SoFla Sugar

21. College. SoFla. Sugar baby.

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I want a Sugar Baby Friend.

Me: I just got my allowance.

SB Friend: Me too!

Me: Beech let’s dress up and go to a cigar bar. We can freestyle and act like we’re sisters. 

SB Friend: How are we going to approach them? 

Me: Let’s have a debate about investing in America or investing in China stocks and then ask a random table to inquire. If they inquire ask them what bourbon goes well with a cigar. YOLOOOOOOOOOOOOOO.

SB Friend: Should I bring a leadership book as a backup conversation topic?

Me: (fake cries) WE ARE LIKE BALANCED!

I think this would make freestyling more effective since men love seeing two beautiful women and we can flirt with a table or a man without giving weird notions. 

[yesatlbrownsugar]

Okay but who’s up for doing this in Atlanta? I can fake a great convo about stocks or golf

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Sugar Advice: Never use the words Sugar Baby on your tinder bio. How did this man know I would be interested in a mentorship or a Sugar Daddy? I said it indirectly. Have you ever told someone you are hungry without saying I’m hungry? That’s exactly how you write your Tinder information.

Let’s Use An Example Stacy  “I’m looking for someone who complements me and appreciate finer things. I’m enjoying the beginning stages of building a company but the best part is taking off the suit and putting on a flattering dress and enjoying life…" 

 Did Stacy say she was looking for an allowance? A gift? A pay per meet? No, she is attracting men who have succeeded in business, and probably knows a young professional needs help (finances, and mentorship).

[onikaahonee]

He Pays for What He Wants!

It’s just that simple…yet you give him options so that his fragile male ego doesn’t think you are backing him into a corner or being greedy. “Oh Honee, what do you mean? What the hell are you talking about today?” I’m so glad you asked ! Lol

Him: I like my women shaved, airstrip, etc down there.

You: Awesome! European Wax Center offers a great package where you buy 9 and get 3 free or you can pay monthly which is more expensive of course. Pretty much takes care of that for the entire year. They even offer ones for students! 

Would you like to add that to our monthly allowance or should I give you the number so that you can call and take care of the cost?

Him: I love a woman that can go from t-shirts and jeans to a nice sexy dress/evening gown and heels, etc.

You: I can definitely do that! I have plenty of jeans and tshirts in my wardrobe, however, I’d love a few new dresses/evening gowns that you’d love to see me in.

 Would you like to  set aside a shopping date to take care of that, add a shopping allowance, or buy directly from my wishlist?

Him: I love lingerie with a garter belt and stockings. Do you have any you can send me pictures in?

You: I’m so glad you asked! I was just looking at a few sets on the Agent Provocateur/ La Perla website that I really liked. Here’s the links to them, Check them out and let me know what you think (…checks out links tells you how much he’d love see you in them) I love that you and I have the same taste. 

Would you like to purchase them directly for me or purchase the gift-card so that I can purchase them myself?

Specific things that he wants should not come out of your agreed upon allowance. Find his most prized possession and compare the two if he ever tries you.

Example:

Him: Babe, doesn’t your allowance cover that?

You: Babe :( you know my allowance covers my necessities first. I love how you’re so manly about your desires that require a little more extra work on my part which is certainly not problem. It makes me feel great to make you happy. Kind of like when you bought your Porsche last week. You could have brought the regular manufactured one, but you also added the premium package, tinted windows, and better tires which cost a little more then you intended to spend.

 I’ve seen the happiness in your face when we ride in it.

 I’m not one to compare myself to cars because I can do things for you that your Porsche can’t :), but that wax is my premium package, tinted windows is that dress/shoes, and those new tires is my lingerie. 

Don’t you want to experience the happiness of all that too?

You’ll thank me for this long ass post later,

Honee

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I’ve been receiving what seems like tons of questions about how to handle meeting a POT for the first time. Hopefully the tips I have for you gals will calm your nerves a bit.

BEFORE YOU MEET:

Make sure you have a way to contact your POT off of the sugar website.

