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drowing in the thought of you.

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what should I do if my two closest friends outed me the moment I wasn't with them, to a great amount of people.

Tell them that how much of a dick move it was. Explain to them how it made you feel. If they don’t care drop them. You should surround yourself with people who have your best interest in mind.

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Please respond to numbers 5, 31, 43, 53. Thank you!

5. Basically really shaky and inconsistent. I’m not skinny or anything so it took me a while to become semi-comfortable with myself. It depends on the day mostly. Sometimes I’ll wear a crop top and shorts, sometimes I don’t want to even leave the house. 31. Idrk. Probably buy a house for my family and go to college without having to worry about student loans. 43. Yeah i’m actually pretty content atm! My depression has been under control for a good little while now and i’m starting college soon. (only things i’d change if I could would probably be to have more friends &possibly a significant other lol) 53. I’m pretty sure I’ve answered this but my views have changed quite a bit so probably my fluctuating self-esteem or my large thighs lol. 

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I am straight but I just want a sex change. What is that? Is that normal? I want to identify as a boy but I like boys and not girls. I just like the idea of being a boy and I prefer it. Idk. I'm so confused. Hlp?

Your body, your life, your decision. Do what makes you happy.

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'The only queer ppl are those who don't love anybody' What does that mean? That only aromantic ppl are queer? That panromantic ppl aren't queer? That queer ppl aren't accepting?

it’s just a quote. Take it how you want it.

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I hope you guys find this aesthetically pleasing.

Happy Pansexual pride day! 💖

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🌈♥

I just thought i’d let you guys know that 2 years ago today I gained the courage to come out to everyone I know (except for my dad and his family lol). I haven't regretted it once since then. Everyone is always so supportive, so tysm for showing me so much love. x

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♥ You’re all so lovely, tysm for 3,000. ♥

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I think that person was talking about the word "spaz"

Oh true. I’m not really offended by the term, but I definitely don’t want anyone feeling attacked or triggered while on this blog.

So thank you previous anon for taking others feelings into consideration. ❤️️

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I'm so nervous and I need some tips! I'm going on my first ever date Monday with a girl I met and I do not want to screw it up! How can I keep calm and cool and not spaz out??

(sorry if this is super late) I got the ask about this message having an offensive term in it. I’m just curious as to what term? 

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Ayyee.

I’m walking in my local pride parade today. I’m super excited. ✌️

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I never imagined this blog would gain as many followers as it has. Like this was literally just a side blog when I started it. Thank you so much for 2.4k ❤️️💋

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6,8,9,11,14,15,22,24,29,37,38,51,52,53,54. Quite a lot, i am sorry😏

8, 9, 24, & 54 have been answered ❤️️

6. My best friend’s name is Hannah (I talked about her more in a different ask). There’s a few other people i’m close to but not enough to call them “best friends”. 11. My Papa. He died 3 years ago October 1st. 14. Getting my septum pierced, coming out to my family, meeting one of my favorite bands (and staying clean from self harm) 15. I dislike a lot of people, but they all have the same qualities. Sexist, close minded, homophobic, etc. 22. Back when my parents were together my dad like to say that I was over exaggerating my mental illnesses. 29. Every moment of my life. (there’s literally so many I can’t pick one) 37. Tbh I don’t even know if I want kids. But if I do have some maybe like 2 or 3 at the most. 38. Just hanging out and being comfortable. Like let’s wear sweatpants and read books or watch documentaries. 51. I’m not perfect, and I will never be because nobody is. (self esteem issues ftw) 52. “Wat” 53. If i’m being completely honest, everything. I’m fat, short, my hair is shit, my teeth are crooked, my eyes are so dark they’re like black, etc, etc. (i just kinda hate myself. Thanks for all the questions love. ❤️️

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I got dumped about a month ago bc I wasn't able to give them enough time etc I wasn't being the best gf, but now I AM DYING I NEED THEM BACK IN MY LIFE but I mean its so confusing, they talk to me about new crushes and stuff, and we dont talk that much either, and then today they were like ooh smell me! I used a new cologne! Because i commented on my best friends perfume and urrghh their smell was my favourite thing what do i DO i need them back😭

Well you can either be lowkey and drop small hints that you’re into them again, like say small stuff about how your negative traits have changed. OR you can just come out and say it. Be like “hey I still like you and I’ll try harder this time around”

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24 please Miss

If you agree with my opinions on things I care strongly about. Like I couldn’t date someone who is against abortion because that’s something that I strongly believe in. (also someone who accepts me for who I am)

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What inspires you?

This should be an easy question, but somehow it’s not? Usually really good music or seeing people achieve their dreams.

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What type of BDSM do you like? I'm sorry if this is a little personal but you seem very friendly and open:P

I find the idea of a lot of things appealing, but mostly like choking (obviously with safety in mind) and like biting. Idek.