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Small Suggestively Spicy (but not Severely Smutty) Sinday Ask List.

Although there are some excellent - and entertainingly explicit - Sinday-themed ask lists available, I was asked by a couple of people to try creating one that was suitably unchaste, but without being too overtly graphic. I'm not sure if this is what those people had in mind, but I did my best.

How was your OC’s first sexual experience? Was it planned or spontaneous? Positive or negative? If they haven’t yet had any sexual experiences then how are they hoping their first experience will play out?

What is your OC’s usual choice of underwear? Would they opt for something racier if they were expecting to be undressing in front of a lover or a romantic conquest?

Do they have any area of their body that is particularly sensitive? If so then do they particularly like attention being paid to this area? Or does it rapidly become overstimulating?

What is their greatest anxiety or insecurity when it comes to sexual activity or romantic intimacy? Is this the result of a negative previous experience - or is it just a secret fear?

Has your OC ever had an experience – or been exposed to an idea – that awoke something in them sexually - or led to them developing an unexpected kink or preference?

How would your OC respond to being offered a large payment from an admirer in exchange for performing a striptease, posing nude or something yet more daring?

Does your OC have a secret crush? Do they ever fantasise about them? If they have an existing partner who is not said crush, then do they know about it?

Would they ever pay for sex - or do they need to know that the other person is only participating of their own volition? Conversely, would they ever have sex with someone to whom they were not attracted, either for money or just out of the goodness of their… heart.

What do they consider their best physical feature? Would their partner(s) or admirers agree?

Do they enjoy reading erotica or viewing pornographic material? Did (or would) they stop doing this once in a relationship? Or would it be something they would hope to enjoy with a partner?

How does your OC feel about roleplay – especially if requested by a sexual partner? Would they get into role with great enthusiasm, whilst utilising a range of props, accessories and possibly wigs? Or would they find the very idea excruciatingly embarrassing? Or would they try it and only then find they couldn’t avoid getting the giggles?

Is there a sexual act they avoid, or to which they will not consent? Is this due to a moral concern? Concern over discomfort or hygiene? Or a negative previous experience?

What physical qualities or parts of the body do they find most alluring in other people? Are there any that they find a bit less appealing?

Is your OC usually the one to make the first move? Or do they wait for the other person to initiate proceedings? Have they become more confident with this over time?

Are they usually in the mood for a sexual encounter at any given moment? Or do they need a particular set of circumstances or a gradual build-up before feeling suitably motivated?

Is your OC an exhibitionist? Do they favour skimpy beachwear or form-fitting outfits? Or are they modest or even shy about the way they present themselves?

Does your OC find certain smells enticing or seductive – perhaps a particular perfume or cologne; or possibly something less obvious such as engine grease or fuel – or even something more…raw, like fresh sweat?

What might your OC buy a lover or romantic partner, if they were looking for something saucy or suggestive? Scented massage oils? A set of racy underwear? A full set of leather implements and restraints? Or something else entirely?

What terms does (or would) your OC use for parts of the body? Do they tend to use strictly biologically accurate terms? Coy or cute euphemisms? Or do they find crude, or even vulgar, terms quite erotic when used with a lover?

Does your OC enjoy foreplay and like to extend it for some time? Or would they sooner get straight down to business as soon as possible? If their partner is differently wired in this regard then how do they compromise?

kaos-teorema

anatomie de l'enfer (catherine breillat, 2004)

knightclubbing

worry not my lord, allow me to unscrew that jar for you. i would not want for you to strain your hand or break a nail. alright. hmm. HMMMM. HNNNGRGHHHHHH. HNNGGHHHH HRRRRRGHHH. AAAAAARGHHHHHHH fucking. squire fetch me my grippy gloves

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🌿 * 𝐧𝐮𝐫𝐭𝐮𝐫𝐞𝐝 𝐧𝐚𝐭𝐮𝐫𝐞 : 𝚗𝚊𝚝𝚞𝚛𝚎-𝚋𝚊𝚜𝚎𝚍 𝚑𝚎𝚊𝚍𝚌𝚊𝚗𝚘𝚗 𝚙𝚛𝚘𝚖𝚙𝚝𝚜.

𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥𝐨𝐰 : what grief does your muse carry quietly, and how do they cope when no one is watching? 𝐨𝐚𝐤 : what gives your muse strength when everything feels uncertain? 𝐥𝐚𝐯𝐞𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐫 : what soothes your muse's mind when they are overwhelmed? how do they manage stress? 𝐫𝐨𝐬𝐞𝐦𝐚𝐫𝐲 : what memory does your muse hold onto most tightly, and why? 𝐛𝐢𝐫𝐜𝐡 : when was the last time your muse had to start over, and what did they leave behind? 𝐜𝐞𝐝𝐚𝐫 : what traditions or values does your muse consider sacred? 𝐢𝐯𝐲 : who or what has your muse clung to and why? 𝐣𝐮𝐧𝐢𝐩𝐞𝐫 : how does your muse protect the people they love? 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐥𝐞 : what parts of your muse are considered hard to love, and how do they deal with that? 𝐟𝐨𝐱𝐠𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 : what lies has your muse told to protect themself or someone else? how far are they willing to go? 𝐦𝐨𝐬𝐬 : where does your muse feel most safe, what does that look like? 𝐩𝐢𝐧𝐞 : what does endurance mean to your muse? 𝐰𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐚 : how do they express longing, especially for something or someone that they think they cannot have? 𝐚𝐥𝐨𝐞 : how does your muse heal - physically, emotionally, spiritually? 𝐦𝐚𝐫𝐢𝐠𝐨𝐥𝐝 : what does joy look like for your muse? how do they let themself feel it? 𝐚𝐬𝐡 : what has your muse lost that still haunts them? 𝐲𝐚𝐫𝐫𝐨𝐰 : what inner wounds does your muse hide? do they hide it behind humour or confidence? do they hide it at all? 𝐜𝐚𝐦𝐞𝐥𝐥𝐢𝐚 : what does love mean to your muse - how do they show it? how do they want to receive it? 𝐞𝐮𝐜𝐚𝐥𝐲𝐩𝐭𝐮𝐬 : when your muse needs clarity - who or what do they turn to? 𝐟𝐞𝐫𝐧 : are there any details from your muse's childhood that sticks with them - good or bad? 𝐛𝐚𝐦𝐛𝐨𝐨 : how does your muse handle change and adaptability - are they flexible or resistant?

phoenix-positivity

FODMAP ratings

Found all of these on pinterest and am sharing here because it's a good resource. (Note that these are just general recommendations for people with IBS to help reduce symptoms, but every person is different and will thus respond differently. Also would like to state that I'm anti diet-culture but medical dietary restrictions and accommodations are very different from fad diets.)

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ASTROLOGICAL HEADCANON MEME.

some various character analysis questions based off of space &&. the bodies that inhabit it. feel free to edit as you see fit.

[ MERCURY ] is your muse good at communication ? can they hold a proper conversation, or are they always finding an excuse to avoid small talk ?

[ VENUS ] how does your muse handle love ? do they believe themself to be deserving of it, and how capable are they of loving others ?

[ EARTH ] how grounded is your muse ? are they logical and straightforward, or are do they always have their head in the clouds ?

[ MARS ] when your muse gets angry, how does it show ? do they know how to control it, or do they let it consume them ?

[ JUPITER ] how does your muse see morality ? what do the words good and evil mean to them ?

[ SATURN ] is your muse all work and no play ? do they let responsibility consume them, or do they allow themselves breaks from time to time ?

[ URANUS ] can your muse handle change ? do they accept it with open arms, or will they try anything they can to make sure things say the same ?

[ NEPTUNE ] does your muse dream frequently ? if they do, what kind of dreams (or nightmares) do they have ?

[ PLUTO ] what is your muse's relationship with individuality ? do they feel that they need permission to be themself ?

[ CERES ] does your muse take care of themself ? do they neglect their needs to put others first ?

[ PALLAS ] how perceptive is your muse ? can they pick up on things other people don't ?

[ CHIRON ] what does your muse do to cope ? are their coping mechanisms healthy, or do they lean into bad habits to get through tough times ?