Nothing’s worse than being stood up on a first meet. It’s never happened to me but I know it has to other girls. An email, or cell phone number to keep in contact is essential. If plans change, it’s quicker to communicate through email or texting/calling. You don’t want to be stood up. And a POT giving you another way to reach them shows that they’re generally serious about actually showing up to meet you.

Know what your POT looks like now.

Don’t you just love POTs who send you pictures that are clearly 10-20 years old and all grainy, or just face shots wearing sunglasses and hats? If I’m going to be having sex with you at some point, I want to know what I’m dealing with. Have your POT send you recent, up to date pics so you aren’t shocked when the person in front of you looks nothing like the pictures he sent.

Discuss and agree upon an allowance range.

I’ll never understand why POTs want to wait until the first meeting to discuss an allowance. I’m not going to spend over an hour getting ready and coordinating transportation to find out a POT is offering $200/meet. If POTs get too technical and say things like “what will $1,000 get me?” forget about him. That’s a red flag he’s going to want a cheap pay per play, tit for tat thing.

Bring up a small donation or gift for your time.

I like my POTs to know that I’m a busy, hard-working college girl. And that when I take time out of my day to get ready and meet them, that that time is valuable. So I always ask for a gift or small cash donation for a first meeting to show me that they’re serious about spoiling me if we were to pursue an arrangement. I’ve received anywhere from $100-300 cash, electronics, clothes, etc.

WHEN YOU MEET:

Make sure your POT knows nothing sexual will happen on a first date.

I find it to be distasteful to do anything sexual on a first meeting with a POT. If he gives you a really fantastic gift that you totally did not expect, a kiss might be appropriate but it’s totally optional. The sex will come soon enough if he ends up being your SD. And the longer you can keep a POT on the hook, the more sugar you will get. Suit gave me my allowance on our second meeting in cash, and we consummated our arrangement that same meeting. I have no regrets.

Dress like the classy hoe that you are.

Keep your clothing simple, feminine, and classy. Do not wear sneakers, ripped jeans, t-shirts, workout clothes, or leggings on a first date. He already knows you’re significantly younger, there’s no need to advertise it even more with juvenile fashion.

Opt for solid colors, understated jewelry, and form fitting clothing.

You can never go wrong with a nice top, watch or necklace, and some skinny jeans paired with boots or some heels.

When it comes to makeup, wear some. Keep it light and natural. If you’re meeting a POT in the daytime for coffee or lunch, skip the smokey eye or crazy cat eye looks with tons of glitter eyeshadow. Apply a light tinted moisturizer, swipe on some mascara, lip gloss, blush, fill in your brows and you’re good to go.

First meetings should be about testing chemistry and mutual attraction. 

Focus on getting to know your POT.  That’s why I believe in discussing your arrangement needs beforehand, so you can concentrate on getting to know each other, like a real first date. Talking numbers and money is uncomfortable. Talking about hobbies, school, work, and traveling is not.

Keep the first date short and sweet. 1 hour max. Even if you have nothing else going on the rest of the day, you want to appear that you are busy and reinforce that your time is valuable. Plus, if the date is going terribly it will only have been 1 hour wasted.

Keep conversation light and flirty. Touch his arm across the table or give him a coy smile and he’ll light right up.

Get to know the basics (without giving away personal info. to this stranger), and see if you share any interests.

At the end of the date, you will probably be able to gauge how interested your POT is in you. And he may even verbalize his desire for an arrangement right then and there. If he does want you, and you are okay with his offer, feel free to accept. But if you aren’t sure, tell him that you’d like some time to think about it.

End the date with a hug or a handshake, something physical so that you touch. When you leave your destination, make sure your POT does not follow you. But you can also steal a glance at what kind of car he drives or his license plate number for future reference.

AFTER YOU’VE MET:

If it went well, send a follow-up text.

Shortly after you meet, shoot your POT/SD a text saying that it was a pleasure meeting him and you’d love to see him again. You may be able to hammer out the details of your arrangement right then.

If the date was a disaster, count your losses.

