i know part of being an adult and realizing things about yourself is the painful process of working through them but like why does it have to be painful!!! i got engaged earlier this summer and realizing that i don't necessarily know how to picture a long-term relationship that works and how it kind of reshapes your life is so goofy. we did pre-marital counseling to set ourselves up for success which i think definitely helped but i'm like damn, marriage in my me?? crazy!!




















