It’s not easy!
I totally get that having a cuckquean may be the dream of a lot of men, but it is a LOT of work.
It isn’t easy.
It takes a lot of patience and communication for the man. Just when you think you can’t talk or reassure one more time, you are called to talk or reassure.
A cq will love this lifestyle, hate it a few minutes later, need it after that, and then maybe cry before orgasming. She’ll hate that she has so little say or brag about all the power she wields.
Your wife/girlfriend/spouse/partner can’t ever take a back seat, but the other women have needs that will need to be met.
From my talks with so many other lovely cqs on tumblr, a few themes are very common: there always seems to be drama with someone. Jealous. A fight. An Other unsure if she can continue- and yet she comes crawling back (this one happens so much to every gal I talk to).
Is this the case for everyone involved in cuckqueaning? Absolutely not. Is it the norm? From my own personal experience and the experience of the women that reach out to me, it is.
It’s not ALL sexy porn star stuff. Not all women on their knees eager to blow you without you having to do a bit of work. This can be very very tough for the man too, just in different ways.
It is fun, it is hot, it is tough.