It disgusts me how much men try and tear down women on a constant basis. Like as soon as men sniff out any kind of confidence in a woman it becomes their life mission to pick her apart and make sure she’s aware of all these made up ‘flaws’ they want her to think she has, but it’s rare that ever happens to a man. Like, a good looking man KNOWS he’s good looking, but a good looking woman is constantly questioning herself.
Whoever posted this, I hope you know not all guys are like this, and I hope you find someone that treats you better than you’ve ever dreamed.
Ughhhh, this isn’t even about that, like, at all. Who gives two shits about one dude who treats me well?? Who fucking cares? The point of this post was that it’s a fucking epidemic that men love tearing women down because they are so insecure and predatory that a confident woman who puts a high value on herself is deemed as a threat and must be cut down because men feel her self esteem and worth isn’t hers to determine but theirs to decide. It’s easier to manipulate, abuse, and take advantage of people who have low self esteem and rely on others for assurance of their worth. I don’t fucking care if one dude fucking treats me like a person, gives me the respect I deserve, and doesn’t belittle me, they should all do that.
You don’t get a fucking cookie for being bare minimum decent
guys are assholes, you women are upset. Guys are nice, we get a response like that^^ just admit you’re a lesbian, harass the assholes, and leave decent human beings alone. Ok, bitches?
The other day I anoned this girl and told her how I felt about this post.. Everyone that replied to it laughed and said I was a “cis man” no I’m a woman who thinks everyone is equal. If you’re nice your nice, if you’re rude I don’t want to talk to you. I talked about how the men in my life aren’t abusive and don’t do this shit. I stand by it I have great male influences in my life. If all the men in your life are abusive STOP GOING FOR SHITTY MEN. It’s that simple. I see the world genderless and raceless. Because if we stop making a big deal about it it won’t matter.. People like this are so fucking stupid. “The shitty men I meet means all men are abusive” with that attitude you’re not ever going to find someone that isn’t. Stop making feminism, hatred for men it’s not helping.
I’m so tired of this shit. So tired of people derailing this post with this sort of shit.
I have had decent men in my life (family and otherwise) who I could say are “good influences”. Great for me. Really. I’m lucky. Does this mute what so many other women deal with by patriarchal men on a daily basis? Fuck no it doesn’t.
Just because something is good for you, it doesn’t negate how other women feel, what they deal with on a daily basis, and doesn’t excuse the men who have been shit in their lives. Why is this such a difficult concept?
It’s nice you can play pretend because you’ve got great men in your life. You don’t have to see what’s really going on out there because it doesn’t apply to you. Not everyone is that fortunate. Not everyone gets to “stop going for shitty men”. Get outta here with that naive bullshit.
Blaming women for their “choices” in men instead of putting that blame on the men who are the shitty ones? Classic. Classic move.
Stay in your bubble if you want, I’d prefer if your “raceless and genderless” self did tbh, but stop popping your head out just to point fingers where you feel most comfortable.
