Babe Cave

Blogger based in California. My life is an open book, enjoy the stories ♡

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🌸My Left and My Right🌸 • • • • • • #babecave #girlgang #sistertribe #girlsquad #bossbabes #feminism #writer #satc #girls #broadcity #funny #blog #bloglife #datingstories #powerfulwomen #womenempoweringwomen #girlpower #blogger #babecavestories #feminist #thefutureisfemale #empoweredwomen #womensmovement #girlboss

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Where’s the lie. TRUTH. I swear my sister and I can be curing each other to hell one minute and the next giving each other pedicures.🌸🥂👯‍♀️ • • • • • • #babecave #girlgang #sistertribe #girlsquad #bossbabes #feminism #writer #satc #girls #broadcity #funny #blog #bloglife #datingstories #powerfulwomen #womenempoweringwomen #girlpower #blogger #babecavestories #feminist #thefutureisfemale #empoweredwomen #womensmovement #girlboss #sister #sisters #sistersister #sisterlylove

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It’s Pisces Season!! Get ready to dive into your feelings!! Pisces, hold a very special part in my heart. Both my mom and best friend are Pisces, and ♋️ & ♐️ are the dream team! Tag your favorite Pisces!!! 🥂🐠 • • • • • • #babecave #girlgang #sistertribe #girlsquad #bossbabes #feminism #writer #satc #girls #broadcity #funny #blog #bloglife #datingstories #powerfulwomen #womenempoweringwomen #girlpower #blogger #babecavestories #feminist #thefutureisfemale #empoweredwomen #womensmovement #girlboss #pisces #piscesseason #pisceswomen #pisces♓ #horoscopes #horoscopes #astrology

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Let’s talk skincare for a minute. Because once you’re shining on the inside, we’re going to want to help take care of your glow outside too! ✨🧖🏻‍♀️💅🏻 So it’s winter, and what does that mean the cold dry air has stripped the moisture from skin. Dry skin can often lead to breakouts. Why? Because of lack of hydration. Our bodies are almost made up of 60% water!!💦 If your skin has been stripped of it’s natural moisture… it try’s to compensate for by getting oily! Excess oils and overactive glands then create breakouts. So before you try the harshest of cleaners to dry out breakouts even more, remember this. 1) ALWAYS HYDRATE, drink water and moisturize!!! 2) Honestly a good moisturizer is everything, lather that shit on everywhere, neck and decollate!! 3) Be gentle with your skin, don’t strip it, nurture it, with proper care it will balance out 💕☺️ What are your favorite moisturizers??? List below!! I know a few girls on the market who want to revamp their skin routine, share your tips!!! • • • • • #babecave #girlgang #sistertribe #girlsquad #bossbabes #feminism #writer #satc #girls #broadcity #funny #blog #bloglife #datingstories #powerfulwomen #womenempoweringwomen #girlpower #blogger #babecavestories #feminist #thefutureisfemale #empoweredwomen #womensmovement #girlboss #skincare #moisturizer #skincareroutine #treatyoself

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So between, the shameless selfies and fire memes, I have lot of Self Love & Girl Power 💕🚺 That’s something I care very much about. From Sister Tribes, to Girl Gangs, and Babe Caves. I find most of us women are not strangers. If we got to know each other a little more, we could see that we have so much that bonds us. I want to create a space that connects us. I’ll have stories, some funny, mainly true 💅🏻 Sometimes just thoughts. To me, if anything is left unsaid...it’s because someone didn’t care enough to say it or were too scared. Neither good enough excuses for me to keep quite through life. I also don’t want anything left unsaid open to misinterpretation. I have a voice, and I’m putting it all out on the table. I hope to inspire and help understand my fellow sister, neighbor, instagram user. So please enjoy the pictures, the laughs, the reads, and the nonsense. Also don’t forget to share, tag, and spread the word! XO 🗺🥂 • • • • • • #babecave #girlgang #sistertribe #girlsquad #bossbabes #feminism #writer #satc #girls #broadcity #funny #blog #bloglife #datingstories #powerfulwomen #womenempoweringwomen #girlpower #blogger #babecavestories #feminist #thefutureisfemale #empoweredwomen #womensmovement #girlboss

[slowlikehoney12]

I love me so much. Past, present, future. The greatest relationship I have ever had is with myself. Took time to get here, to understand, to be patient and to be kind with myself first. It’s ever evolving and growing, and it’s so bomb. Because the more love I create within myself, that bursting at the seams love, it just spills over to everyone else in my life. My currency is love, my religion is love. I can’t expect the same from everyone, that is not my job nor business. All I can do is love my myself, so much so that love then spills over to the next person, and the next person, and the next person. With such a beautiful day today, there was also tragedy, the innocent lost their lives. Hug your loved ones tighter, but not just them strangers too. 💕❤️ “What the world needs now is love, sweet love It’s the only thing that there’s just too little of What the world needs now is love, sweet love, No not just for some but for everyone.” ❤️💕We can only spread the love we make. So it first starts at home. LOVE YOURSELF. “If you don’t love yourself, how in the hell you gonna love somebody else?” 💕❤️💕❤️💕

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The Babe is Back

So I recently went on a frantic deleting spree.... and deleted a few of my very favorite and personal posts because of an awkward dating debacle (more on that later).

