being a bi man getting the chance to date a bi woman has tbh been such a fulfilling and amazing experience for me. itās been so freeing for me to finally be able to get over many parts of my internalized biphobia and share my life with another bi person who cares for me so deeply and intricately.
bi men and women dating each other is an experience that is so nuanced and unique i canāt even really explain it properly ā the both of us share a deep understanding with each other due to our shared bisexuality (and the fact that iām a nb trans man, but thatās besides the point) that cishet m/f relationships simply do not have. quite frankly, it is unfair and not based in reality to think that the two could ever be the same or similar in dynamic.
it just rly goes to show how people who arenāt bisexual will continue to misunderstand how we as bisexuals have extremely complicated relationships with sexuality, sex, and gender, and us being in different gender relationships does not and will never take away from that.
ppl who arenāt bisexual i encourage you to rb this but please dont be a clown in the notes
i can add to this and say that being bi and dating a non-bi person does add extra complication to a relationship but in my situation i havent seen it as a big obstacle in any way whatsoever... its kinda ez to fly under the radar when on the outside a person sees a regular hetero relationship




















