- that even if we break up, I would have little to no regrets and negativity
- who means what they say and follows through on their word
- who knows what real, functional, selfless love is and shows it when able too
- who has my best interests at heart and communicates clearly
- who knows how to properly write a sincere apology
- who has more ambition than a fucking rock
- who fights for things as hard as I do
- who can dish-out and handle confrontation
- who stands up for themselves and the people they love in public
- who is decent in bed
- who doesn’t hack into my email and violate my trust
- who I am able to tell my whole life story to and will truly understand me
- who I don’t have to inhibit or dumb-down my personality around
- who isn’t scared of me.... ( I was never abusive, he was just a huge pussy)
- who doesn’t judge or behave rudely towards recovering addicts
- who chose to be with me out of love and not from their fear of being alone
- who doesn’t avoid their problems and takes responsibility for their actions
- who I don’t have to convince to brush their teeth twice a day
- who has childish road-rage issues which made me unsafe while they drove
- who won’t cause a scene in the grocery store because they don’t take credit
- who isn’t a hypocritical redundancy like a gay conservative
- who I know would be consistently great parent, even if they don’t want kids
- who’s genuinely interested in supporting all of my interests and passions
- who’s political ideologies aren’t those belonging to a sheltered garbage fire
- who has enough real life experience to know there’s true evil in this world
- who doesn’t make me feel extremely self-conscious during sex
- who doesn’t make me feel like the most attractive thing about me are my feet...
- who makes me feel as special as I sometimes know, I deserve to feel
- who doesn’t take their frustrations out on me when life’s got them down
- who I can talk to about literally anything, best friend vibes all the way through
- who knows how to de-stress, pacify and ground me
- I find attractive enough not to think of other people while having sex with them
- who I don’t ever have to compromise my standards and self-respect for
- who knows forcing their teeth in another’s mouth isn’t how anyone should “kiss”
- who gets along and is approved and supported by my friends
- who understands how far I’ve come from where I used to be
- who I don’t have to sugarcoat things for
- who knows that the love I can provide is amazing and one of a kind
- who’s content boring the living shit out of me in his mom’s basement
- who doesn’t cast aside your concerns and anxieties like they’re all in your head
- who makes me want and need to be better every fucking day
- who won’t break up with you over email in a corporate termination style
- who gives your belongings back without you asking for them
- who hates complacence and being a stagnant, lazy person
- who doesn’t abandon someone with severe abandonment issues
- who loves you at the same quantity even after the honeymoon period is over
- who I’m unafraid of breaking up with because they’re pitiful and in a “bad place”
- who loves and supports me for who I am and not just the mentally-well parts
- who knows how to care and walk a dog so they don’t get an early grave
- who continues to be surprise me no matter how far into the relationship we are
- who’s not cold and distant with the charisma of a depressed cockroach
- who invalidates my struggles and my problems with them
- who’s career I actually respect and admire
- who would go to couple’s counselling and change for the better for you
- emotionally-intelligent enough to know that someone crying after every time they have sex with you is a bad thing that needs to be addressed
- who doesn’t see how much you changed so much for them because of how fragile their ego and self-esteem are with the little humility they had
- who doesn’t manipulate how and when I receive bad news because it was emotionally convenient for them to break the news to me then
- someone that’s not stupid enough to apologize through email after breaking up with you over email