The Stardust Cluster

He/Void/It // Intersex & Trans Creatures // Sometimes we make our own posts, but we'll mostly reblog

[stardusts-in-space]

The flag in the banner is the disability pride flag !

The flags in the profile picture are, from left to right: intersex, transenbine, transxen and transgenderless !

We're the Bugs of the Galaxy (previously the stardust cluster). We're an autistic system. We use It/Its, Void/Voids, any variation of He/Him, and other neopronouns. NEVER They/Them, even to refer to all of us as a system.

You can call us Meowstic collectively.

Yes, our requests for the star flags decors are open, they will always be.

Stop sending us donations asks or dms, you'll be blocked on sight. There's a lot of reasons we don't want them, and we're too tired to explain every single one of them.

[gendercensus]

The 2026 Gender Census is now open!

[ survey.gendercensus.com ]

The 13th annual international gender census, collecting information about the language we use to refer to ourselves and each other, is now open until 13th August 2026.

It’s short and easy, for most participants it takes 5 minutes or less.

After the survey is closed I’ll process the results and publish a spreadsheet of the data and a report summarising the main findings. Then anyone can use them for academic or business purposes, self-advocacy, tracking the popularity of language over time, and just feeling like we’re part of a huge and diverse community.

If you think you might have friends and followers who’d be interested, please do reblog this blog post, and share the survey URL by email or at AFK social groups or on other social networks. Every share is extremely helpful!

Survey URL: https://survey.gendercensus.com

The survey is open to anyone anywhere who speaks English and feels that the gender binary doesn’t fully describe their experience of themselves and their gender(s) or lack thereof.

Thank you so much!

[ Link to survey ]

[yourfaveisintersex]

idk who else to ask. my cat has no uterus, ovaries, or testicles. there is kind of a vulva there, but barely, and there's a penis, according to the vet. is inky intersex? is it bad to refer to inky as she/her? i thought inky was a girl when i adopted them but now i kind of feel like an asshole.

1. yeah she would be intersex!

2. no because animals don't have a concept of gender identity like we do and they can't care what pronouns you call them. if you want to continue using she/her it's fine, if you wanna use they/them instead because of inky's intersexuality it's also fine, or you could use both or something else. Animals Really Don't Care As Far As We Know!

[themaveriqueagenda]

[feminist-space]

[candyhyena]

Dropped icecream Grimer and Muk! Any name ideas? 💕 Another addition to my fakemon Candyverse 🩷

[thisisexorsexism]

Got a post on my feed calling out TMA/TME racist cause it is, but they called all the terfs in their notes "they/thems" for no reason other than dissing on nonbinary people ig?

All for calling out racism, but their pronouns have nothing to do with their bigotry?

They kinda used "they/them" like a derogatory way?? Idk

Just bums me out when it's a good take then bam EXORSIXIST BAM INTERSEXIST like seriously I'm tired....

this is exorsexism

[thisis--ableism]

The fact that so many music videos that I've seen will have flashing and/or quick movements with no warning anywhere.

This is ableism.

[intersexcultureis]

Questioning intersex culture is diagrams of genitalia never looking like YOUR genitalia, and you can't tell if it's because you're intersex, or just have a very uncommon genital formation

questioning intersex culture is...

[anistarrose]

If the people in a relationship say it's platonic, then it's platonic, regardless of your preconceived notions about commitment, cohabitation, gender, sex or other physical intimacy, and anything else you associate with a strict position on a romantic/platonic binary. Likewise, if the people in a relationship say it's romantic, then it's romantic, again regardless of your preconceived notions about commitment, cohabitation, gender, sex or other physical intimacy, and anything else you associate with a strict position on a romantic/platonic binary. Friends can have sex and/or live together, and romantic partners don't need to. People can also do either of those things or neither without placing themselves in a platonic-romantic binary.

Platonic and romantic relationships (as well as, frankly, sex itself, if you take a look at the way sex has been typically defined in such a cisheteronormative way) are way too socially constructed for your stereotypes to overrule the actual intent and self-understanding of the people those relationships most matter to.

[casperxp]

I want more aromantic characters who are not also asexual !!! I want more characters who 100 percent want to get it on but just don’t feel any romantic feelings for anyone. I want more aromantic characters with “friends with benefits” except it’s literally just that. That’s their best friend and sometimes they let them fuck. More aromantic characters please !!!!

[agentukelele]

Hello binary gendered tumblr user. Before you is a nonbinary character in a relationship. You have three hours to describe the relationship without calling it yaoi, yuri, or anything else that puts them in the binary. If you fail, the room fills with toxic gas.

[sphxxshthealien]

why isn’t there a single god damn movie that doesn’t have a romantic subplot. why is everything centred around romance. a story can be still be interesting if the boy and the girl don’t kiss at the end ??

i’ll be enjoying a movie and then BAM the male and female leads just admitted feelings for each other. it’s not even a trope at this point because it’s literally EVERY film. what the hell is going on?

is that not like. a major flaw in the film writing industry if every film does like same thing like i am actually so confused about this

[i-am-simply-here]

A real life example of using mobility aids making other people comfortable to use them themselves in my life, is me using mine and my mom following.

Like, my mom has a lot of health issues and should really be using aids all the time. But she's really stubborn and believes all the stigmas, so she never would use any.

Then I started to use a cane occasionally and she started talking about using one. So I got us matching canes, and now she uses it often. She'll brag about it to me too. Like I'll walk in and she goes "I used the cane you got me while I was at Disney this weekend. It was really helpful"

Today I decorated my plain black cane with stickers and brought it in to show her and now she's all excited because she wants to put stickers on her cane.

Anyway it feels nice seeing her finally feel comfortable with using a mobility aid to get around.

[this-is-accessibility]

This is Accessibility and Disabled Joy!

[vampiirevacatiion]

the obsession transphobes have with the once “healthy breasts” of transmascs and trans men feels possessive in a very patriarchal way and DEEPLY pedophilic, particularly whenever they say it to a youth transitioner/someone who got their surgery freshly into adulthood. don’t even get me started abt when they do the whole “don’t cut off your tits…what about your future baby’s milk 🥹” LIKE EUGHH GET THE FUCK AWAY FROM ME AND GO PROTEST OUTSIDE OF A PLANNED PARENTHOOD OR SOMETHING EWWWWWW

[bouncy2004toyotayaris]

made this a transparent gif because im in love

[kittyswitching]

trans men absolutely are in sex work, the majority just present as women for work because it's much harder to make money if you don't. You don't see them because they're forced to detransition for work or you haven't even tried to look for the ones who are presenting masc. They're all over the sex work forums if you know what to look for and how they talk about it.

there is no "trans men aren't pushed into sex work" privilege. It is not a privilege to be forced into it AND have to detransition for it. This isn't a competition