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your favorite(??) Whimsical Spoonie Fae had to get a lawyer to help in the divorce because my ex doesn't want to pay spousal support even though he makes $$$$, but of course that means right now I don't Have the money for a lawyer who will make him Give Me the money so I can like. Stay on my meds and not die?

Anyway. Chip in if you can & want to, reblogs help too, etc etc etc you know the drill. Every little bit helps & I appreciate anything, fr.

Mutual aid might not be the ideal solution (universal healthcare and universal basic income anyone???), but I used to send people my husband's money and when I've got money again I'll pay it forward as best I can 💙💜

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thegreatyin

every so often i look at pictures of baby fruit bats and i start sobbing.

peace and love on planet earth.

potsiefaerie

your favorite(??) Whimsical Spoonie Fae had to get a lawyer to help in the divorce because my ex doesn't want to pay spousal support even though he makes $$$$, but of course that means right now I don't Have the money for a lawyer who will make him Give Me the money so I can like. Stay on my meds and not die?

Anyway. Chip in if you can & want to, reblogs help too, etc etc etc you know the drill. Every little bit helps & I appreciate anything, fr.

Mutual aid might not be the ideal solution (universal healthcare and universal basic income anyone???), but I used to send people my husband's money and when I've got money again I'll pay it forward as best I can 💙💜

*spotfund is the easiest place to create beautiful and free online fundraisers. It takes just minutes to start raising money today.

possible-streetwear

bebsi-cola

money is such an underrated accessibility option.

like people want to think any disabled person who is after money is morally suspect some way, because they're not asking for "treatments" or "accommodations" like a lot of our issues can be fixed way more easily with money. can't drive? paying for a taxi is often one of the more accessible alternatives. can't cook? you can pay more to have prepared food delivered to you. food restrictions? that food straight up costs more money. can't clean? you can pay for someone to do that. house inaccessible? having (lots) of money can help with that, you get the gist.

having money won't make us abled. it also won't stop our symptoms from being distressing, painful, or debilitating. but there's a huge gap in experience between the average poor disabled person and someone who's actually wealthy. you can buy your way out of some of the difficult situations most disabled people are left to rot in. wanting money, needing money, asking for money is pretty natural when it's such a useful tool. why get so weird about disabled people wanting money like i'm pretty sure everyone wants money anyway

potsiefaerie

your favorite(??) Whimsical Spoonie Fae had to get a lawyer to help in the divorce because my ex doesn't want to pay spousal support even though he makes $$$$, but of course that means right now I don't Have the money for a lawyer who will make him Give Me the money so I can like. Stay on my meds and not die?

Anyway. Chip in if you can & want to, reblogs help too, etc etc etc you know the drill. Every little but helps & I appreciate anything, fr.

Mutual aid might not be the ideal solution (universal healthcare and universal basic income anyone???), but I used to send people my husband's money and when I've got money again I'll pay it forward as best I can 💙💜

*spotfund is the easiest place to create beautiful and free online fundraisers. It takes just minutes to start raising money today.

creekfiend

the thing about making statements, for me, is that I am aware that I am always always doing the thing where I inject multiple qualifying phrases into things because I don't want to sound overconfident or like I think I know everything. I am aware that I do this as a result of the outsized amount of social punishment it gets me when I fail to do that and how deeply aversive that is, and I am aware that there are a lot of people (men. largely men) who go through life never worrying about this and never ever experiencing social consequences for sounding "too confident" or "like they know everything," and this does make me extremely angry. it makes me angry that even when I have intentionally put multiple qualifying statements in a post ("I think" "in my experience" "most people" "most of the time" "broadly" "largely" etc the list goes on like you WILL NOT FIND A POST OF MINE WHICH DOES NOT CONTAIN AT LEAST ONE OF THESE,) people will come at me for sounding overconfident or like I think I know everything.

when you have tens of thousands of strangers reading your blog this can result in a large number of aversive interactions of this nature.

and it actually really fucking sucks.

I can't make anyone do anything, but I would like to request that when reading my posts, please stop to notice the qualifying statements. ask yourself how often you see certain types of people adding these to their writing and how often you see certain types of people being punished for doing so insufficiently. like. please notice this. I would really appreciate it. thank you.

archipithecus

softshell and hardshell books

paperback and hardcover turtles

potsiefaerie

paperback crabs...

horseshoe books?

#this is cracking me up #I can’t stop laughing #I really needed this

saistreight

Making plans for the rest of the year for traveling. Been busy at work, but also trying to get more crafting time in.

Particularly for colder weather, despite the colder weather receding. Still have a trip north to Seattle which still has cooler weather so I've got that in mind for testing out some colder weather items. Have been reading about mesh base layers for hikers and thinking about crocheting some net sleeves with wool. Thinking and doing. It's weirdly warm. I don't feel hot but I'm definitely not cold when wearing the sleeves. I think I will make another pair though with a smaller size yarn. I ordered shetland wool yarn from Eugene textile center that I'm going to be using to make more net base layers.

For both warmth and fashion.

Then for my partner's birthday, planning on seeing some deathrock bands in San Diego in a few months. One of the DJ's is the frontmand for New Skeletal Faces but him and his coDJ are known for hosting a deathrock/gothic rock kinda night, all vinyl and all that. Been wanting to go to a deathrock or minimal electronic night for a while, so this is a good opportunity.

Then a later trip to the ren faire in SoCal will be fun. Trying to get a group together for it.

(Speaking of deathrock, this band self describes as dark cabaret-deathrock. The songs I like in this album are this one, Nevermore Brothel, Mr Price, and down the stairs. 2006 release)