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Ain’t that the truth…
Who is getting a hug today? Or needs a hug??
Thanks to all who have suffered through old Tumblr - and who followed me to BDSMLR.
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This - as you will find throughout the blog - is “Kitten”.
Spot Discipline at Church
At times, as an Elder in the church, i am called upon to handle disciplinary situations when childish behavior occurs.
Two women were overheard gossiping, and talking badly about several church members. This type of behavior is not becoming, for mature women.
To add to it, both of them said these comments around young children - so, after i pulled them in to the church rec room, for a discussion, and to inform them that after a chat with the Pastor, the belief was on the spot punishment.
At times, having to watch another persons punishment, knowing you are next, and that the one you watched will be observing your punishment, the exposure and shared pain makes the discipline a bit more personal, and hopefully a better lesson learned.
This hopefully will be a final step.. but both were warned if this type of behavior is seen again, there would be a more formal punishment session, much longer, and with something more severe than a hand spanking.
Have you ever been punished in front of another? Or watched someone being punished?
How did it affect you?
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When the new “Man” cannot handle her Properly
While dating for over a year, Emily and I decided to break up.
About 2 months ago, out of the blue, I got a call.
It was a guy named Glen, and he told me he was dating Emily, and could we talk.
Absolutely I said..
He hemmed and hawed a bit, but finally tried to ask if Emily was ever, um, not nice.
I laughed and said, “oh, you mean a bratty bitch?”
Glen relaxed and told me that indeed, that was what he meant.
Then he asked, “How did you handle that?”
I told him simply, “I took her over my lap, or over a table, and used a hand, hairbrush, paddle, leather belt or anything else i found nearby, to help refocus her attitude”
There was silence, and then finally Glen said, “I don’t think i could do that”
Typical, I thought - keeping my opinion to myself.
I told Glen, “She is a hell of a girl, but needs a strong guy and a firm hand”. I also knew she was part alpha and needed ultimately to date a guy she could dominate, and that wasn’t me.. She had sub-tendancies, but not as a normal day to day person.
Glen asked, “What should I do?”
I told Glen, “Send her over to my office. I will take care of what needs to be done”
“Um, Won’t that be a bit odd that you and she are alone for that?” Glen asked?
I told Glen, “You are welcome to come with her Glen, or she can have you on the phone. All good.. She is happy with you I am sure, so i am just offering you my help. If you want, send her over Thursday at 5″
At 5:00 PM on Thursday, Emily showed up. Looking good, and the tell tale bitchy smirk look on her face.
She told me, “I can’t believe Glenn called you, and that he said I should come visit”
I smiled and said, “Well, I guess he found out i was the one who could tame the “Bitch” at times”
Emily laughed and came in to the office. The staff was heading home.
Emily saw a hair brush and leather strap on the desk and blushed. She remembered them well.
Then, without further ado, i told her her go over the desk, and after handing her a pillow, i told her to call Glen.
The rest went smoothly - I began with my hand, over the skirt, then over the panties - making her tell Glen her skirt was being lifted. He needed to know it would be a real spanking, not some over the clothes crap.
All during the session - I made her tell Glen what was happening and making her apologize. If was fun starting out easy, and having her think it was fun, but as the swats and pressure increased, she knew it was punishment.
Glen was not in tune enough to know that half of Emily’s moans were pain, and half were from growing arousal.
When it started to get to the point where she needed her panties off, and when i was going to use the leather strap, i told her to tell Glen that she would be different when she got home in about an hour.
After she hung up, i told her to undress, and as she went back over the dress, i reminded her what the leather strap was meant to do.
Tears, apologies and a re-focused and better attitude later, I had accomplished what Glen wanted.. A re-balanced woman.
As i was putting away the belt, Emily came over and hugged me. She still felt and smelled great.
