girl almighty

just waitin' on peter pan to take me off to neverland Mattie. 27.

[deadithurts]

andrew garfield saying, “i hope this grief stays with me because it’s all the unexpressed love that i didn’t get to tell her” about his mothers passing is so gut wrenchingly beautiful because we rarely talk about the love we want to express but can’t, not because you’re not brave enough to say it out loud but because they’re not here to listen to it anymore. calling grief the love you never had the chance to share makes it less of a burden and more of something you want to keep and not something terrible you want to move on from. i love love how everything about grief always comes down to “what is grief if not love persevering?”

[lifeafterpsychiatry]

Just because your feelings are valid, this doesn't mean that every possible reaction to them is. Yes, it's okay to be angry - but it's not okay to take it out on someone by breaking their stuff. Yes, it's okay to be jealous - but it's not okay to sabotage relationships. Yes, it's okay to want attention - but it's not okay to lie to get it. And so on. Your feelings are always valid, but you still have a responsibility for how you choose to express them.

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[maybeiamfireproof]

an important reminder that feelings are not the cause of your actions, the same feelings can cause a range of different actions or none and it is your responsability to examine where the actions associated with your feelings come from and if they are appropriate or healthy

the best way i can explain this is, a feeling, let's say sadness, can influence you cry in your bed, can influence you to draw, influence you to stop showering, influence you to ignore your friends, influence you to drink, but which action you will perform is not a consequence of the feeling, the feeling is a component, but it does not dictates the action (that is why people on the usa punch walls when they get angry and here no one does it, because here (brazil) almost every wall is solid rock, and in thr usa it is made of paper apparently idk).

that is why learning to express in a healthy manner those feelings is so important. because if you think feelings cause actions you can do some pretty bad and unhealthy stuff and can accept behaviours from others that are not ok. so pay attention to how you express yourself, thing about where did you learn that feeling A is expressed by action B and become more aware of those processes

[whitepeopletwitter]

A strong contender for tweet of the year, already.

[littlestarlost]

okay wow

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[lindirs-gaze]

a little end of 2020 spirit

from limmy

[llesbianfarmer]

straight people will never understand how therapeutic it is to hear the words “her girlfriend” or “his boyfriend” or how I ascend to heaven when I hear “her wife” and “his husband”

[queerbookdragon]

Female customer: “I don’t have a rewards card but my partner might.”

Me, ears perking up: “Great! Can I have their name?”

Customer: “It’s Stephanie ____”

Me: stupidly wide smile and faint twinkle in eyes because holy crap I’m not alone

[kendrysaneela]

These two women came up to my register with their twins and they called each other honey and their kids called them both Mom and my soul ascended to the heavens i was so happy

[overlyactivepingpongball]

When I worked as a contractor I knocked on a heavily pregnant woman’s door and she said she’d “have to talk to the missus” in a heeeeavy outback accent and I actually forgot how to speak for a second and had to explain that I’m not homophobic I’m just super gay and hearing her say that launched my souls directly to nirvana

[oculianthracina]

My soul when I see Queer people visibly and openly living their best Queer lives:

[laughconfetti]

LGBT visibility is so important for this reason and more.

[thesassycat]

I was so sleep deprived the other day that I tried to zoom in on a paper

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wtf I just made that post

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oh wait that is my post

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I havent slept in 2 days

[vampireapologist-archive-deacti]

what if……..some things get better in 2021……..it is a possibility.

[vampireapologist-archive-deacti]

My friends. Being cautiously optimistic does not ”jinx” anything. There is no force in the universe which punishes us for having hope. There is no god waiting for us to stand up in order to knock us back down. If things do not get better, make no mistake, the only beings who are consciously sabotaging us are those humans denying us financial aid and health care. They are only people, and they can be defeated.

I will continue to hope.

[hotboyproblems]

this made me burst out laughing

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[atreides-paul-deactivated202301]

My new favorite meme