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Scholar model at last! He has a lot of details and layers and i wanted to cover them all im definetly not obsessed with him

The port was made by my dear friend @cheellart everyone say thanks Chella

Add "read more" because i dont like long posts you have to scroll if you didn`t lan to look

#nightreign #elden ring nightreign

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#silent hill 2 #pyramid head #silent hill

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hitting you hitting you hitting you hitting you hi-

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doomhamster

One of the many things that infuriate me about recent trends on the left is the way they talk about solidarity, but what they demand looks and smells an awful lot like loyalty.

Read theory. Read the commentaries on the theory. If you don't understand, that proves you haven't read enough. If you disagree with any of it, that proves you're a bad person.

Follow the right influencers. Support the right politicians. Follow the leaders of our movement. Until we decide they're bad people, anyway.

March in our protests. Commit to our boycotts. Donate to our causes. Don't ask what we hope to achieve or how we think we're going to get that effect from what we're doing. Only a bad person would ask those questions.

Wave the flags and shout the slogans of people who want to kill you. People who don't see you as human because you're a woman, because you're queer, because you're Western. If you think solidarity requires any element of reciprocity, even to the point of both sides recognizing each other's human rights, that proves you're a bad person.

doomhamster

#slurs tw#q word#q slur#idk if this is as recent as op thinks- my experiences in the trans community in the late 00s/early 2010s were like thid#but yeah. its a problem

hey @snakelung -

queer is not a slur

yes, it is that recent. it's happening now. if you don't know that, I'd guess you're either not involved with the left, or involved with anyone the left currently hates, or informed of how the left behaves toward people it hates.

snakelung

Sorry I guess I'll just travel back in time and tell the homophobic parent who used to lock me in a room for hours on end venting about how he needed to kill all the queers to use a word YOU think is a slur so that my abuse will be considered valid to you!! I guess I'll do the same and tell the high school bullies who beat me up while calling me that word again to please use a different slur!!

You personally not having experience with the word as a term of abuse DOES NOT MEAN it isn't still one. I tag the q slur because it's legitimately triggering to me and several of my LGBT friends and you can fuck off if you have a problem with that!!

And when I said "not as recent as OP thinks" i meant "goes back farther than just the last few years", not "isn't still happening" . JFC, I reblogged your post because *i agreed with it*, there is literally no reason to get hostile.

#op trying to be deep about solidarity #and then they apparently have no idea about the history of “queer”#or why it would be a trigger for some people #like yeah it's a fucking slur dude the whole point is that people are reclaiming it

learn-how-to-love

I sometimes see folks talk about the lack of historical transmasculine narratives and culture in comparison to transfeminine ones, and regardless of validity I just want to say that it’s incredibly cruel to draw the conclusion that it just must’ve been easier for us/less necessary rather than acknowledging that for a lot of human history people AFAB were treated as literal property with very little autonomy. Hell, in the states, people AFAB weren’t even allowed to open bank accounts without permission from their “husband” until 1974. Regardless of how things are now, I think it’s incredibly important to keep in mind how transmasculine bodies and narratives were controlled (and still continue to be) by governmental and societal powers by way of our assigned sex, along with our transness.

genderkoolaid

there's a quote i read somewhere from a transmasc from either west or south asia (can't remember which rn) that was explaining that part of the reason there's less transmasc visibility is because transmascs, living as daughters/wives, literally could not walk around on their own. they could not go shopping for secret second wardrobes because they could not leave secretly and had no income of their own. being that isolated and controlled makes it really hard to explore your gender by crossdressing, or finding communities of people like you, especially if you already have children who you are responsible for.

there's another case i read of an iranian trans man who nearly could not leave the country to start his new life, because the law was that father's got notified whenever their daughters got new passports. the law was only recently changed when the author got his, and even then he had to be extremely careful not to let his father know or find it.

obviously trans women's lives are deeply shaped by misogyny on all levels! but god people always seem to overlook how being raised a girl in high-control misogynistic environments makes it really fucking hard to transition. if you are 19 and already have a child or are pregnant, have no income, have no education, are fully reliant on your husband on all social and financial and political levels... when do you even have the chance to think about your gender? and even if you do, what can you do about it?

this always always always gets forgotten whenever we talk about the intersection of transphobia and misogyny. this is just my experience but I genuinely have never heard anyone bring this up in any formal discussion of intersectional transphobia. which is crazy because this is pretty basic and obvious shit. and yet!!!!!

emotionalmoss

I'm partly from India and part of the reason we don't see many Indian trans men is that Indian society continues to be profoundly misogynistic. "Women" that are actually trans men often don't get to express this desire in any way, shape or form, because that is not their purpose. Their purpose is to get married, have babies, cook and clean for the family, provide for the family, and that's it.

