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cupatty

#stop making sense #music tag

hangsawoman

leave tonight or live and die this way

free-my-mindd

#words to live by

venusforfran

Poem zine about my love of fish :) Purchase a copy here physically or here digitally :)

#this but i’ve become very fond of my boss from work who is a fish person and so ‘i keep thinking about fish’ has the tone of ‘i’ll just keep #drawing horses’ like fuckkkkk i do keep thinking about fish

mercblues

a car you used to drive can also be a kind of dead wife

mercblues

a selection of dead wives from the tags

#my beautiful toyota minivan hit 145000 miles the other day while i was driving her <3

kosmogrl

#every single day this week (finals week) campus was BEAUTIFUL. it was absurd

animamcontinere

You and that damn wasp!!!

2026

#sufjan

finished finals i will be the only person living in my apartment for the next many many days (weeks?) only one of my roommates is left & she's leaving in a few hours and im like girl when you go. the scaries are going to SET IN. i am very newly 50% of the way through college being alone rn is a BAD idea.

#im gonna go hang out w my bff michael this evening and we're gonna celebrate being done and then tomorrow i am going to #go to as many thrift stores as it takes to find a good pair of pants. and then i think sam is gonna be here & we will hang out!!!!!!#but like. seriously no one leave me alone right now i completed 4 finals in 3 days and i dont think i did great on them and i have no summe #plans other than continuing to work my part time job. if i am left alone i am absolutely going to make BAD decisions #and its gonna be either impulsively texting my crush (bad idea) or existentializing about my future and the passage of time (bad idea)

today is my last day of finals and once i take my last exam today (intermediate microeconomics sigh sigh) i will be DONE with sophomore year of college (and will thus be halfway done with college) which is TERRIFYING! hashtag the days are long but the years fly by

#i feel so mixed about this it’s been such a big year #so much has happened and yet i feel like it was literally yesterday i was moving into my apartment

creekfiend

there's also this cycle that keeps disabled people isolated socially:

my needs are higher than it is socially appropriate to ask someone to meet when you dont know them well -> i don't know the people running any given organization or program or class at all; i am a stranger to them -> asking for what i need is punished bc it is seen as rude, bossy, or entitled -> this is so aversive to me that i simply stop trying to participate in anything.

like

we've all been there! this physical and social isolation is IMPOSED BY ABLEISM

#disability

soulmvtes

a week of getting caught in downpours

#spring tag

doitbuckley

pollen

happy Barely Keeping It Together Wednesday to all who celebrate

#yay it’s finals week!!!

forestgreenlesbian

Caibao & Ke Qian, Xiamen, September 2019

from Solace by Sarah Mei Herman

#this is crucially important

so horribly in the throes of pining and thinking about her its insane. she speaks mandarin so we spoke mandarin a bit during dinner (it was a lot of her speaking and me responding in english) and she's taiwanese so her accent is pretty different to that of many of my friends who i speak mandarin with and taiwanese accents in mandarin are SO pretty and also just she is so pretty that now im sitting in my living room twirling my hair like wowww i want her to speak to me in mandarin again

#before we switched from english to mandarin i told her i was going to tell a story in english but with the punchline in mandarin (because #that is how the story goes) and she was like “you should tell the whole thing in mandarin” and i was like “no” and she was like “no you #should“ and i was like ”no it'll be better this way“ and now im beating myself up like fuck. i shouldve told the story in mandarin #i was so nervous to start speaking mandarin in front of her and then the stuff i did say ended up being so butchered that i was mildly #embarrassed. but in a fun way!!! idk i like her so much and the whole thing was so date-like and really unclear as to where we go from here #and now im TORMENTED #and im definitely definitely a lesbian wow

i hung out with my very beautiful coworker yesterday in what scholars are calling "the closest you can get to being on a lesbian date without it being a date". i had (in my mind) planned on us going to one set of locations. well we met up and she was like "we're going to go to take the ferry to [location i had not planned on going to]" and i was like we are? and she said yes its more fun it's a better view and i said okay i trust you lead the way!

in the span of 5 hours, we went to 3 different cities, took 2 trains and 2 ferries, and probably walked at least 2 miles. in the time we were together i opened google maps ONCE. i didn't look at the ferry schedules, i didn't look at the train schedules, etc despite the fact that I HAD BEEN THE ONE WHO INVITED HER. at the end of dinner she paid, and after i offered to pay and she turned me down i said "okay, then next time it's on me"

i DONT know whats going on

lamignonette

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