[j-h-s]

[333-r]

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[dailyeffectiveprayer]

Amen

[remanence-of-love]

[lehooes]

jeremy shoots

[soluksuret]

[evbodysaysim]

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[stuckinapril]

[literaryvein]

L. V., conversations in the dark

[dilemarhoom]

[icaseybaybee]

[lehooes]

jeremy shoots

[sunmystic]

[stuckinapril]

I think part of getting better is complete ego death. Like you’re not above setting a timer for 5 minutes and focusing on a task. You’re not above doing a very simple 3 minute workout to start. You’re not above reading for 10 minutes a day when you first get out of your reading slump, even if you used to read for hours. You’re not above starting slow and then building up to where you want to be/where you once were. What you are above is total inertia. Doing something really is better than doing nothing. Radically accept where you are, radically accept your limits, and go from there. Don’t let your ego get in the way.

[vexheart]

[overclassy]

[overclassy]

[minimalistquotes]

Before you argue with someone ask yourself, "is this person mentally mature enough to grasp the concept of different perspectives?" If not there is no point to argue.

[perfectquote]

“Never push a loyal person to the point where they no longer care.”

— Unknown

[stuckinapril]

I promise you things will get so much better when you start processing people’s behavior as information rather than a verdict on your self-worth. If someone doesn’t text back, suddenly pulls away, whatever it may be, the solution isn’t to put on a tap dance for them and try to regain their approval. It’s not to crash out on them and try to force them to react a certain way. It’s just to take a step back, take a deep breath, and assess what this tells you. What’s this saying about them? What’s this saying about you??