Especially if they're poor or lower caste. Opportunities for women have largely opened up in the last few decades, but this is usually only for upper class and/or upper caste women. For poor women and lower caste women, especially those who live in villages, education, financial freedom, freedom of choice in marriage, and many, many other basic human rights are inaccessible.

The people who might be out as trans men can't do so because they are born into patriarchal families that are often abusive. Then they get married, often not of their own accord, to cisgender men who are also abusive by virtue of an extremely patriarchal society. They cannot cut their hair short or wear men's clothes because this would be a disgrace to the family and the husband and they would be punished for it. This punishment could be physical abuse, rape, other sexual abuse, and much else.

It's not that there are "less" trans men in India. It's that the ones that exist very rarely have the freedom to explore these gendered desires because they are born into and locked in rigid gender roles where their job is often just to be a wife, a baby-maker, and a provider.

The ones that do try to come out are often locked away, physically or figuratively, and their gendered desires smothered, because that's firstly, not their purpose, secondly, perverted, and thirdly, a disgrace and a shame to the family, especially when "the family" can sometimes mean a tight-knit communal structure that, in a patriarchal society, breeds abuse. Either that, or they are thrown out or abandoned, and their name and history gets erased from the family, as with any hope of financial support.

I know several trans men in here because I volunteer with a queer support group, but the ratio of trans men, mascs, and AFAB nonbinary people to trans women and AMAB enbies is much, much lower, because those perceived as "women" here can't even think of exploring their gender. Not only is the gender itself is a prison, but the expectations and the violent subjugation that comes along with it make it impossible to even think of exploring gendered desires. Every single Indian trans man I know, with the exception of one (myself), has been raped or sexually abused as a result of their transness, and forcibly feminized by their families, by way of clothing, arranged marriage, household duties, etc., in some cases even being physically locked away and kept from the rest of society. It's just not an option for most of us.

It is materially easier to suffer as a woman than it is to be abandoned, raped, murdered, shamed, and smothered as a man.

selene1311-f

Being bi and just recently figuring it out, I'm really starting to realize how much it pisses me off that it's somehow accepted in a lot of queer spaces to just write men off as unlovable. It's done to both cis and trans men, and tbh it's really fucking bothering me. Why do we put up with that? Why do we just let people write off almost half the fucking population? It's shit. Just cause it isn't a form of institutional bigotry like misogyny or homophobia doesn't make it right, doesn't mean there's a good reason to hurt people like that.

idk, I just think it's innately wrong to call anybody unlovable for their gender; didn't realize that'd be controversial. At the same time though, treating people as less worthy of care and compassion for something so simple seems to be depressingly normalized, so much so that I didn't always bat an eye at it.

It ain't right, yall deserve love too, and care, and tenderness, and affection. Don't for a second feel that you don't.

Anyhow, rant over I guess; just fucking treat people well.

#transandrophobia #bisexual #biphobia

what if I just took him

#woffpls.txt #lizard #Florida

batsandboba

learning that 5 minute crafts is a russian mafia operation wasn't on my 2026 bingo card but also doesn't really surprise me

jabibi-posting

its what

batsandboba

russian mafia operation

isa-ghost

Hey what

batsandboba

oh. i’m sure its fine and normal that a video investigating the massive bot farm/slop channel shell company connections to the russian mafia and youtube’s own implication by allowing it to continue for profit has mysteriously vanished with no word from op.

batsandboba

Original (now taken down) video of CHUPPL exposing SoulPublishing and 5 Min Crafts networkAn Exposé of the weirdest channel on the internetG

internet archive link

randomsporefacts

Do you have the textures of the crop circles you can create in Space Stage? Sorry if you've already answered this ^^;

i never use this tool because it just doesnt do anything so i forget which one is the space tool one LOL but one of thems gotta be it

heres feature_crop_circle.rw4 which just spawns on planets

also primitivelandmarking to primitivelandmarking4

and a bunch of sg_crop_circle textures, the first one is just that and the rest are sg_crop_circle_a to _h. i think? this is the ones the tool actually uses

the effect that uses them doesnt actually use that first one, but references a texture that doesnt seem to exist anymore as one of the decals that it can use, so that suggests another cut crop circle

my white woman coworker pronounced it FYEFA today

#fifa #woffpls.txt

slpffow

nearly 61yr old mom is more woke and understanding about transgender men than too many of the people who are within the LGBT+/ queer community as a whole. I have literally no idea what I'm going to do after she's passed. everyone has their own personality problems, but idk

slpffow

something interesting with her: In 2017, she was a very strange mix of someone stupid enough to vote for donald but woke enough to let me go on HRT at 16 while literally saying "You did better before you decided to go trans. You did great in elementary. All this stuff is something you did for attention I guess. I don't know but I sure as hell didn't want to add an extra year to high school. Not sure why you do. " SHE EVEN clocked a trans guy that worked at walgreens LITERALLY only to ask how she can get me on HRT.

