Yikes.

Dakota | He/They | You're doing a good job!

[strayadvice]

[teaboot]

Please don't ask me for relationship advice unless you are prepared to receive some truly upsetting information because some people are ready for the "He's exhibiting the literal textbook signs of a psychological abuser and you need to get away from him before he successfully cuts you off from your support network" talk and some people aren't

[teaboot]

FOR WHOEVER NEEDS A REMINDER:

There is never any justification for someone putting their hands on you in any way without your consent short of immediate risk of harm or death.

If someone tells you that "the way I'm acting is your fault because you know that doing X thing would make me do it and you chose to do it anyway" is just fancy bullshit talk for, "I know my behaviour is wrong, but I don't want to be held responsible for it so I'm pushing it on you"

Nothing good ever, ever comes from someone who tells you, "I don't want you talking about our relationship with anyone". This person cannot handle accepting responsibility and processing criticism so they need you to never, ever question them. That's easier if they control the narrative and your friends aren't there to cut in.

Nothing constructive comes from screaming.

"It's not like that all the time" is optimistic and sweet, but the truth is, it shouldn't be like that at all. Sweet words and gifts and gestures don't erase being frightened for yourself or for your loved ones. That is not normal. Don't minimize it.

It is not healthy or normal to be genuinely afraid of saying "no" to someone, for any reason at all. Violence, outbursts, retaliation, anything. You should not have to be afraid of someone's reaction to your boundaries.

You are not responsible for saving anyone. Even if you love them. Even if they have nobody else. At the end of the day, if they want to hurt themselves in any way, they will, and you can't stop them forever. People need to want to improve before they can actually improve, and if they're threatening to harm themselves to keep you around, they're using your love to hold themselves hostage. You do not decide their choices for them, and they don't get to shunt that off on you.

There will always be other people who can love you better. You will not be alone forever. This will not be the last time you care for someone like this and it will not be the last time someone cares for you

[teaboot]

This applies to ALL relationships btw

[medievaljournalist]

unfortunately the awful little freak everyone hates has saved the world so now we all have to try to be nice

[le-catman]

[lmaonade]

hey sorry if i was offputting and strange and bizarre and weird as fuck last night i was just being myself

[vaporsnake]

they should rewrite the bible so that jesus would be a hot 5'2 girl with a creampie fetish from missouri

[vaporsnake]

would you prefer if she had a different fetish tumblr user nutsacktorturer

[emry-stars-art]

Ok ok but royal au Andrew def does the Darcy hand flex™️ after any hand interaction with Abram

YOU UNDERSTAND MY VISION

[emry-stars-art]

Y’all got me thinking even more about this now

[cannibalchicken]

[evengirlierballs]

starting a collection of people who obliterate their food in impossible ways.

[cipher-wise]

[cherubcallremade]

im having a moment

[cherubcallremade]

im turning rbs off of this in 24hrs you have my express permission to repost this image as much as you desire idc.

[aurpiment]

Shout out to the ten primate species, four bat species, elephant shrews, and the Cairo spiny mouse. Nobody else gets it

[oarfjsh]

[tessa-the-duck]

here you are sweetie

[arisushanti]

if nora pulls a midnight sun and re-writes all for the game but in andrew’s perspective, i’d highkey eat that shit up

like i need to know what the FUCK was going on in that man’s head during all of book one

[emilyartstudio-s]

Business men ‼‼

[all-this-panic-still-no-disco]

the fact that the king’s men has five stars on amazon when i’ve never seen ANYTHING get five stars on amazon absolutely fuels me

[thespineoftherighteous]

Hey I found this post and loved it and since I neglected to actually ask before starting a mini comic for it I’m gonna send it to you so you can decide if you want to post it 👌🏻 thank you for this fantastic au it’s so fun

[walkingcorpse03]

neil is the literal personification of “oh fr?”

[chronically-peach]

Wymack jokingly tells Kevin if he doesn’t stop acting like a little kid he’ll take him to Chuck E Cheese for his birthday instead of somewhere nice. The foxes find this hilarious and insist they throw him a party there. Wymack goes along with it because when the team gets an idea in their heads it’s almost impossible to make them forget it. They get there and rack up an insane bill, sneaking out in small groups as the night comes to a close. Everyone but Kevin and Wymack realize what’s happening until eventually the final bill for the night comes and the rest of the team is nowhere to be found.

Wymack sends this to the team shortly after:

[midgart]

Andrew puts up with this bc Neil is so cute ouo

[thirtynine-minutes]

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