sonder suggestions

  “Each of us inevitable; Each of us limitless-each of us with his or her right upon the earth.”  -Walt Whitman, “Salut Au Monde”   before you follow

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you asked me if i would spend the rest of my life with you. frankly, my love, i cannot think of anything i want to do more.

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hold me like this is our last night on earth and we only have each other.

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concept: it is early morning, and you wake up before i do. you wrap yourself around me and pull me close, peppering my cheek with kisses. i just barely wake up and kiss you lazily on the forehead. you run your fingertips over the side of my face, brushing my hair back. i open my eyes just a little. you smile at me and whisper, “good morning, love.” i am loved, i am warm, i am safe.

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you’ve helped me become the best version of myself

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who knows what tomorrow will bring? but tonight it’s just us. tonight, you’re pressed against my back, holding me close although there’s more than enough room on the bed. tonight, i can feel your breath on my neck, shaking as though you’re trying to breathe in everything you’ve missed since we were last together. you whisper “i love you” into my ear completely unprompted. it’s not a hello or goodbye, it’s a welcome. it’s a reminder. it’s fear of the future, but not our future. it’s you and it’s me. it’s just us.

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i think i’m watching us fall in love

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you’re so much stronger than i ever thought a person could be

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you are so full of light that i can hardly stand it

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hi ! i run a new suggestion blog (@longing-suggestion) and i was wondering if i could get a promo? it’s a mix of sfw and nsfw though so if not that’s okay i understand. thank you ♡

of course!! y’all go check out @longing-suggestion !

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you’ve filled a hole in my heart that i was afraid would be empty forever

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I do have to say the mask of anonymity is useful in making me braver. Out of curiosity, are you a boy, girl, or in between? Your sweetness makes me think girl or in between is more likely than boy. Also, what colour would you say you are? I don't want a simple blue, black, or yellow. Describe it like your concepts. (That was a bit commanding sorry)

hiya! i hope it’s alright, but i am not going to answer the gender question right now. i try to keep this blog as anonymous as possible to allow for projection and relation, if that makes sense. also, i’d prefer any more personal questions be asked through message or not on anon, so i can answer privately! this blog is for you and the others who need it, not about me :pas for the color, i’d put it around “river in a forest” and mahogany wood together. like the grey of river rocks with clear water running over them, in combination with mahogany. wishing you lots of love,sonder-suggestions

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I hope all my questions don't bother you but I have many more. I also imagine scenes usually instead of an exact person though lately I've been leaning towards my soulmate being a guy. A common scene I imagine is lying at night, soulmate is asleep and our limbs are entangled. Funny thing, usually we're touching in some way and it's usually not sexual but more of I-waited-so-long-for-this-I-won't-risk-letting-you-get-far kind of touch. It's quiet and still and comfortable. I'm whole.

no worries at all!i love this sm <3 i hope with all my heart that this happens for you!! it’s super beautiful, i feel you on what that kind of touch is, too.love,sonder-suggestions

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I'm curious as to who you imagine when you write the concepts? I know I tend to imagine vague traits they may have like sharp eyes, charming way of words, a soothing voice. How do you imagine your soulmate?

hiya! this is such an interesting question!when i imagine a soulmate for myself, it’s hard to pin down features. i also imagine vague traits, and i imagine emotions and colors more than anything else.for example, my concepts tend to have some kind of soft, flickering, glowing light, and that is a trait i associate with comfort and being content. a soulmate can and should be (in my opinion) a soft, yet strong beacon during the dark times, a reminder of hope, yet still human and flawed. i try to avoid pinpointing a gender in my posts as well, because i feel as though a soulmate could be anyone, of any gender, ability, or background. thus, i tend to associate a soulmate (for myself) with the idea of infinity and knowledge, as well as an openness and kindness that is hard to explain in words.i hope that answered your question- i know it was kind of vague, but it really made me think, nonetheless!i hope your day is as bright as the sun!love,sonder-suggestions

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I'm incredibly thankful for your writing. Your words hold so much warmth and softness and power, regardless of who they were 'really' meant for, they seem to reach out and touch me all the same. Thank you.

hello!i am so, so glad you like my blog!! asks like these make me so happy, and i want you to know that you’ve filled my heart and made my day! thank you for reaching out to say these things, it really means a lot to me <3i hope the rest of your day, or the one coming up, is full of joy!love,sonder-suggestions

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concept: you and i are in a forest. it is dusk, and the lightning bugs do flips through the tree trunks. it is late summer. the air is oddly still and warm, and you tighten your grip on my hand. i lean my head on your shoulder. the only sound is the crunching of leaves beneath our feet. everything smells like home. we are completely safe. we are cozy. we are home together.

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Do you write your concepts while thinking of someone specific? They remind me of the times late at night when I'm thinking of my soulmate out in the universe somewhere and I mumble to myself in hopes they can hear it. That's a bit personal though so this is gonna anonymous whoops.

hi! thanks for the question!on occasion, my posts are about specific people. however, most of the time they’re exactly as you describe - for a soulmate out in the universe somewhere. a lot of them (especially the concept posts!) are wishes, in a way!thanks for asking! i hope you have a wonderful day!love,sonder-suggestions

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Hi, I saw your post saying that you'd be there for anyone... and, uh... well I'm desperate. I feel like there's no point in anything anymore. I feel like everyone's just going to keep leaving, and like I'll never change... I don't know what to do anymore, I don't know who to talk to, I can't go to anyone and I can't do anything, it feels hopeless to try and fill this hole, it feels hopeless to do anything.... I'm sorry for this burden, but I just needed to tell somebody... idk what to do anymore

hi love!neither you, nor your situation are a burden, i promise. i want to preface this with the fact that i am not a professional anything, and not to take anything i say as definitive medical or mental health advice, okay? i know my response might seem kind of on the vague side, and may not be helpful, but please understand i’m working from a place of cautious optimism.because i don’t know much about your particular situation, i’m not going to try and give you specific advice (especially since you haven’t indicated you want any). i am going to throw out a few suggestions of what has helped me in the past, and may help at some point. the first step to getting something done is to figure out where to start. if you’re stuck in the mindset that you can’t go to anyone or do anything, then it is absolutely not going to get done. you have to want to do it. however, i understand age/familial/cultural barriers are often a factor. there are always people out there willing to listen!  i highly recommend seeing a professional if at all possible. if that is not possible, and/or it’s a crisis situation, i recommend texting the crisis text line if you’re in the US.i’m not clear on what it is you think you’ll never change. what needs to be changed? what kinds of things do you enjoy doing? could you find local support groups, art groups, libraries or college campuses that have puppy play dates? i can’t guarantee anything, but sometimes a change of scenery, or starting anew with a fresh group of people, can be helpful.i know hopelessness (and depression) can be a bear to handle, and sometimes it’s almost impossible to deal with. please know that i’m rooting for you, and although i probably haven’t helped a ton, i would be more than happy to listen, and to send you any resources i may have.wishing you lots of love and strength, sonder-suggestions(non-suggestion asks are welcome! they will be tagged with ‘not a suggestion’)