Unbetitelt

[spankingforyou]

Who am I?

I am a 27 German Spanko. I am Switch. I can be a brat or a mean Top. I love to go to Spankingpartys. Your Dms are welcome as long as you are polite. If you are a Spanko or you have a question for me, hit me up.

I like to play chess, listen to Podcasts or Audiobooks. I am also on Fetlife: MHW1997

[scarletbottoms]

Im from a really really religious and traditional Catholic family. My 19th birthday was last week and I still get spanked sometimes

I’m sorry this is happening to you. You are an adult and a non-consensual spanking would qualify as assault. The captions I post are fantasy but in reality, this doesn’t sound right to me. It may be time to establish boundaries with your parents or get yourself out of that situation.

[scarletbottoms]

I havent been spanked in so long but I desperately want one🫣

I found my current spanking partner on Reddit of all places, so just put yourself out there! You know what you want and that's half the battle. It's liberating to be honest and ask for exactly what you want.

[scarletbottoms]

Im from a really really religious and traditional Catholic family. My 19th birthday was last week and I still get spanked sometimes

I’m sorry this is happening to you. You are an adult and a non-consensual spanking would qualify as assault. The captions I post are fantasy but in reality, this doesn’t sound right to me. It may be time to establish boundaries with your parents or get yourself out of that situation.

[spankedquail]

Blocking

I want to make something very clear: I’m open to talking about all kinds of topics—sex, relationships, dynamics, you name it. Nothing is off-limits as long as you approach me with respect and maturity.

That said, I’ve been getting some truly disgusting and disrespectful asks lately, and I won’t tolerate it. If you come into my inbox acting like a creep—asking about specific sex acts in a gross way, crossing personal boundaries, or asking for photographs—I will block you without hesitation. Go touch some grass and reflect on how you interact with people.

For the record, I don’t believe in blanket misogyny, and I certainly don’t believe women should submit to men just because they’re male. Submission is earned—it’s given to someone who’s worth it. I recently answered a lovely ask about this, and I’m always happy to engage in thoughtful, respectful conversations.

But if you can’t treat other people with basic decency, you’ll never have anything close to what my husband has—because you haven’t learned how to interact like an actual human being. No one is going to submit to you, give you affection, or even take you seriously if you come off as disgusting, disrespectful, or entitled.

Submission isn’t something you can demand. It isn’t something you can bully or manipulate someone into giving. It’s earned. It comes from being the kind of person who inspires trust, safety, and genuine desire—not the kind of person who skulks into inboxes with gross questions and zero self-awareness. My husband gets what he gets because he’s someone worth giving it to. He’s loving, patient, attentive, and secure in himself.

If you think you can skip the work it takes to be that kind of person—if you think you can demand submission while offering nothing in return but entitlement and garbage behavior—you’re in for a long, lonely life. Because no one is going to look at you and think, that’s someone I can trust to take care of me. And if you can’t inspire that kind of trust, you’re never going to get what you so clearly think you deserve.

To everyone else: I appreciate the thoughtful questions and discussions that come my way. Keep them coming—I love hearing from you, and I’m happy to share and connect, so long as you’re respectful.

[spankingforyou]

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