fuck you you fucking fuck

clover | feminist killjoy, misandrist bitch | they/she TMA | 28 | ntx | not accepting new followers!!! if you follow me i will softblock you

[speckled-negg]

the repeated insistence that the most vulnerable members of the transfem community are the rapists and pedophiles and not like. their victims.

[estrellasrojas]

Left Instagram: You say that you’re a leftist but you can’t even boycott Amazon and buy overpriced clothes from my Depop instead

Left Twitter: [Everyone arguing over whether we should endorse a Berniecrat politician whose scandals keep becoming more and more comically insane until it feels like they were made in a lab to make us look ridiculous]

Left Tumblr: The thought police want to KILL me for my extensive rape roleplay cinematic universe

[mephistopheles]

some of yall need to go back to like preschool level 'girls can do anything boys can do' feminism bc we are regressing into feminine = frivolous = weak = nurturing and masculine = power = force = competence at the speed of fucking light

[sentient-noodle]

ofcourse isff is back on her "but think of the poor rapist" bullshit.

[aurora-eos]

I am a transfem and I was sexually assaulted by another transfem. I feel like it’s nearly impossible for me to discuss this even in general terms without either transphobes or people like ISFF jumping on me. And I keep seeing posts along these lines on Tumblr. This shit is so upsetting.

Why does my safety not matter? If you want to protect women from assault, or you want to defend your trans sisters, why does that always seem to exclude me? And if you can’t support transfems like me who have been sexually assaulted, can you please at least shut up instead of reminding me of my trauma and portraying girls like me as somehow the dangerous ones in such a messed up way?!

I don’t even want to ruin anyone’s life, but I do think other women who may be at risk should be aware of what they did, and that known sexual abusers should not have a large public platform representing our community. And at the very least when we come forward to talk about these issues you should take us seriously and care about us too. Not just defending the rapists who happen to also be trans. Never using our pain for your political agendas.

[greebledgoblin]

i go on bluesky until the liberals piss me off, i go on tumblr until the communists piss me off, i go on twitter until the bitchy reactionary girls and gays piss me off

[greebledgoblin]

bluesky post: we need to stick it to the DICKtator in chief by funding my new ttrpg zine

tumblr post: sexual assault is only traumatic if you have a puritanical view of sex

twitter post: sorry if this isnt woke but the fat dolls are lowkey not serving

[speckled-negg]

[speckled-negg]

& the number of people in the notes of these pro-pedophile pro-rape screeds trying to make it about misandry??? we're never getting out of here alive

[speckled-negg]

as tempting as it is to blame this on 4chan reddit etc this has been the obvious trajectory of discourse on transfem tumblr since at least 2019. i remember 4lung apologia i remember catgirlforeskin grooming a 15 y/o on her lolicon sideblog i remember all the dolls who stood by her instead of having a moral backbone

[clowniconography]

wait ok this is actually one that has caused some contention before when I've talked to people about it. reblog and tag whether or not you check the weather prediction every day before going out

[sanrio-stud]

how often do you check the weather

daily

weekly

sometimes

i don't

Remaining time: 6 days 11 hours

[greebledgoblin]

i go on bluesky until the liberals piss me off, i go on tumblr until the communists piss me off, i go on twitter until the bitchy reactionary girls and gays piss me off

[greebledgoblin]

bluesky post: we need to stick it to the DICKtator in chief by funding my new ttrpg zine

tumblr post: sexual assault is only traumatic if you have a puritanical view of sex

twitter post: sorry if this isnt woke but the fat dolls are lowkey not serving

[speckled-negg]

she doesn't think anyone with two braincells and a moral compass will believe this shit btw she is broadcasting this into the universe to convince young vulnerable isolated trans women that she and her little rapist gang are the only allies they have in the entire world. and everyone here who's too stupid to disagree with a trans woman for fear of looking transmisogynist is enabling this!!!!!! it's grooming it's like textbook grooming

[sentient-noodle]

ofcourse isff is back on her "but think of the poor rapist" bullshit.

[sparklingbog]

"You are fundamentally puritan. You'll never escape sin, hell or meet Christian God like me, a Tumblr shut in who's online friends with pedophiles" you didn't even try, your catholic is showing

[sparklingbog]

Newly-escaped Catholics and LDS really think the moment they get put from under the thumb of their religion, they have it ALL figured out. Why don't you lurk for a couple years...

[speckled-negg]

the way they always genuinely earnestly think they're adding nuance or whatever rather than just doing exactly the behavior being criticized. my god. some of you are so stupid it's genuinely amazing you haven't choked to death eating dinner

[hirsuteandcute]

I'm just going to say it - body hair (and beauty standards in general) is truly one of the final frontiers of women's issues in the West. Too many women just love their gilded cage too much. It shocks me how virulently women will defend it. I barely open my mouth and the "well I like how it feels. it just makes me feel cleaner. sensory issues. I do it for me. feminism is about choosing (to conform)." brigade come rushing in by the dozens.

Well I don't like how it feels. I don't feel cleaner without body hair. I don't prefer not having body hair. But who will advocate for women like me, but me? For women who do like hair removal, they are advocated for every time they step out of the house and see 99% of the female population also conforming to that standard, or when they watch a movie and see all the shaved actresses, or view an advertisment, or open a magazine, or watch a music video, or scroll through social media, or walk down the streets without receiving insults and glares for having a completely normal bodily feature.

You genuinely can't even point out that hairlessness is a man-made standard without women losing their shit and acting like they are totally immune to propaganda they've been exposed to from birth. I'm so tired.

[speckled-negg]

every once in a while i find myself nearly regretful that i don't ever want kids bc a) i think i could do a better job of parenting than frankly most people and b) i think i'm doing a disservice to the movement by not raising mindful socialist children. but then i think about the kind of restrictions to your life having a child imposes and i remember that i'd rather die

[speckled-negg]

it really is crazy how traumatizing childhood is and then if you try to suggest restructuring society so it isn't people look at you like you've sprouted a second head

[chaumas-deactivated20240115]

Children are born into a state of implicit debt.

Good parents forgive this debt. Bad parents expect it to be repaid, one way or another. The accepted currencies are varied and cryptic and might be mostly innocuous or they might be horrifically criminal.

Many families don’t realize that there is a debt until the child defaults on it somehow. That could be for any reason—the child simply fails to deliver on the parental investment by not adequately being the child they paid for.

“Inspiration porn” is a disability term, but I’m using it here because it’s appropriately provocative, and because the state of being a child is functionally a disability. A child who fails to be life-affirming and inspirational and to perform heartwarming innocence is breaking a contract, and adults are no longer obligated to uphold their own end and nurture the child. A child is a resource from which inspiration porn can be mined, or it is a kind of brood parasite.