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23 she/her 🪷🪽🌷🐇 i love my gf !

[sillymiffy]

i truly think unless you are autistic you can’t comprehend the social isolation and alien feeling that comes with it. and i’m not saying it’s all bad or you’re doomed to be lonely forever if you’re autistic but it’s different to other forms of loneliness. i went to a comedy show alone tonight because i didn’t have anyone to go with me, it’s a friday night and i don’t want to waste away my 20s by stopping myself doing things just because i’m alone. and i mean it was a great show and i had a fun time but being in a room full of different groups of people almost makes your own aloneness more apparent. i felt invisible really, but at the same time like my sitting in silence during the intervals when everyone’s chatting was so obvious. idk what the point of this post is but yea!

[tomb-mold]

the problem is i really do love staying up until one billion o'clock. it just cant be helped

[aetas-aurea]

So many women have internalized the idea that being difficult makes people think less of them, when in my experience the opposite is almost always true. Every single time I have spoken up, voiced what I actually need and refused to shrink the moment in order to be more comfortable for everyone else in the room, I have been approached afterward by people who wanted to know me better. There is no reward waiting for you on the other side of making yourself smaller. People do not love you more for taking up less space, they simply get used to you taking up less space and adjust their expectations accordingly. Every time I have been exactly as audacious as the moment required, it has opened doors rather than closed them and I have made real connections directly because of it rather than in spite of it.

[sillymiffy]

realised i do in fact need to pay someone to listen to me bcs like nobody needs to hear my stupid thoughts or try rationalise my behaviour for free

[sillymiffy]

i wish i had a normal relationship with food

[innerchildabortionclinic]

life pro tip for all women is use products marketed towards men because the only difference is they work better

women's deodorant creators are not yet fully aware women also get extremely sweaty, for example

[magnoliamyrrh]

the year is 2035. the new beauty standard is for women to cut their ears off, as ears are a masculine trait which make the face look too big and hearing isnt necessary as it doesnt align with being demure. evil feminists say perhaps this is unnecessary and ears are natural. women are agressively proclaiming they are cutting their ears off due to sensory issues

[lowpawly]

people foolishly dismiss desserts and treats as having no nutritional value when they actually are necessary for refilling your sanity stat. to prove my point please observe the emotional stability of the next person you meet who doesnt let themselves ever eat any form of dessert

[i-love-saying-yippeee]

Two women of passion actually ;w;

[lesbfranchaela]

i think this has become a more popular opinion recently but i kind of hate that lesbian media always has to be cutesy with brief touches and glances and basically toned down. don’t get me wrong, i love the yearning and the tension in media like this, but i also think we’re allowed to want to see more. like why can’t it be sexual and why can’t these characters be direct with each other. i know the male gaze is part of what’s holding lesbian media back (blue is the warmest color has done irreparable damage). if it were my ideal world, we’d have more queer women and nonbinary people getting opportunities to make accurate lesbian film and tv representation that isn’t highly sexualized or full of stereotypes for male enjoyment. i know there’s so much potential out there but these studios just don’t give it to them cause homophobia (but especially lesbophobia) is rampant in the film industry. (also i know there is a popular gl community but i think there could always be more lesbian representation in media everywhere). i’m biased but i genuinely do think that franchaela is gonna change the way people view lesbian media positively in the mainstream. they’re going to be soft with each other but we’re also gonna see them have sex and i don’t think they’re going to hold back.. cause this is bridgerton. anyway all this to say, i want more lesbian media that isn’t doomed and actually lets them be fully intimate with each other. and i’m excited for franchaela and i expect all lesbians to watch it when it’s out next year 🫵

[2colde]

how having to do work at your job feels

[iamanewvagina101]

[schrodingers-lizard]

Sometimes I wish people were are vehemently opposed to other forms of destructive overconsumption than just AI… Like yeah AI bad but so is fast fashion, industrial farming, social media and electronic brands that use blood minerals.

[kosmogrl]

[aletheyass]

it’s insane to me that some women think taking their husbands surname is romantic like i’m not changing my name that’s my name it’s literally a crazy concept to me to legally change a name for a man like girl that’s witness protection stuff wdym you’re just changing your name???? one day just like that? all the paperwork and for what?? it’s sooooo stupid as well as regressive. sorry

[junglejim4322]

I live a very balanced life of noticing things nobody else does and not noticing the things that literally everybody notices

[fairycosmos]

sooo annoying that my parents didn't provide emotional support growing up now it's a whole fucking thing