So True Bestie

bean. 25. white. they/them.

[themetalhiro]

go my qiflings

[shhbean]

also since my priority lately has been eating as well as i can when i can and exercising as well as i can when i can with no set intentional weight loss goals i feel the most physically healthy i have been in quite some time.

and part of that has also been "i have a body why should i hide is just because it is bigger than average. also i have a huge rack i want to display it as much as possible bc i am hot" and this has also been a big game changer for my mental well being and physical too. when ur not ashamed of your body u find urself wanting to take better care of it

[assiraphales]

I kind of miss the impulsivity that certain spaces used to allow. oh you want a hair cut today? hairdresser in the corner can fit you in before her 2 o’clock. tattoo of a cobra… sure leg or arm? even concerts, back when you could go to the box office thirty mins before any show. not saying these things don’t exist at all, but everything feels booked five months in advance and 10x more expensive

[shhbean]

yknow as a fat person that enjoys fashion im so not happy that oversized is the big thing rn i feel like im 11 again and i hit puberty faster than my peers and my parents are rushing to hide as much of my body as possible

[shhbean]

allergies or ear infection the world may never know

[shhbean]

so it was an ear infection,

[shhbean]

allergies or ear infection the world may never know

[scramratz]

Being even mildly politically aware is hell. "Why is gas so high???" Bitch i outta smack you

[scramratz]

Idk I have so little patience for willfully ignorant people. You know the entire plot of Fruit Love Island or whatever the fuck but can't take an hour outta your day to look up why everything is falling apart around you? Embarrassing

[shhbean]

Having a fiance with C-OCD is very funny bc i have become an epidemiologist over night

[excuse-me-thanks]

“i should take a walk for my mental health” boring, tired, i don’t even really wanna do it tbh

“i need to check the perimeter” i need to check the perimeter

[shhbean]

I love working with animals im done at noon i can take my grandma to her appointment and go grocery shopping and then be home by 3 to crack open a hard cider and watch the yankees

[nuancecomprehender]

my life isnt perfect but at least im not doing a mans laundry

[nuancecomprehender]

reading comprehension questions:

might there be a reason this post resonates with a lot of women?

can you describe the phenonemon of learned helplessness? give an example.

in what ways might the gender pay gap have influenced this post?

in most cultures, women are expected to do the majority of childrearing and domestic work, even if they also work outside of the home. in what ways does this influence the post?

[mafuyuh]

Witch Hat Atelier | Opening

[shhbean]

Had a really good day yesterday haha!

[shhbean]

Had a really good day yesterday haha!

[shhbean]

Had a really good day yesterday haha!

[vampireapologist-archive-deacti]

drake?

[hazeleyedcat]

josh?

[vampireapologist-archive-deacti]

where’s the body of christ?

[wyrddog]

[chryza]

also shoutout to my really tired old white guy gynecologist who when i said "i want a hysterectomy" did not push back at all and instead sighed, and without looking up at me from his tablet went "We'll have to do a bunch of stuff for insurance because it's a scam and otherwise they won't approve it" and then after laying out the plan walked me out and i dont know if we made eye contact once after shaking hands, which is exactly the kind of medical care i want in this day and age.