elephant love medley

a simple sideblog. call me amanda.

[javierbardem]

Hey, Captain? You gonna join us? Inverting the Pyramid of Success – TED LASSO (2021).

[kazs-inej]

#TRUE FANGIRL MOMENT

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[hollandershane]

GET TO KNOW ME MEME: 1/10 RELATIONSHIPS → MARK & LEXIE

I love you. I’ve always been in love with you. I will always be in love with you. Which is why you have to stay alive. We can get married. And you’re gonna become an amazing surgeon. We are gonna have two or three kids. So Sofia can have siblings. A sister and two brothers. We’re gonna be happy, Lex. You and me. We’re gonna have the best life, Lexie. You and me.

[messier-31-star]

Please do not mistake your attachment and sense of dependency or the trauma bond you share with someone for LOVE. You ended up in these relationships to learn that ATTACHMENT IS NOT LOVE!

[divya-adu]

I’ve been trying to prove how “lovable” I am my entire life. I thought if I impressed my father he’d want to be a better person. I thought if I cried enough to my mother she’d be more emotionally available. I thought if I made sure I gave my soul in relationships they’d love me the right way. I thought that if I gave everyone every piece of me they’d have no choice but to love me properly… yet, here I am at 21 still trying to prove to myself that I don’t need to prove I am easy to love. But I do, I have a desire to sell myself because I don’t know any other way.

How do you stop something so ingrained in you? I’ve never known a time where I wasn’t trying to convince someone that I was worthy of their love—sad part about this is I never questioned if THEY were worthy of me. I always wanted to be enough that people chose me but no one has ever been enough for me and I always choose them.

[spanish-mami-deactivated2019091]

I’m actually really insecure. I feel like I’m always gonna fuck things up or people will lose interest in me cause I’m too clingy or too passionate or too much of some other trait that bothers them

[shmwrites]

i fear that

i am

both

too much

yet

not enough

even at my best i’m a mess.

[bpddisaster]

having abandonment issues like

[bpd-bbyg]

it’s all just the same cycles of abandonment

092220

[bpdohwhatajoy]

I’m not even a person. I’m a graveyard for people who have left me. Their presences’ linger and haunt me.

[my-mental-maelstrom]

The eternal Borderline struggle wanting to be loving, supportive, involved, and concerned without being overbearing, invasive, bothersome, obsessive, and just Too Much™

[television]

SCHMIGADOON S01E03: Cross That Bridge

[nathandaily]

nathan scott + walking away 

[limitedseries]

Jess and Rory + All Too Well: The Short Film

[spencereid]

2.04 // 3.13

[newgirlcontent]

NEW GIRL (2011 - 2018) ━ 06.06 “Ready”