Then she went down to her knees and started to undo my pants. Taking me in to her mouth she smirked and said, “Isn’t this where I am supposed to thank the man who cares enough to discipline me?“
Feeling the warmth of her mouth after all this time I nodded and said, “I am glad a naughty girl, when punished and becomes a good girl again, remembers”
Taking her mouth off me for a moment, she said, “I trust that this part of the future sessions won’t have to be shared with Glen”
As she took me expertly in her mouth again, with all the skill she had ever shown, iI told myself, “No, Glen doesn’t need to know that the one who disciplines gets thanked properly”
**Who would love to have a disciplinarian to visit on a regular basis?”
**As a Counselor - I have people at times tell me that the posts I make, cannot possibly be about real events. I work to explain that while names and some details may change - to protect - in essence, many of my posts discuss real events that explore forms of sexual dominance, submission - in every day life.. as is the theme of my blog.
I state - truth, life, what happens in our neighborhoods is in many ways stranger than fiction. I have people share their background, as reading posts has helped them to feel their story, their life, their manifested desires - are not a form of guilt any more.
Now, in the headlines today, we read about an actress, Allison Mack - (”Smallville”) is alleged to be one of the top people in a cult - a group in which she led a sorority of women - who had to pledge to find other female slaves, or be punished themselves - asking to be branded as part of the group. See the two articles provided (with sources at the end of each - and let me know your thoughts.. Is truth / life - stranger than fiction?
**And tell me - after reading the articles - looking in the eyes of Allison Mack - can you see her as the head of Sorority? Instituting and delivering Punishment to other women?
Here is the link to the more sanitized USA today article - below are two other articles in full: https://www.usatoday.com/story/life/people/2018/04/20/smallville-actress-allison-mack-charged-sex-trafficking-role-nxivm-cult/537531002/
Counselor’s Notes: Lacy’s Young Neighbor finds her Journal
Lacy explained to me, the downside of a diary. The act of writing down your thoughts, your desires.
When the family moved in next door, she began noticing the older teen. Even though this young woman was the same age as her daughter, she was intoxicated by the fresh, sexy blond haired girl.
Not only did Lacy find her attractive, she found it intense to see her husband look upon her, to see him pause longer than would be appropriate - to see his eyes gaze up and down the young girls incredibly long legs, or when she came home from volleyball practice, how the teens bottom looked so amazing in the shorts.
Keeping her desires to herself - but writing them in her journal, she began write about the dark thoughts in her mind. It began with her seducing the young girl, tenderly undressing her, pleasing her. Then it turned to a side she never imagined.
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As a Counselor and Disciplinarian - this is my favorite implement of choice. (Face View)
Wood handle but a wide piece of supple leather.
Thinner and stiff belts, that most men wear during the week are not good, as they have the ability to cut.
The goal - as seen here, is to start off, with the pants on - building a feeling of “It’s not that bad”.
Then you do the next set - just the panties, and very little protection, but still in their mind, doesn’t expose them. Notice the way to use the “sit spot” where the bottom cheek rounds nicely.
Then, and especially hard for the spankee if others are watching, the panties come down. You can add to the time by having pants and panties all the way off, and then instead of legs together, lean against of over something, and legs spread wide.
This is the perfect way to see for a form of Domestic discipline, as you can tell by body language and sounds, she has not reached her limit until just the end where the breathing becomes more ragged and she has to choke bag the whimper and crying out.
Is there any sound more lovely then the sound of a whimper and leather striking the bottom - or watching the face as the bottom becomes more tender..
**Whether Dominant or Submissive - what do you prefer to watch? The actual punishment? Or the face?
The Video Store
Guest Writer: Sylvia Ann Ginger
I was 18 when I got my first job at the local video store. Inexperienced but was a huge movie buff and really wanted the job. I was nervous about interviewing or even working, but it was time to stop having Daddy take care of me now that I was back at home from college unexpectedly. So I got my interview and to my surprise I was hired. What I wasn’t to happy about was that I would be working the closing shift, and because it wasn’t busy in the evening, I would have to be by myself. But hey, how hard could it be?
It took about a week for me to be trained and then it was, “you’re on your own now.” The store was off of a quiet road, the kind you see in scary movies, but my town was small and really never any crime, just some kids shoplifting every now and again. So nothing to really worry about. After my second week working there a man started coming in nightly. He would disappear into the curtained off room in the back. The room with all of the porn and fetish flicks. He would stay in there for quite some time before he came out with his selection. It was embarrassing for me to ring him in. The DVDs were always the kind with bondage and spanking. We actually had a pretty big selection of that too. I found it odd considering it is such a taboo subject.