And well now I’m back. And I have a lot to share. I’ve learned a lot! Grown. Been humbled. WOKE. My voice is no longer shaky. I can stand here tall. And even with all I now see, I choose to surround myself with love. I started this on-again off-again blog when I was 23? 24?, I am now 28. The world has changed. My views focused. My tribe strong.

I am happy to be here. To have a place to share, entertain, connect. I feel what need more of is understanding in this world. To understand our fellow neighbors. That is what creates community. I know so many incredible women, and have had the honor to grow with these women and call them sisters. We have learned from and through each other. That’s how we get by. So from my Babe Cave to your Girl Gang, cheers! 🥂

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[slowlikehoney12]

Sometimes I catch myself slipping. No matter how great of a day I have had or how happy I am with how I look, I have moments of doubt. And honestly I know it's just in my head. I question motives, I question intentions, I question myself. No matter how strong I am some days I am just not feeling myself. And you know what it is okay...for just a little bit. Luckily I have dear friends and loving family members who quickly snap me out of it. That is why it is so important to have supportive people in your life. I am so blessed to be surrounded by such love. And if you ever in doubt and don't have support near by, just list 3 wonderful things about you. Just 3 special things that make you YOU. I am sure any negative thought will easily float away. Just keep smiling Love, TheCuteFatChick xoxoxo

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You're beautiful (:

Thank you :)

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fat isn’t an insult skinny isn’t a compliment they’re just words describing body types please drill that in your heads

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You will get there

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You're beautiful, PERIOD.

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Thank you for every share, like and nice comment this year. It’s an honor to have inspired you. I appreciate your support and I hope it continues in 2015. Thank you to fatleopard and m76photo for capturing these moments. See you next year!

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It’s 2015, I am 25 years old. Have my life pretty much together. I live on my own, I have a nice car, am financially stable with a great job, am surrounded by the best people and I am single. I went to dinner with my little brother today who is 18. This kid is only 18 and he hit me with the truth so hard tonight I was left speechless with an empty feeling inside. Now it’s past midnight and I still can’t sleep because his words are ringing in my ears. I feel numb. His words were not hurtful just truthful. On a night like this I am so happy I have my Tumblr, because no matter how many supportive people I have in my life, I usually keep the most painful stuff to myself. And even though no one will probably read this, it makes me feel slightly better that I have one way to express myself. My brother has a beautiful relationship with a girl I absolutely love. I hope they continue to love and respect eachother. They are young but still so mature in ways that I am not even. My sister on the other hand is single. As am I. And I asked him why do you think Michelle is single. He said because she is crazy, but her best guy friend Joe is probably the perfect guy for her. He kept her level headed and is sweet with her. I personally am not a fan of Joe, I think he is too quiet and has had his share of issues. My brother’s response to my statement was, “Well that is why he is good for her they are opposites and Michelle has her issues too, yet he is still patient with her. She needs someone who can keep her level headed, because of her craziness is why she is single.” This made me think of Joe differently. In a positive light I guess, that maybe he is good for my sister after all. Well, after hearing his thoughts on our sister, I was curious about why he thought I was single. I know why I am. I just always thought I did a good job of hiding it. I have dated many guys, but the minute they want to get serious I run away. I literally flee from being loved. And my little brother who I never discuss my romantic life with, nailed it on the head. He said “you are scared”. And on my first night of 2015, I feel like the wind was knocked out of me and all I want to do is cry. The only thing I could say was, “You’re right.” And so badly I wish I could have argued it, but he was right. And it just really sucks because I know I am incredibly insecure at the end of the day. I try so hard to be a confident woman, but it is all false. It literally makes me feel so sick because I truly know, it is not because of my weight I am insecure. Even if I looked like a Victoria Angel, I would still be single. It is not physical it is a mental issue I have. I feel unworthy of love, I constantly am overwhelmed with a “who could love me, feeling”. And it fucking sucks because I know it is there I can acknowledge my problem. I just don’t know if it can be fixed, or at what age I will over come it. I hope 2015 is my year. -TheCuteFatChick xoxo

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