Reaver

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[shadow-maker]

Getting surgery at the start of next week so please follow my new blog to keep me company! lol

[shadow-maker]

Btw I don't use this account anymore

[animentality]

[droideka-exe]

NB 👏 Does 👏 Not 👏 Mean 👏 Woman 👏 Lite

[hbbisenieks]

every single person who uses “nonbinary” as a stand-in for “people i consider to be women” needs to do some work on themselves, no matter their gender, sexuality, or any other marginalization

[dimitrescs]

i just love werewolf transformation sequences, like YES. let me hear bones shift and break.. skin stretch and rip wide open

[halorvic]

how have you been?

[halorvic]

Update:

[halorvic]

—-

🎉

[shadow-maker]

Happy new year

[botw2]

how it feels getting “new follower” notifications right now

[junkball]

[momolady]

are you gonna get over yourself and post stories again? Only one got stolen, take it as a compliment!

No.

[monster-bait]

I had exclusive Patreon content scraped from my site this week and publicly posted in a Discord server, the same server I later found out pirated and posted one of my books, so I'm probably not in the best mood to react to something like this on behalf of my friend, but Anon, why don't you take ALL of the fucking seats.

Want a story? Write it. Take time out of your day, week, month; come up with the characters and plots, flesh out the storyline until it's something you're happy with. Write it yourself.

Oh, you want someone else to write if for you? Someone else's time and effort? Someone else's creativity and ideas and eyestrain? Gotcha, can do. Pay them.

Ohhhhh, you mean you just want someone else's work for free?? You want to disrespect the people whose time and effort you expect a piece of? You want to minimize the frustration of being stolen from, of having our livelihoods pick-pocketed, and our ideas and creativity ripped away from us? Well, then I stand by my first paragraph - you can take a fucking seat.

Don't like that? Try getting over yourself.

[aelia-likes-monsters]

Fucking. Pay. Artists. 

Not only is there the time spent creating the specific piece you’re reading/viewing, but there’s all the time learning the skill, mastering the art-form, etc. 

All of that time has value, so when you look at how little most artists/writers are charging for their work, they’re getting paid a pittance for the actual amount of labor that goes into what you’re seeing. 

And then some asshat goes and steals their work, and of-fucking-course they’re both angry and demoralized. Acting like @momolady​ or @monster-bait​ is somehow out of line for being pissed that their work was stolen, or they should be flattered that their work was worth stealing is disgusting. 

Respect the labor that goes into art no matter what the format is, whether it’s a drawing, a story, or anything else. It has value, and if you don’t see that, you’re the asshole. 

[shadow-maker]

NO BRAIN NOOOO i dont WANT more WIP ideas!!

[shadow-maker]

I've spent the better part of a decade building my career and now I'm a 30 year old data analyst

when did i become so boring

[shadow-maker]

there's too many tattoos i want and too little body space

[shadow-maker]

i really need to get my tattoo covered up in 2023

i've had it for 13 years and i've hated it for about 10 of those lol

[shadow-maker]

depression is a bitch but so am i

[shadow-maker]

i don't know why I always look at different brands of headphones when i know for a fact i'm just going to buy the exact same ones i've just had

[shadow-maker]

it's because they're comfy, fit well on my head, bluetooth so no annoying wires, noise cancelling, go SUPER loud, bass levels that reverberate throughout my skull and make my brain bounce around like the gray meat jelly it is

so why mess with what works lol

[ruffboi-mags]

Hi hello fellow trans and queer ppl.

Let’s fucking stop with this “cracking eggs” thing? with potential trans ppl?

Like, motherfuckers, you know what happens when you crack an egg that isn’t ready to hatch yet? IT FUCKING DIES. If you crack an egg that isn’t already hatched, it FUCKING DIES.

So maybe stop trying to fucking “crack” eggs that aren’t out already. It’s almost as if our society is not particularly trans-friendly and there could be any number of reasons why someone wouldn’t be happy to be “cracked”, let alone the fact that people can be femme or masc and still not be trans.

Just stop.

Don’t crack eggs.

It’s not good for anyone.

If they’re an egg, they’ll hatch when they’re ready. Maybe focus your efforts on building a place where eggs are comfortable settling to hatch.

[ruffboi-mags]

#queer stuff #for real this isn’t a fucking SPORT #it’s people’s lives #and if you fuck it up you either send people deeper into the closet or you make them come out earlier than they’re ready #and alienate them from their friends and family #if you think you see an egg NO YOU DON’T #if you have some connection to them then you love and support them and point out the similarities in your experience… #you don’t try to tell them what they are #eggs are only cracked externally by someone who wants to consume them #if you had their best interests in mind… you let them crack themselves (via @taibhsearachd)

“Eggs are only cracked externally by someone who wants to consume them.”

YOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO YES.

EXACTLY.

Like…if you’re trying to “crack an egg” before they’re ready to crack themselves, you’re doing it for a 100% selfish reason. No I don’t care what egg you’re talking about. If you’re trying to crack them before they naturally crack themselves, you are a selfish, self-centered black hole. Fuck off. I do NOT want you in my fuckin trans community.

YOU are the problem. Fuck right off.

[ashelyskies-deactivated20241121]

The term “egg” should exist for trans people to use in self reference (or between trans people that are already comfortable with the term being used for them), example: “As a kid I liked the color pink and all my friends were girls, I was such an egg”.

We shouldn’t be slapping the term onto anyone who isn’t 100 percent gender conforming, that’s rude to GNC folks, rude to closetted trans folks that are closetted for a reason, etc.

[mortimermcmirestinks]

reminder that turtles also exist and if you try to crack a turtle like it’s an egg It Also Fuckin Dies

[ruffboi-mags]

w… I… I mean yeah, but.. why are we talking about turtles?????

[mortimermcmirestinks]

copypasted from my answer to someone’s ask about this:

so it was a kinda shoddy metaphor I made up on the spot but what I meant was that some people explore their gender identity and come to the conclusion that they’re cis, and pressuring them to “come out” as trans might hurt them

although just in case there’s any doubt:

trans people are VALID

nonbinary people are VALID

terfs can get fucked

if anyone sees this post and tries to use it to spread transphobic bullshit I’m gonna be under their bed tonight with a knife

[ruffboi-mags]

That makes sense! They both have shells, but trans ppl get to come out of theirs, and cis ppl are happy with theirs and will thrive with them, and trying to force anybody into a box with an industrial crusher is going to hurt the person and cause an unnecessary mess.