian, that I'm bisexual and like dudes too. She's my life partner, and for as long as society and my family will see me with her, I'll be perceived as a lesbian to them. Anyways, that's the post. Something for the biphobes to chew on. Ily lesbians and bisexuals:)

[semiaquaticbisexual]

So I heard people are being especially weird about bisexuals lately, so I'm going to try to be more active and visible on here:)

[pop-punk-butch]

beach bound butch

[pop-punk-butch]

ready for a hot tboy butch summer

[pop-punk-butch]

one of my favorite pics with my gf, where you can see how happy she makes me

[thesituation]

ppl on here get sooo mad when someone says you should be a little bit grateful for lgbt allies like sorry but i have homophobic overbearing parents & im used to people thinking gays are freaks and “groomers” so the concept of “cishet people who are willing to ally themselves with the lgbt liberation movement” is something i dont think ill ever take for granted. but thats just me i guess idk. yeah its praising the bare minimum but receiving the bare minimum allyship is a blessing when im used to deeply entrenched homophobia. i’d rather shit talk the people who actually want me dead instead of the cishets showing up at pride to day drink with drag queens. what does ridiculing them do except ruin the vibe :|

[cipher-of-the-round-table]

Right, considering the current state of corporate politics on this site, and that it seems that only those affected seem to be actively speaking on the matter, it is up to I, the only fucking cishet on tumblr, to drag this out to a wider audience.

REBLOG IF YOUR ACCOUNT IS A TRANSFEM SAFE SPACE.

We need to show these higher ups how much we truly value them.

[hauntingfaerie]

[blessyouhawkeye]

i love following richard siken on twitter