going crazy seeing one cis woman saying “i now compulsively try to find out who is trans in all circumstances by staring at their bodies and transvestigating their bodily leger” and another cis woman respond “yes! im a tall/broad woman and i worry people think im a male. this is all the trans fault that other cis people are doing this” and its like. maybe if people weren’t so hung up doing the exact behavior you are agreeing with, it wouldn’t be something that you had to worry about. in fact, you are agreeing w the person who is creating the tightening conditions that you are mad abt, and if people didn’t make a huge division between cis and trans people of their respective genders in terms of treatment and approach, you … wouldn’t have to care which one people thought you were? like, being mad at trans people because cis people are trying to become professional gender detectives seems like you might just be motivated to be mad at trans people as an a priori situation