Worse comes to worse, you got a free coffee/lunch/dinner/gift. If your POT contacts you and asks you out again, decline politely and wish him luck finding what he’s looking for.

Think of meeting your POT like having a real first date. It could go spectacularly, or it could go terribly. Or it could be just okay. But no matter what, the experience will have taught you more about yourself and what you are or aren’t looking for in a sugar daddy, or an actual partner.

So keep your chin up gals. Because the great thing about first dates is that they can lead to second, third, and fourth dates, or a brand new first date — a fresh start.

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Reposting to my blog since I deleted the original.

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When asked if I wanted intimacy with an arrangement, this is what I replied with:

“Not at first, I’d say. I’m more interested with getting to know someone on a deeper level conversationally. I love meeting new people and being a companion to many. After awhile if things continue going well, I might consider adding intimacy to the relationship. I wouldn’t feel comfortable with intimacy being expected right away since I’m still a stranger to you and you to me. I also work in healthcare so there are a few more things I take into consideration before deciding, hahah, for the safety and health of the both of us. (:”

My potential Sugar Daddy was extremely impressed with me for saying this. It shows that I care, truly care, and it shows that I’m different than a number of Sugar Babies that he’s talked to. His reply, “I’m impressed with your maturity and honesty. I’m glad you care about both of our healths.”

💋

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TIPS: How To Manipulate the Conversation

1. You want me to look beautiful, don’t you? 
(Translation: Buy me that outfit/hair/nails/lingerie)

2. You said you want the best for me.
(Translation: Give me the extra money)

3. I just want to feel safe and secure.
(Translation: Get me my own hotel suite)

4. You’ve inspired me to be better
(Translation: pay for this elite yoga retreat)

5. I feel like you don’t trust me and I’m giving you my body. 
(Translation: Give me the money first) 

6. Take me to XYZ and I’ll look so beautiful you’ll make all the men in the room jealous 
(Translation: Take me to this broadway play)

7. I bought a new bikini for you! When are you gonna let me show it off for you (Translation: take me to Hawaii)

8. That man is making me uncomfortable *hold his hand while someone else is checking you out* 
(Translation: other people think I’m hot and check me out all the time. Know that.)

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“I don’t like feeling used.” Then why do you want a sugar baby?

“It’s weird to pay someone to hang out with you.” Then why do you want a sugar baby?

“I find it a turn off when women don’t work.” Then why do you want a sugar baby?

“I don’t want to fully support someone.” Then why do you want a sugar baby?

“I think designer bags and shoes are a waste of money.” Then why do you want a sugar baby?

I’ll tell you why. Because I’m a young lady in the prime of my life with everything to offer and the entire world at my feet. If you had any luck you maybe could convince me to forget all that I’m worth and fall for these bullshit arguments. But, you don’t have luck, or any brains, because I know what I’m about. Now run me my money.

[mothafuckinanimals]

Sugar Manipulation

I’ve realized there are many posts about utilizing manipulation to get what you want, but not really any posts on how, exactly, to manipulate. Here I will attempt to hash out some typical sociopathic tendencies that anyone in the sugar world can use to their advantage. There is a reason these kinds of people are CEOs, world leaders, and all-around powerful people.

 1. Study your target. If a pot is shy, reserved, unsure of himself; or on the flip side he is bold, takes charge, and knows what he wants, then make note of this. Notice the way he texts, the way he speaks on the phone, the way he treats the wait staff, everything. Every nuance of his character. Does he respond to the Boss Bitch or the Sweet Angel type of sugar baby? Does he want the typical girlfriend experience or does he want the fiery vixen?

2. Create a persona. Also called a “mask”. After you’ve figured out what kinds of words and personality type that your pot responds positively to, study up on a real life or fictional character that best displays those traits that you are going to emulate. Learn the way they turn a phrase. Learn their facial expressions. Learn how they dress. The more exaggerated these things/actions, the better.

