Stressy & Depressy @silver-underlining - Tumblr Blog

If you set yourself up for disappointment, you’ll still be incredibly hurt when you’re disappointed, but at least you’ll know you were right to expect it.

What’s it like to not be constantly let down by the one person you should be able to count on? Asking for a friend

i don’t know if this is it

oh to think of what could’ve been

aidashakur

I want to be a better person. A better friend. A better lover. A better me. Just better.

slfcare

removing yourself from toxic situations is lonely. removing toxic friends and family members from your life is lonely. learning to be without the people, or outside of the environment you were in for so long–somewhere that might’ve been unsafe or made you unhappy but was still familiar–is lonely. but it isn’t supposed to be easy. you have to choose yourself and you’ll regret it sometimes because you’ve never felt this alone, and yet it’s the right thing to do. learn to be happy with your own company, learn to support yourself the way you wish others would. there’s nothing others can give you that you cannot eventually give yourself.