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You can call me Slut or Birdy ♥️ / 18+ nsfw side blog / 22 / they/them / queer + polyam + trans / disabled / switch / sadist

[miscling]

if a sub writes a dom a letter does that make it a sub missive

if a sub has a task to complete for its domme does that make it a sub mission?

[miscling]

if a sub has a place it likes to be, does that make it a sub space?

[agaywolf]

We’re gonna have an orgasm denial party and no, you can’t come.

[slutarc]

This is so stupid but it kind of pisses me off that I developed a medical kink bc of medical trauma. Like obviously that's a fine and normal reason to develop a kink but it feels like I'm playing into a counter productive ideology. Like the idea that fetishes (especially dark/extreme ones) are only okay if they're bc of trauma. No actually it's okay bc it's an extremely personal thing that doesn't affect you + pretend. Kinks don't inherently come from trauma!!!!!

[giveherswords]

you should let that femme top you

[slutarc]

Actually kind of deeply amusing how obsessed I am with chastity and denial as someone physically unable to orgasm. For sure I am often thinking about being the dom in these situations but I am a switch at heart and it is such a good fantasy... Fuckkk I love you control and power play

[slutarc]

A drunk friend recently told me they're going to ask an older friend involved in the semi local kink scene about any kink events with accommodations / for disabled ppl which is exciting (if they remember post our evening drinking anyways)

[slutarc]

I'm inventing entirely new reasons to masturbate (with the intention to warm up my bedroom)

[d-yke-f-ag-2]

goddamn i feel like art in this

feeder blogs DNI

[d-yke-f-ag-2]

bringing back my fave 💖

[anitapallenberg]

Trans-Europ-Express (1966) | Dir. Alain Robbe-Grillet

[a-state-of-bliss]

Viviane Orth @ Samuel Cirnansck Spr/Sum 2012

[slutarc]

I have the type of medical fetish that primarily does revolve around examination and procedure roleplay however calling your strap "my medicine" does really fucking do something for me

[bramst]

[slutarc]

The allure of masturbating and then going to sleep instead of taking my medicine...

[venndaai]

people are so weird about cnc and I always just want to look them in the eyes and say “you are getting mad at people for playing pretend. you are getting mad at people for saying ‘raaar! I’m gonna getcha!’ you are not a serious person.”

[venndaai]

so much ink and tears have been spilled theorizing that rape kink is about trauma and social anxieties and power fantasies and sure maybe. but I think we’re just mammals who like pretend danger in our play just like every other mammal ever. because we have evolved to find that fun. and the only difference between play-wrestling in bed and pulling out the fuzzy handcuffs is commitment to the bit

[slutarc]

The way my anxiety/shame works is fascinating. I have no problems looking at sexual imagery in front of my parents. I do however have a problem rbing more than one horny post from someone I don't know 😭

[godivaghoul]

which is your fave?

[riggerwu]