For example, your pot likes a woman in charge. Someone who has her life together. A Boss Bitch. So let’s go with Beyonce - how does she treat the men in her life? What are her facial expressions when she’s pleasantly surprised? Affectionate? Scared? What is her day-to-day speech like? The phrases she uses? How does she dress? Is she sweet and kind, or does she shrug off the haters? For this pot, you are going to become his own personal Beyonce.

3. Lure him in with your emulated demeanor. Turn up the charm. Use your stunning ability to read your pot like a book. In fact, turn up so much charm it becomes obvious. Tell him exactly what he wants to hear. ALWAYS be assessing him for ways to cater to his psyche. Disarm him with how perfect you are for him. Pay attention to his needs, and give it to him. Act like you were MADE for him. You were BORN for him. You are perfect for him, and he will never meet anybody like you.

Seduce him properly and you will be successful. The most important part of this is to never let your mask slip. Do not forget anything you have said to him or what he thinks you are. 

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Some advice from my previous blog

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This is gold for beginners. A must read 👌🏼👌🏼👌🏼

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Manipulating Men for Money

Many of you who have reached out to me on this blog have commented on how “sweet” I am, which always makes me laugh, because really I’m quite a sociopath. There are only a handful of people on this planet I care about; everyone else I have no problem (and sometimes even enjoy) fucking with or exploiting for my own personal gain. Today I want to cover two strategies I use to get regular men (not sugar daddies) to give me money, summarized by the following two mantras: 1. Trinkets are tools, and 2. Play poor.

I’ve seen posts on Tumblr circulate the notion to never let a man think you depend on him financially because he will take advantage of your vulnerability. This is great advice if you really are in broke city, but if you’re a little flush, it is actually advantageous to hide the fact you are financially comfortable. I am relatively financially stable and I always look expensive, but I make sure everyone around me believes that I’m actually really fucking poor even when I’m not. Men especially like to feel needed, and helping out a “damsel in distress” boosts their egos. Use this to your advantage.

Now, I don’t make myself a charity case because any negativity or pessimism is going to turn off the person I’m talking to. Instead, I always find a way to mention I don’t have health insurance. This is such a genius way of manipulating men that even when I do get health insurance, which will probably be very soon, I’m still going to lie and make sure every man I date thinks I don’t. I subtly mention this very early when I’m getting to know someone, and find ways to bring it up throughout our relationship. That way, later on when I use this card to finesse money out of a man, he has no inkling of suspicion that I’m lying. For example, when the man I met this weekend was telling me about a gruesome back surgery he had a few years ago, I strategically responded by saying, “Wow! That sounds brutal. I hope I never have to get a surgery like that. I don’t have health insurance; I don’t know what I’d do if that happened to me.” I’ll bring this up a couple more times to further solidify in his mind the fact that I unquestionably do not have health insurance. If later down the road I need to spontaneously and rather quickly ask him for a large amount of money for a doctor’s visit, he won’t have any doubts that I’m lying.  Lately, I’ve been pretty annoyed with Alan (who I introduced in this post). He hasn’t been texting me as much, and did not follow up with me about paying for my hair even though he had offered to do so a while ago (which is fine, I got Miami guy to pay for it). He only sent me money once in the month of July, and I was worried that I would no longer be consistently receiving money from him unless I did something soon to re-establish the financial aspect of our unspoken arrangement. As a remedy, I used the dentist appointment I had yesterday to spring into action.

This is where the mantra “trinkets are tools” comes in. See, a lot of these men will at some point give you a really bad gift. It’s a trinket; something trivial and random because they’re trying to be thoughtful. For example, when Ralph went to the Super Bowl this year, he brought me back a red and gold Super Bowl memorability t-shirt. I made the mistake of throwing it away when we broke up, thinking we’d never get back together. BUT I should have kept it because that’s exactly the kind of random, ugly gift that I’m talking about here. 

Before I left for Florida, Alan got me a pair of socks that he thought were cute and made him think of me, because they are patterned with comic book characters fighting each other (which correlates to my love of comic books and kickboxing). I strategically wore those socks to my dentist appointment yesterday so I could take this “silly” photo and send it to Alan, captioned: At the dentist, thinking of you, lol! 