There was something dark about this man, but that intrigued me and made me nervous. It also excited me and gave me little butterflies in my stomach, even made me a little damp in my panties. The thought of him watching these flicks made me even more intrigued. I had a little secret and that secret was my fascination with anything having to do with spanking. Daddy had whipped my butt from the age of 12 till I was almost 17. College would be my savior from that. But when I got caught cheating on an exam I was thrown out of school and lost my scholarship, Daddy was livid and you can imagine how badly he blistered my ass for it.
Now I attend a small community college and the rules are, as long as I live with Daddy, my butt is not spared the belt when I misbehave, disrespect, or get caught doing something that is unacceptable, it’s a trip to his study. What is ironic about this job was I started getting the belt when my best friend and I were in a video store and got caught attempting to steal. Daddy used his old fraternity paddle on me but took me shopping to pick out a belt, that belt would become frenemies with my backside for years to come.
I hated that brown belt, but my body betrayed me when I got a little older. The thought of getting a whipping gave me butterflies. Waiting over the desk, making me wet, hoping Daddy didn’t see that my pussy was glistening from intense arousal. And because no whipping was ever with panties on, bare from the waste down, it became a constant worry for me. It was always ½ hour after that I would have to stay over the desk while he sat in front of me. Not able to rub the sting and throbbing from my strapped skin.
The first time I masturbated was after one of my younger teen whippings, and it was just an amazing and intense climax for me. So although I was terrified when I knew a trip to his study was inevitable, my pussy would be rewarded afterwards. Nothing made me more wet then that belt. I have always felt weird because of it, but it is what it is.
Now working at this video store gives me time alone. Time to write when nobody is in the store. Time to fantasize, time to reflect. After a month or so of working and seeing this man every night he finally said something to me.
“You know, a pretty young lady like you shouldn’t be working alone at night, especially off of this quiet road.”
Being the shy type that I was I just smiled as I put his DVDs in a bag.
“It’s alright mister, this is a quiet town, I’m not worried.”
As he took the bag of DVD’s he grinned.
“Well you make sure to be careful, you never really know, always keep your guard up.”
He gave me a menacing look as he left the video store, leaving me to feel a little unsettled. I looked at the clock and it was just about closing time. So I closed up the register, put any returned DVD’s back on the shelves, and vacuumed. But forgot to lock the front door like I always do. And I was really horny for whatever reason. Maybe it was that man…Or maybe I just needed to get off. So now that everything was put away I went behind the curtain. Cock, tits, pussy, ass, dildos, butt plugs, whips, crops, ball gags, etc. were all over the covers of these movies. And because this was a closed off room there was a small flat screen with a DVD player. Well, this girl needed to play with her wet kitten.
Skimming over the DVD’s I found one that looked appealing. There was a belt with a red lipstick mark on it. The title. “The Leather Kiss.” Fuck yes, this is what I want to watch. I couldn’t get it in the DVD player fast enough. I also couldn’t get my jeans and panties down fast enough. The opening scene was of a college aged girl, bent over a desk, legs spread, and a man folding over a brown belt, walking in front of her, grabbing a handful of her hair, telling her to put on her red lipstick and kiss the belt. Wow that’s hot! I sat in the floor with my legs spread, licking my fingers before slowly circling my clit. What I was doing was so very wrong and would get me fired. The video was making me hotter and hotter. He started whipping her, the red stripes appearing almost instantly,
I rubbed and fingered myself like I street whore. But I didn’t want to cum yet, I wanted to watch more. So I slowed down the pace, only to watch him place the belt on her lower back, unzip his pants, and unleash his cock.
“You know what ‘cums’ next young lady don’t you?”
He grabbed a clock and set a timer for 30 minutes.
“Start sucking, but if you make me cum with that lovely mouth of yours before that timer goes off, I’m going to whip your slutty wet pussy with that belt. Do you think I don’t see how wet you get from a whipping?”
