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things that resonate with me or inspire me

[gloomology-deactivated20240730]

[horrorharem]

“Labyrinth” 1986 Jennifer Connelly

[villaneve]

Sleeping In The Forest by Mary Oliver

[januaryhoney]

leaves and blossoms along the way, mary oliver

[karl-shakur]

Trevi Fountain, Rome, Italy by Karl-Shakur // Instagram 

[hella-lavish]

[lesbianherstorian]

a collection of vintage lesbian protest pins

[sunlitsuggestions]

don’t lose hope in yourself. a slip up, a relapse, an impulsive action doesn’t define you. you’re still doing well

[gawd-desses]

[bruwho]

@camillelenore

[archbudzar]

(C.B)(8.25.18)

[wontlie]

[mullingar]

‘a voice from i dont know where’, by mary oliver

[oaluz]

Everyone’s always like, “Be your best self!” And that drives me bananas, because when you’re not, it makes you feel really bad. And so someone asked me the other day, “When are you your best self?” and I said, “When I make space for my worst self.” Like if you ask yourself, “How long will it take to do this particular thing?” and you’re freaking out like, “I don’t know! It’s going to take me so long! I don’t know! Ten years?!” Well … what if you give yourself ten years? “Oh. Okay.” And then somehow, the thing you thought would take ten years only takes a week. Give yourself permission to actually let something take as long as it takes.

My standard of perfection often paralyzes me, or makes me terrified, or makes me feel ashamed. Instead, if I can make space for the idea that the goal is not to be perfect, but the goal is to be me, then I get to revel in the mixed bag of what it is to be a human. Some moments are good, some are bad. Some days are good, some days are bad. We live in a culture where people are constantly telling us how to get what we want, and within that message is, You need to be something other than you are. So my antidote to that has been, What if the goal is not to get what I want, but to discover who I am, be who I am, and accept that? Because strangely, that takes courage!

Tracee Ellis Ross

[tordenvejr]

[o66e]

[lamignonette]