How did Alan respond? He wrote back, “Jajajaja didn’t think u were gonna wear them 😘 ”. Exactly. My. Point. This is why the trinket is so useful! With one photo, I have introduced the fact that I’m at the dentist and I have made Alan feel special and valued. When I left the dentist, I texted Alan that I have a cavity that is going to cost $235 to fix (This is a lie!) and I asked him if he could help me out. Because of the photo I had just sent him, it didn’t seem random or awkward at all for me to be bringing it up. I could have asked for an easy 200 bucks, but I always ask for an amount that doesn’t seem “even.” Why? Because men are likely to round numbers up, so I end up with more money while preserving the impression that I’m not asking for a lot. Alan ended up wiring me $300 without any hesitation.

I do this with virtually every medical expense and I fabricate expenses like this all the time. It pays to be poor—if men think you can’t afford health care, they will immediately jump up to take care of you. So remember ladies, don’t look down on that cheap little trinket that he bought you; it might end up being worth hundreds of dollars.  

[melaninsugarbarbie-blog]

Genius! I didn’t realize I do some of this without even thinking. I love the way your mind works!! So glad there are other sociopaths like me 😂😇🙃

[manukahoneybae]

Amazing advice!

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25 Things That Will Make You a Better Sugar

• Choose your battles. There are things you won’t be able to convince him of.

• Research sex; watch porn; experiment. Know your limits, know what you’re willing to try.

• Expand your mind - listen to podcasts in your car, learn a second language (like French, Italian or Chinese) and research a few key topics that interest you so that you always have something to talk about.

• Practice good penmanship, always.

• Go to yoga classes which will help you centre your mind, be conscious of your posture and maintain your physique. Many cities have free classes if you’re willing to look.

• Text in full sentences, with accurate grammar.

• Learn how to cook a few ‘fancy’ meals well. Should you spend the night at his house, be prepared to cook one without making a fuss.

• If you’re a smoker, keep gum and perfume on you at all times. Buy a decent lighter, one that you have to refill with lighter fluid. Never light your own cigarettes - pull your lighter out, put your cigarette in your mouth and look at him expectantly.

• Swear less. People will be shocked when you do swear if it’s a rare occurrence.

• Look in the mirror every morning and identify one thing that you love about yourself and your appearance. Throughout the day, remind yourself of this thing.

• Be consciously aware of how fast you’re speaking. Take a second before you speak to collect your thoughts and consider your phrasing.

• Know good dinner etiquette.

• Travel whenever you can, even if it’s only to cities adjacent to yours. 

• On dates, go to the bathroom and take a moment to freshen up your makeup, gather yourself and take a deep breath.

• Learn how to mix a few basic cocktails like martinis, Manhattans and mojitos.

• Know this sentence structure: “I understand that _____, is that right?” People want to feel they’re being heard, first and foremost. For example, “I understand you’re upset that I can’t be available short notice. Is that right?” Follow up with: “Let’s work together on a solution.”

• Remain calm, no matter what.

• Learn a sport - tennis, golf, it doesn’t matter.

• Spend time alone; be independent. When you are comfortable with your own company, you will settle for nothing less than good company.

• Build a list of goals for yourself, long and short term. Know them inside out.

• Watch classic movies: Sabrina, All About Eve, Breakfast at Tiffany’s. Study the starlets and pick characteristics, gestures and the like that you can emulate in your own actions.

• Learn to give a good head rub, back massage, etc.

• Subscribe to newsletters for local galleries, art cinemas, fine dining restaurants, etc. Email your SD with suggestions of things that you come across which you think he might like. Don’t be afraid to make the effort, as long as you’re not the only one who is.

• Make reading the newspaper part of your daily ritual. Do the crossword, too.

• Read more - The Life of O, The Awakening, A Handmaid’s Tale, Cat on a Hot Tin Roof, The Optimist’s Daughter, Lolita. Reading will become a part of your daily meditation.

• Be punctual, authentic and consistent.

