Shadows-BJD-Blog

I will be deleting the other blog due to the fact that i made it under our main blog and that did not work for me. Hello my name is Shadow. If you want to get to know me you'll have to ask. I love ball jointed dolls and I am currently planning to save up for my very own legit doll. I do share a recast doll with my partner and we love her very much. She was gifted to us before we knew what recast meant but that will not stop us from loving her. As I said before I will be saving to get my own real doll and do not plan on buying any recasts. That said, I have NOTHING against anyone who owns or buys recast dolls. That is none of my business. If you feel the need to yell at or bully anyone with a recast doll then please stay far from me. I am not looking to pick fights or start anything. I am only here to enjoy the dolls. I will be posting a lot of doll related things but of course I have other intrests. -Shadow

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I can’t wait to get my shirt from @staroblivion Amon will look awesome in it~! 💜 #Amon #doll #boy #male #bjd #balljointeddoll #ball #jointed #souldoll #soul #Albee #Kids #sizekids #mydoll #prettyguy #pretty #beautiful #white #hair #long

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Still have a few of these #beautiful size 6 wigs Available through my #etsy Monstrodesigns.etsy.com

#bjd #abjd #balljointeddoll #asianballjointeddoll #doll #raspberry #asella #nobledolls #fashion #dollstagram #picoftheday #love #awesome #bjdwig #blackandwhite #cute

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Akroma by Darek Donnfhlaidh on Flickr.

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After nearly 5 years Quinn finally has proper coloured eyebrows. #bjd

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Sans titre par byouyuuken

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Now in stock: Turqouise Teal by Hasel-Anne van Stormbroek This color is a personal favorite of mine. It looks especially amazing on tan skin!

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♥  Nervous Nervous   ♥  

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Dillon’s highlights from Doll north

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by  Anastacia Beloved 

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Xhanthi is a super talented faceup artist, and even better is extremely approachable and freely shares tutorials on how she does her work

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Image by Xhanthi

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New Face Up for Maya par Miyukisetsu

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FACE UP&Change【Iplehouse-Claude】 par Aunus

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last night I got around to making eden’s natural hair wig, which I had planned for her before she even arrived. washing all the wool was tedious, so I kept putting it off. I learned a lot about the material and technique, so hopefully I will give another one a go since this one has some (hidden) mistakes.

I’m really happy with the texture and colour though! next up: a new faceup with hopefully less intense frosting than this @-@

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What are you dreams?

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Social skills: noticing when repetition is communication

So there’s this dynamic:

Autistic person: The door is open!

Other person: I *know* that. It’s hot in here.

Autistic person: The door is open!

Other person: I already explained to you that it’s hot in here!

Autistic person: The door is open!

Other person: Why do you have to repeat things all the time?!

Often when this happens, what’s really going on is that the autistic person is trying to communicate something, and they’re not being understood. The other person things that they are understanding and responding, and that the autistic person is just repeating the same thing over and over either for no reason or because they are being stubborn and inflexible and obnoxious and pushy.

When what’s really happening is that the autistic person is not being understood, and they are communicating using the words they have. There’s a NT social expectation that if people aren’t being understood, they should change their words and explain things differently. Sometimes autistic people aren’t capable of doing this without help.

So, if this is happening, assume it’s communication and try to figure out what’s being communicated. If you’re the one with more words, and you want the communication to happen in words, then you have to provide words that make communication possible. For example:

Other person: Do you want the door to be closed, or are you saying something else?

Autistic person: Something else

Other person: Do you want to show me something outside, or something else?

Autistic person: Something else

Other person: Are you worried about something that might happen, or something else?

Autistic person: Worried

Other person: Are you worried that something will come in, or that something will go out?

Autistic person: Baby

Other person: She’s in her crib, and the baby gate is up. Is that ok, or is there still a problem?

Autistic person: ok

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Holy fuck.

This changes everything.

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*leaves for reference*

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I babysat an autistic kid for a few years, it’s hard to understand how their brain works sometimes but when you click, everything pays off. patience and love, my friends.

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