SomeoneInFinding

30F • Acespec • i’m just a big ‘?’ at this point • this is my personal blog, have fun! 😁 (i LOVE getting to know how different people feel and think) 💜 i’m a gentle girlie… please be gentle when interacting 😇

[ruinedwithlust]

[feefal]

Stat sheets for different drawing archetypes! CHOOSE YOUR FIGHTER!

[lesbiangirlylonging]

am i touch starved? yes

do i have a partner to fix this?

NO

[not-straight-yearning]

Mooood

[pisshandkerchief]

never kill yourself. discovering music is literally endless. you know songs? they're always making new ones

[someoneinfinding]

It’s interesting watching myself go from being a good girl to an attention seeker again… slowly relapsing after six months…

It feels soo good to turn off thinkies and just get lost in the fun…

[pixierainbows]

[dreadwedge]

“Having an affair” is such a funny way to describe cheating. There is marriage and then there is the situation. I had a wife and then an event happened to me.

[wgm-beautiful-world]

[someoneinfinding]

GUYS IM SUPER DRUNK AND 😭😭😭

Literally so SO GRATEFUL FOR ALL THE PAIN AND JOY THAT LED Me to

Evolve into who I am in THIS MOMENT!!!

[vampirelolita]

[someoneinfinding]

i know dis intended to be a joke but dis do be abuse, bro.

[f-around-n-find-out]

How I want him

On his knees

Smirking

Flirty

Observant

Begging

Cuddly

Honest

Restrained

[someoneinfinding]

•Restrained 😏

[identitty-dickruption]

just saw someone (a trans + autistic person) say "most trans people are autistic" so just wanted to clear up real quickly. that is not true. you cannot separate the autism/trans overlap from the reality that many trans people have to have psych evals in order to access healthcare, which makes us more likely to be identified as autistic. when I was trying to access HRT, my doctor gave me questionnaires for autism and ADHD. many of my friends who are on HRT had to get evaluated for gender dysphoric disorder, and picked up other diagnoses in the process. this is altogether unsurprising to me, and it should be unsurprising to anyone who has been through those layers of psychiatric screening

I'm not saying there's a 0% chance of a real overlap existing between the two groups. it is an overlap that would make some sense. but 1) it's certainly not "most" trans people, and 2) you cannot trust any data about a group that is more likely to be exposed to pathologising processes than the majority

[identitty-dickruption]

this is also one of many reasons you should be suspicious of data about mental illness diagnoses in prison populations. criminalising and pathologising go hand in hand. if more people in a population are assessed for a diagnosis, more people in that population will present with that diagnosis. this is particularly true when there are political factors at play. such as, for example, the political pressure to pathologise 'criminality' as a trait held in an individual. or 'transgenderism' as a process undertaken by the insane. unsurprising!

[malevolent-miss]

Prey

It's not strange, wanting to be prey.

Not when you think about it.

Who doesn't want to be an object of desire?

Don't you like the idea of being sought out; of having someone come to you?

For someone more cunning, more capable to choose you, *crave* you?

You have the privilege of knowing you'll satiate them. And isn't there a sort of comfort in the certainty of understanding they'll get you no matter what you do?

That doesn't sound so bad, does it?

[vexheart]

us if we were gummy bears

[someoneinfinding]

sent this to my friend <3

[someoneinfinding]

met my first unabashedly gay-disliking co worker yesterday (because they got S-harassed by one)

i don’t quite know how to deal with such situations other than to not let such comments slide

but it also made me truly realise why being as visible an ally as circumstances allow is essential. what if there was another closeted coworker around and they heard that? what if they felt threatened or scared because no one else stood up for the community while one person was vocally saying things about them based on a bad experience with 1 person?!

[someoneinfinding]

i was articulate enough that _they_ felt like they shouldn’t continue this conversation anymore . and i count that as a win!

i cannot control the world but at least the spaces that I am in, i will not let bigotry go unchallenged. even if my voice is feeble.

[someoneinfinding]

met my first unabashedly gay-disliking co worker yesterday (because they got S-harassed by one)

i don’t quite know how to deal with such situations other than to not let such comments slide

but it also made me truly realise why being as visible an ally as circumstances allow is essential. what if there was another closeted coworker around and they heard that? what if they felt threatened or scared because no one else stood up for the community while one person was vocally saying things about them based on a bad experience with 1 person?!

[soup-mother]

wow this is really clever because [USA law that isn't applicable in the country this is happening in]!

OP you need to get a lawyer because [USA law that isn't applicable in the country this is happening in]!

um but it's literally illegal for them to [thing that isn't illegal in the country this is happening in]

I'd really recommend you contact [US group who aren't in the country this is happening in]

oh here's a link for [thing that isn't applicable in the country this is happening in]