[whawtwhohow]

[sleepnoises]

[dslur]

life is painful but women are hot

[dioraura-deactivated20200527]

date in private. love in private. be happy in private. live in private. make money in private. take your losses in private. rebuild yourself in private.

[311616am]

AskPolly

[fuckscooter]

we need carbs and we need fats and we need proteins and honestly fuck diet culture for normalizing malnourishment 

[lovedangel]

*walks around grocery store like a coming-of-age movie protagonist*

[souplups]

taylor swift wrote folklore for all the people who loved taylor swift as a child but instead of getting married at eighteen they grew up to be depressed and full of yearning 

[isitromantic]

folklore joined reputation and lover

[leslady79]

[homosexualontheloose]

She didn’t have to be that extra, but she did it anyway and for that she has my sword, my bow AND my axe.

[73284931243297324]

“100 Reasons (Why I’m Not Out To My Family)” pt. 2

(in which members of the lgbtq community speak out about why they’re not open about their sexuality with their families.)

poster series

Shari Heck, 2014.

[airagorncharda]

The notions that LGBT people MUST be out or else they don’t respect themselves, or they’re harboring internalized homophobia, or they’re not being TRUE to themselves are SO harmful and SO problematic because there are people like this in situations where the choice between staying in the closet and coming out is often the choice between safety and very real danger.

[ssstop-it-sunflowa]

Shit man

[tapedtothebackofthecloset]

I’ve made a pact with myself that I would never come out to my family until I have a stable source of income and a place to stay because there is a very huge chance that I will be disowned or maybe even taken to conversion therapy of some sort or just told straight up that it’s bullshit and being queer is just a trend

[bugs-are-buddies]

I have my own source of income and still cant out myself to my family

[jazzybot4]

“The Closet” is a cage. It’s meant to hold us secret. It holds us safe. They can’t get to us through the bars we erect around our hearts and our bodies, their ignorance protects us from their unreasoning wrath. The ones who are supposed to love us can’t hurt us with it if they don’t know about it. The Closet is a cage of our own making, and we need to stop shaming each other for putting up barriers to harm.

[anxietyproblem]

[exceptionals]

me, every day: i just dont have the energy for this today

[mentalhealthmartini]

my brain saw the slippery slope of unhealthy coping mechanisms and grabbed a fucking sled

[alexander]

you ever see someone so fine you completely ignore them?

[goldnpoc]

I have to bc I’m ugly

[brutereason]

I find it fascinating that people who choose not to have children are generally assumed to feel really strongly about not having children (or even to feel really strongly against children, anyone’s children, in general). I am probably not going to have children, not because I REALLY REALLY HATE the idea of having children, but because I don’t really really love it. Out of all the major decisions I will make in my life, this one is the only irreversible one. I can sell a house, quit a job, divorce a spouse, whatever. I cannot unhave a child. I cannot opt out of being a parent once I become a parent. I can’t even take a step back for the sake of self-care or whatever, or else my child will suffer.

So for me, having children is fuck yes or not at all. The default will be to remain childfree. Having children should be an opt-in decision, not an opt-out one. Until/unless I develop really strong feelings about wanting to have children, I won’t have them, even if that means I never end up having them at all.

[yennciri]

KILLING EVE 3.08 - “Are You Leading or Am I?”