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• get out and explore the city/town/neighborhood you live in so that you have some suggestions for places to go no matter the situation. Also, it is great to talk about the places you like to go so that he can get an idea of what you like • ask questions! Beyond the usual “how was your day?” Try asking him- “what was the last great meal you ate and where? What made it so special?” Follow up questions show you are listening and helps keep the ball in his court • When a POT gets to talking sexual, either talk financial or smile and be evasive. Don’t be defensive or disgusted, it will likely make things worse. If he is crossing the line, smile and excuse yourself to the restroom and simply collect yourself and leave. Don’t make a scene or argue, it will not end well. Sugaring requires thick skin and you sometimes have to learn to just laugh and change subjects. • never underestimate a smile and a touch on the arm or hand. Use your eyes and body language to say “I want to fuck you” while keeping the conversation light and neutral- it is a total mind fuck. • pay attention to your daddy’s needs! Is he always coughing? Carry some cough drops on you for when you see him. Is he always tired? Show up with a hot cup of coffee or a protein bar, even some b-12 gummies. A little effort means a lot to these guys who are largely ignored and spend all their energy on others! My regular loves to snack on grapes and pecans so I always have some in my kitchen for him • smile when you talk, it makes you seem engaging and helps keep your voice lively for him to listen to • Keep your place clean! It seems like a no brainer if your SD is coming over to pick your place up but make sure you burn candles or spray something so it smells nice, fresh sheets on a made bed, clean your bathroom, etc. When you take selfies and mirror pics make sure the mirror/background is clean and uncluttered. Keep your car clean in case he needs to get in, you don’t want fast food wrappers and clothes all over the place.

[nybaby94]

Thoughtful

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In light of the escalating number of Salt Daddies out there, I made a simple checklist. For most of you babies, these questions are common sense. But the smallest details can be over-looked, and you may kick yourself in the end if you hadn’t paid more attention. If you apply this list to every POT, it should give you a very clear idea of whether or not he’s the SD for you. Be safe ladies!

[sugarluxuriabr-blog]

This is so important! Guys always check theses things at least! Be safe

[fucklovepayme]

🚨 To my followers. Reblog, like, bookmark, and save this damn post. It’ll save your time, sanity, and life from the salts and creeps. 🚨

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Avoid "Drink Dates" with POTs

An ask from today inspired this post. I’m sick of seeing online pots/men offering to go out for drinks as a first date. It’s cheap and lazy on his end so he doesn’t have to try hard or spend much. It’s also a way to get you drunk so your inhibitions and judgement is much lowered, so you’d be more willing to do things (sexually) you wouldn’t usually do if you were sober.

Drinks as a first date is lame as fuck, especially with an older man who supposedly has money. You can do that with your friends or a guy that’s your age. I don’t need to pretend to like an ugly man that’s my daddy’s age to get drinks, I can pay for my own shit! If you’re going on a date with a POT, suggest a dinner that’s at a 4-5 star restaurant (and expensive). That’ll really test how much money he has. A real POT can spend $200+ on dinner for two and don’t miss it, even if you guys don’t work out. Don’t know any pricey restaurants in your area? Use Yelp, Opentable, or Google.

If he complains about how expensive the restaurant is or is adamant about a lame bar date, ghost his ass because he is cheap and/or a salt that’s trying to fuck you quick as possible. Be stingy with the pussy.

[bl0nde-sugar-blog]

Screen them, dont have sex until you see the money, but most importantly sell yourself as this mans fantasy.

 Make yourself worthy as the fun loving girl on the side that hes addicted to. 

Make it so every time he thinks of your name his dick gets hard.  The easiest way to a mans wallet is through his penis.  The first couple of dates, dont sleep with him.  After you’ve felt out what kind of man he is, what he likes, etc on the first date…leave him hard and lusting by the end of the second and third dates.  Play a little bit, kiss him and rub his thigh a little, give a coy smile, and leave him hanging.  He will do anything by the next date to get that new pussy.  Use this to your advantage, ask for the allowance now or give a reason for a shopping spree.  Hell, do both.  Like I said, if he’s got the money, and you’ve been leaving him horny, there’s little chance he’ll say no.  He thinks his $$ is the key to your pussy and will do anything at this point to get it!