My mouth was wide open, I actually slapped my face to make sure I wasn’t dreaming up what I was watching and hearing. But I wasn’t. Now I was licking my lips as I watched her mouth wrap around the head of his manhood, sinking down to the base. Oh yeah, this is so hot! I began to really play with myself now. But then, in a split second, I had the living daylights scared out of me.
“My-my, is this what you do when you close every night little lady?”
I squealed and jumped to my feet. Scurrying to pull my panties and beans back up. Heart just about pounding out of my chest. It was that man, what the fuck?
“How…How did you get in here? We’re…We are closed, you have to leave.”
He came closer and caressed my cheek.
“Hmmm my lovely, I locked the door and turned off the open sign, you really shouldn’t be so careless forgetting to keep yourself safe.”
My eyes widened with fear and I went to scream when he put a ball gag on me.
“Hmmm, you can scream all you want my dear, nobody will hear you.”
My eyes were welling up with tears.
“Awe, don’t cry my little pet, I haven’t given you a reason to, not just yet anyway…Save those tears, you’re going to need them for being such a careless and naughty girl…”
To be continued…
(Kitten was / is the most amazing woman I have had the pleasure to meet. I hope she knows how much i think of her)
Examples of Dominance and Submission in the Neighborhood
With what I see as a Counselor, I think many would be surprised at how much, and in how many forms of control are found day to day.
As I begin to post more of these experiences that I find, I hope in someway people recognize examples of experiences they have, that they are not alone, or that others explore in ways that many of my readers desire or enjoy.
As in the Counselor’s office, there is no true right or wrong - it is finding peace in what your mind and body responds to in your day to day life.
Maryann began working at an earlier age. Living on a resort island, most of the jobs for teens were in the hotel or restaurant industry.
She had expected him to be like all the other men -
The ones that took advantage of girls like her - and her past.
Once men found out about her scars - the ones inside, that had made her feel like she had no worth, they merely used the vessel and then went on their way.
Her past was the foundation - and each encounter was another brick that added to her walls. If all they wanted was her body - that was all they would have.
He was her Professor the spring semester. He taught English Literature. She struggled with Shakespeare - but loved his intensity. So many books and authors - it was a whole new world to her. He treated her with respect - but also pushed her when she struggled. She didn’t know how to describe it. He was commanding like the men she had been with before - but there was a comfort to it - she had no way to describe it, except it was different - safer.
After the last day of class - he asked of her summer plans. She dropped her head. Near tears she said she was out of money, and her parents had told her she was unwelcome due to their only surface understanding of her past.
He told her - he had room in his country house - and he had a small library there. He said it was up to her. He saw a spark in her desire for learning - and felt she was destined for much more than she had ever believed in her self.
He handed her an envelope - with a map, address and money.
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That Summer
It was the fateful summer when Melissa’s younger cousin April came to stay with them.
She knew the submissive city girl was the one she wanted, needed, desired.
After a few weeks of kissing, touching, teasing, Melissa told April she wanted to show her an old house near the back of their property.
Melissa’s mom watched her daughter lead her cousin down the path. She smiled, knowing both of them would come back as young women, both understanding more about themselves and their needs.
Melissa’s mom knew that Melissa had been peeking and watching now for over a year, when she had her submissive girlfriend over. Knowing Melissa watched when she was spanked, made to climax, made to please, trained to submit.
Melissa’s mom would give them a little while, before she quietly followed them down to the old house, to peer inside and to listen, to see how much Melissa had learned and grown.
**Did you experience this growing up? Can you see the intensity of learning to climax while being spanked?
**Can you see and feel how hypnotic it was as her climax built, the spanking became harder - the sensations peaked - until the crashing crescendo of both came together.
Counselor’s Notes: Emily Explains how she develops her Young Submissives’
I asked my friend Emily, how she knew? How did she develop the girls she was teaching, to be enjoyed throughout the school year?
Smiling, Emily began to tell me how she begins each class year at the private girls school where she has tenure as a History teacher.
When the new “Man” cannot handle her Properly
While dating for over a year, Emily and I decided to break up.
About 2 months ago, out of the blue, I got a call.