now, like I had said in that other post, she's more understanding than a lot of people ACTUALLY WITHIN OUR DEMOGRAPHIC. I had complained about transgender men being ignored within the community and she said started her response with "Honestly, I noticed that a long time ago. I totally understand."

previous to me, she's only ever known one transgender guy before. she's even woke about the transgender women in sports thing when I've seen fucking normie liberals not be able to understand that.

"There have been several trans female who have won in sports" "It's that it's not the overwhelming majority more than anything; It's just publicized heavily now and they never mention the entire story. 'TRANSGENDER WOMAN WEIGHT LIFTER' and then she will have won no medals." "Ah I see, so the numbers are falsely escalated?"

she's literally better at fucking being good faith than soooooooo many people anymore. she's entirely moved away from politics at this point and has gone back to her actual personality of trying to be accepting of everyone and understanding. I've tried to help her with her internalized misogyny that was exacerbated from being raised as a mormon for 20something years. with her age and how she's CONSTANTLY FUCKING OVERWORKED, I really don't want her to be involved in politics. everything is overwhelming and she realistically cannot do anything more than what she is now.

#woffpls.txt #transandrophobia

jazzyloveswomen

There's this common conception of gender I see: man and woman are often positioned as 'opposites' on a sliding scale and gender as a gradient, and any kind of transition as transitioning 'away' from one end of the scale and 'toward' the other, with 'transfeminine' people being anybody transitioning 'away' from masculinity (which is inherently toward femininity), and 'transmasculine' people being anybody transitioning 'away' from femininity (which is inherently toward masculinity).

This is an inherently exorsexist and intersexist worldview, in my opinion.

Bigender people are almost always forced to 'pick' which gender they are 'more', or have it automatically assigned for them. Their pronouns may be conditionally respected, but people get very uncomfortable, when a bigender person challenges the concept of man and woman as opposite. Constantly, you see "male spaces" and "female spaces", discourse about which labels are for men (and therefore not for women) or vice versa, and other similar conversations, inherently leave out men who are women, and women who are men. Bigender people are ignored, or spoken over, or pushed to 'pick' a gender so they can be neatly categorized, because man and woman are conceived as two opposite mutually exclusive ends of a spectrum that cannot intersect.

Agender/genderless/transneutral people are similarly erased or forced to pick sides, often sorted into a box either based on what people assume they're 'closer' to based on their physical traits (and i hope i dont need to stress how dysphoria inducing that can be) or told they're transfem/transmasc regardless because, well, "You're still transitioning away/toward something", because people conceptualize agender/genderless individuals as being not truly genderless at all, but as being merely at the center of the man to woman spectrum.

Then there are perisex nonbinary people who identify closely with their agab, perisex nonbinary women/fems afab and perisex nonbinary men amab. Gender essentialists either try to cut these people out of trans identity entirely, fakeclaiming them, insisting they're basically cisgender, engaging in intense transmedicalist rhetoric dressed up in a slightly more 'acceptable' font now that transmedicalism is somewhat less accepted in the community..or they insist that, despite many not being at all masculine, perisex nonbinary people afab are all transmasc, and vice versa.

I consider all of these things to be misgendering! Forcing any nonbinary person toward any binary or gendered term they do not identify with is misgendering! And it's done constantly by other trans people who would rather be openly and violently exorsexist than rethink their gender essentialist simplistic reductive sliding scale framework for how extremely complex societal structures and personal identities work.

And, as with any genderessentialist/bioessentialist worldview, this type of rhetoric is also incredibly unsafe for intersex people, who, despite what perisex trans people (and the occasional intersexist intersex person they tokenize) like to insist when they scream over us in these discussions, have a much more complicated relationship with agab and sig than perisex people do, and therefore are also frequently hurt and erased by any model that tries to pose things like man/woman, masculine/feminine, androgenized/estrogenized, amab/afab, etc, as opposite and mutually exclusive. "Intersex people are still [insert agab] despite their 'disorders' and therefore fit into my model the same way any [agab] perisex person would!" is a worldview that will always always be intersexist and extremely harmful.

#exorsexist #transphobia #nonbinary