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iminato

Reblog if you have mourned the death of a fictional character.

ianoshea

If you do not reblog this you are in fact lying.

itsbeeugaymers

…..so….so so many….

cee4bugza

steinerscrewdriver

Learn this list so you are up to date with Zack Sabre Jr's list of submission holds

Article 50 (Cross armbreaker)

Barry from Eastenders (Grounded abdominal stretch)

Cremation Lily (Double omoplata / Figure-four stump puller combination)

Clarky Cat / Jim Breaks Armbar (Omoplata stepover scissored armbar)

Clarky Cat (Bad Balloon Remix) (Stretch Muffler / Armlock combination)

Clarky Cat G1 34 Winner Tekkers Version (Calf slicer / omoplata stepover scissored armbar combination)

How About These Legs/You Can't Play Conkers In England (Standing armlock cross hold)

Hurrah! Another Year, Surely This One Will Be Better Than The Last; The Inexorable March of Progress Will Lead Us All to Happiness (Double armbar octopus hold)

Hypernormalisation (Back-mounted inverted surfboard)

Orienteering with Napalm Death (Stretch Muffler / Calf slicer combination)

Rear naked choke

Selected Technical Works Vol.2 (Indian deathlock/rear naked choke combination)

South Mimms Services (Elevated Fujiwara armbar)

Sunday Rail Engineering Works Replacement Bus Service (Heel hook)

Tesco Meal Deal (Head scissors/hammerlock combination)

Yes! I Am a Long Way From Home (Indian Deathlock/Octopus hold combination)

Young Boy Killer (Double leg-trap chickenwing Inverted facelock)

Jim Breaks Special (Elevated wristlock)

breathewiththeswitchblade

Happy Pride to Zack and Kenny🏳️‍🌈

viciousshipterminus

record scratch yep that's me, you're probably wondering how I ended up in this situation

offcampusdaily

#shook the book and they fell out

harrypairatesticles

@shadowydreams

#dippables #off campus #this scene lives in my head rent free

withmeeraki

some people want to misunderstand you. it protects them from facing the fact that they're the ones in the wrong. don't spend any energy on these people trying to prove their perception of you is wrong. it's like talking to a brick wall.

#self love #only you can be you

goddessdiary

When you’re uniquely and authentically you, you attract like-minded people that are meant for you. That’s why when you’re unhealed or insecure you attract the wrong people. If you’re a butterfly but care what moths think of you and try to act like a moth, you attract moths. If you take a step back, get to know yourself, and embrace who you really are, then and only then will you align with those that you’re meant to align with. Think about it, how can your future companion or friends find you if you’re disguised as someone else? Be unapologetically you, love yourself, heal yourself, and let go of the need for validation from others. Not only will you feel more free and become more confident, but you’ll become magnetic towards the people that were always meant to find you. Once you’re truly yourself and confident in your own skin, it will be as if everything is in black and white, and you’re the only thing in color to the right people.

yourhealingjournal

i hope you get to a point where you don’t need closure to have that event not be a thorn on your side any longer. i’m sorry it still hurts; i hope relief comes to you soon.

#once you get to that point it’s refreshing

mellarkslovergirl

Maturing is realising you needed to cut them off despite all the good times because of how drained and shitty they made you feel

ri0ting

you may need to hear this: cut them off.

people know what they’re doing. there is an intrinsic human knowledge of how relationships & friendships are meant to work. you don’t need to teach them how to treat you like a person. yes, there is a learning curve to every relationship where you learn how to mesh with each other, but you should not have to advocate for being treated with basic human decency.

nobody brings enough to the table for you to willingly put up with mistreatment. if you are safe to leave, then this is optional, and you have a one-up over them in this situation. don’t threaten to leave, just go. even that is a waste of your time. they should already know how to treat other people like they’re human. there is no excuse.

shadowydreams

never settle for anything less than being treated like a decent human being. once i’ve let those people go, it feels like a weight lifts off my shoulders. while i miss the memories of those relationships, but i’d rather not have those people in my life.

#cut them off #energy vampires #some people are in your life for a season #toxic relationship #toxic relationships