It was a guy named Glen, and he told me he was dating Emily, and could we talk.
Absolutely I said..
He hemmed and hawed a bit, but finally tried to ask if Emily was ever, um, not nice.
I laughed and said, “oh, you mean a bratty bitch?”
Glen relaxed and told me that indeed, that was what he meant.
Then he asked, “How did you handle that?”
I told him simply, “I took her over my lap, or over a table, and used a hand, hairbrush, paddle, leather belt or anything else i found nearby, to help refocus her attitude”
There was silence, and then finally Glen said, “I don’t think i could do that”
Typical, I thought - keeping my opinion to myself.
I told Glen, “She is a hell of a girl, but needs a strong guy and a firm hand”. I also knew she was part alpha and needed ultimately to date a guy she could dominate, and that wasn’t me.. She had sub-tendancies, but not as a normal day to day person.
Glen asked, “What should I do?”
I told Glen, “Send her over to my office. I will take care of what needs to be done”
“Um, Won’t that be a bit odd that you and she are alone for that?” Glen asked?
I told Glen, “You are welcome to come with her Glen, or she can have you on the phone. All good.. She is happy with you I am sure, so i am just offering you my help. If you want, send her over Thursday at 5″
At 5:00 PM on Thursday, Emily showed up. Looking good, and the tell tale bitchy smirk look on her face.
She told me, “I can’t believe Glenn called you, and that he said I should come visit”
I smiled and said, “Well, I guess he found out i was the one who could tame the “Bitch” at times”
Emily laughed and came in to the office. The staff was heading home.
Emily saw a hair brush and leather strap on the desk and blushed. She remembered them well.
Then, without further ado, i told her her go over the desk, and after handing her a pillow, i told her to call Glen.
The rest went smoothly - I began with my hand, over the skirt, then over the panties - making her tell Glen her skirt was being lifted. He needed to know it would be a real spanking, not some over the clothes crap.
All during the session - I made her tell Glen what was happening and making her apologize. If was fun starting out easy, and having her think it was fun, but as the swats and pressure increased, she knew it was punishment.
Glen was not in tune enough to know that half of Emily’s moans were pain, and half were from growing arousal.
When it started to get to the point where she needed her panties off, and when i was going to use the leather strap, i told her to tell Glen that she would be different when she got home in about an hour.
After she hung up, i told her to undress, and as she went back over the dress, i reminded her what the leather strap was meant to do.
Tears, apologies and a re-focused and better attitude later, I had accomplished what Glen wanted.. A re-balanced woman.
As i was putting away the belt, Emily came over and hugged me. She still felt and smelled great.
Then she went down to her knees and started to undo my pants. Taking me in to her mouth she smirked and said, “Isn’t this where I am supposed to thank the man who cares enough to discipline me?“
Feeling the warmth of her mouth after all this time I nodded and said, “I am glad a naughty girl, when punished and becomes a good girl again, remembers”
Taking her mouth off me for a moment, she said, “I trust that this part of the future sessions won’t have to be shared with Glen”
As she took me expertly in her mouth again, with all the skill she had ever shown, iI told myself, “No, Glen doesn’t need to know that the one who disciplines gets thanked properly”
**Who would love to have a disciplinarian to visit on a regular basis?”
When Bill was caught peeking in the women’s employee locker room, and caught red-handed trying to steal a pair of panties, the girls that caught him, went to the office manager.
She shut the door, and with the women in the office, she gave him the option. They take him to HR, he gets fired, and they even might file a police report. OR - he could agree to weekly punishment, by the women.
Bill lowered his head, not realizing he should have taken the first offer.
The first afternoon of his first punishment session in the back warehouse, the Office Manager, with the other two women watching, told him to strip completely and then she showed the women the long thin rod she brought from home.
Making Bill go over a chair, the two women watched in wonder as the Office Manager made him regret his peeking and theft, an his decision to agree to the punishment.
The bad part for Bill, was being naked in front of the women he wanted to spy on, his body betrayed him.
As the Office Manager continued his punishment - she smirked and said, “I wonder how harsh the punishment has to be before he either cums or goes soft?”