[bl0nde-sugar-blog]

The best part about doing this is that once you’ve gone on a few dates without giving it up, and you ask for the allowance or shopping or whatever the fuck you want, he literally WILL NOT say no. He just invested 2-3 dates, at least 5 or 6 hours of his life into you. That is a BIG waste. Especially if he’s a very busy man, which most SDs are.  He knows investments,he knows he just invested time,money, and dates on you.  And he still hasnt gotten laid.  He has to feel like hes THIS CLOSE to getting it.  Instead of a “No” practice a “we’ll see” when it comes to sex with your SD. Make him invest time and money into you before he gets the pussy.  He wont be able to say no to your $$$ requests cuz HE. WANTS. THAT. PUSSY.  If he does for whatever reason say no to your requests he was most likely a salt daddy who decided you weren’t an easy lay,and he cant afford you.  Regardless. If he says no he was a waste of your time to begin with. Men with real money will NOT say no to you.  Especially if you tease him and make him crave you.

[sugarbxoxo-blog]

Applause. Pussy always win *hair flip*

[nybaby94]

❤️🏅❤️🏅❤️🏅❤️🏅❤️#TRUTH

[prettymoodboard]

My WYP policy

I will not go under $69 Anything under $100 is a Starbucks date (short and sweet, I get a Grande drink and they have until I finish it, 30-45 mins. Not usually over an hour unless the date is going exceptionally well.) $100+ is a lunch or dinner date I do not make the first offer, but if I do it’s $100. If it’s rejected I give him one more chance, $69 (They usually find it humorous and agree. I will not go lower than that.)

Also, I will usually schedule two or more short Starbucks dates for the same day.

[democrips]

fake conversations in your head of you venting to someone

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working through trauma by yelling at no one while driving alone

[dandelionpuppy]

validating yourself by imagining situations where bad things happen to people and you save them

[mynameinyamouth]

Sugar: Where do I find my Daddy?

In this age, you can find an SD a lot of places. Let’s break this down for you. This post isn’t about the couple hundred per meet SDs, this is for the SDs that will actually sponsor you, offer you a monthly allowance and aren’t bedroom bandits.

Seeking Arrangements: This site is developing into men who feel “I don’t have that much money, but really want to fuck a 20 year old bare, but I can’t afford a hooker and/or I think they all have HIV.” (I’m an escort, most of these dudes can barely afford my hourly) If this is your MO, or you aren’t looking for a big payout for your time, and you are ready to compete with millions of other girls, this is for you.

Other sugar sites: a waste of time. SD4Me might have some redeeming qualities, cause I did have a guy who paid for my laptop from there, but there’s so many time wasters and its a badly set up site. Also many non-SA sites have very inactive guys, but you can’t see when they were last logged in until you pay or whatever. time/money sink.

Tinder: Most 40+ guys on tinder aren’t looking for an SB, mostly because they can’t afford it. Some are open to it but will bail on you. You can use a fake Facebook, if you’re trying to conceal your identity. Don’t ever try to get money for a relationship on the chat. never say sugar baby.  Like I’ve said before, unless he offers up the money amount and everything, don’t push for it too early. He has a lot of girls who just want his money, don’t become one of them. Block guys as soon as they say their not interested in an arrangement, just block and move on. Find out if he actually has money buy doing research. The flashy BMW pic? He went to a car show once. Not real. Also flashy does not equal generous.

Other dating sites: YES.

GOLDEN RULE FOR USING NON SUGAR OUTLETS

If you’re looking for a Sugar Daddy and you’re not on a sugar website. Don't put it in your profile. Just don’t. Say you are interested in older men and yachting or fine dining or whatever, but don’t put arrangement in your profile. 

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No shame in using that word for word so thanks to whomever posted it 😊 we are meeting up tomorrow and I'll let y'all know how it goes. He checks out though and agreed to 4K/month if our meet and greet goes well! Fingers crossed.