The story of my assistant manager
So I work as a gas station food prep. the exciting I know. This story goes over a couple weeks. My assistant manager let's call him j.
J wants to take me out to a comedy club alone. and since I can't drive. he offered to take me out alone for driving lessons which I told no.
also, I told them about going to a Marilyn Manson concert (which was amazing) and he told me he wants to be my personal bodyguard in the mosh pit. He just wants to protect me he says
I keep telling him no. I am not comfortable with that but J keeps insisting he for me to go out with him. saying "I'm only trying to get you out of your shell"
keep in mind J is 40 years old has an ex-wife and a teenage son and I'm only 21
On three separate occasions, he touched me with his cold hands when he came out of the freezer. one time he touched my elbow. second time he placed his hand on my neck underneath my ear. and the last time he came up behind me and touched my forearm with his cold hand started rubbing my forearm.
I told my manager about this and he has stopped doing it ever since
A creepy thing J did was another co-worker asks what do you want for Christmas that you never got. So, I joked and said my will to live the J said "Sarah I'm going to give you your will to live" and I'm like what the fuck does that mean.
On many occasions he has told me that he's the reason that I'm still working in the kitchen. That no one wants my help in the kitchen. He would often go from nice and sweet to yelling at me in the same minute.
sometimes I just get the feeling that I ruined our professional relationship by telling manager about this.
So one day I clock in and get some coffee cuz I'm tired and yelled at me for getting coffee with only took about 5 minutes.
And then he told me that no one wants my help and that I'm not helpful around here
So this happened before my break and during my break I brought some mini pancakes. I had them heat up in the microwave for 90 seconds. He yell at me for it cuz because that wasn't appropriate to use the microwave in the kitchen. So I had to use the microwave out in the front. Then come back to the break area. I feel like he was singling me out. I cried during my break until my manager who's very nice let's call her P. came by and saw that I was crying give me a hug and she invited me to her House one night. I really felt like quitting or hurting myself somedays but P made it all feel better. she told me that she talked to general Manager about J and he's not supposed to act like that. J has offered me to drive me to Denver (I live in South Dakota) and said no. I'm afraid for the new guy cuz he likes anime and I like anime and we talked a lot about anime and I'm afraid J might fire him because of that. He did the same thing a guy I talked alot to.
