fighting demons

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he wasn't even looking at me and he found me
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fighting demons
A++ moment in every version.
                 A important Trigun manga PSA!
Mother
preschool field trip to the hydraulic press I'm so excited
It's so cool here
i learned a lot there i think
Nothing Iâve read has changed me more than âyou do people a favor by accepting their helpâ like I repeat this constantly to so many people because itâs true!!! People like to feel useful, they like to feel kind, they like to feel like they have an ability to impact peopleâs lives so just let them!! Not everything is a thing to be owed back â accept peopleâs kindness without making a competition out of it
Hisuian Zorua dying in the wilderness after being shunned and exiled by humans who were unjustly afraid of them and coming back out of maliceâŠquite the familiar story, wouldnât you agree, Commander?
I'm showing my software engineer flatmate tumblr code and glitches and he just keeps getting more and more agitated
"and people use this site??" bad news chief its my primary social media
I'm having to reblog this manually because guess what social media's mobile app decided to remove fast reblogs
I use tumblr exclusively on mobile and it sucks that they removed fast reblogs
IM SORRY THEY WHAT
i just updated mobile a solid minute ago and i can still fast reblog?
the fuck is a fast reblog
Iâve never used that in my life
To myself, raised in an environment that glorified and romanticized restriction and suffering:
There is no victory in skipping dinner, or lunch, or breakfast, or morning coffee, or dessert.
There is no victory in refusing heaters and air conditioners and fans and heated blankets.
There is no victory in denying yourself sleep, or showers, or movement, or water, or a comfortable bed, or taking the elevator vs. the stairs.
There is no victory in refusing pain meds and heating pads and ice packs and medical help.
There is no victory in punishing yourself needlessly, in telling yourself that this pain you feel is because you are bad to the core and deserve it.
There is no victory in choking back your laughter and your tears, to keep an imagined equilibrium of safety that is really just a dry, cracked, empty, endless emotional desert.
You are here. You are in this body, and this body is yours. You deserve good things. You are alive, and that is messy and loud, and messy and loud are okay.
Itâs okay to live abundantly. Itâs okay to make mistakes, itâs okay to indulge. This paralysis of self-punishment, self-restriction, self-loathing is not healthy or good for you.
Pain.
Mass Effect au where instead of the Starchild, Shepard finally gets indoctrinated by the Reapers at the very end and you have to play as the squadmate with highest relationship points or their LI to stop them.Â
If your ems is high enough, you can break through the indoctrination and bring Shepard back to stop the cycle.
If your ems is too low, you have to stop Shepard.Â
Permanently.Â
And it falls to you to activate the Crucible.
I got a new drawing tablet!
dodges pitchforks
my favorite thing to do on zillow is look at the low-to-high for all of manhattan because quite frankly these landlords are completely delusional
âyeah this apartment was built before the model T was first produced. itâs got a scenic view of some other brick building. the internal square footage is maybe 550? i guess? the bathroom is 4 feet wide and thereâs no shower head. tub only. also the kitchen doesnât have a stove and the fridge was manufactured in 1974. thereâs missing pieces of the cabinets in there too. oh i didnât clean the floor from the previous tenant, thatâs your problem. speaking of the floor, watch out for the wrinkles on the ugliest green carpet youâve ever seen in your life, itâs a tripping hazard. no iâm not fixing that. original hardwood? yeah but donât get excited, iâm pretty sure itâs stained with blood. thereâs an HOA by the way, itâs 717 a month.
starting price is $200,000â
this is the exact one i saw when i wrote this post. there is, in fact, a stove. i didnt notice it because i thought it was just another fucked up cabinet at first glance.
Iâd divorce him too lmao
Itâs never JUST about the tomatoes.
Basically!
Throughout the day, partners would make requests for connection, what Gottman calls âbids.â For example, say that the husband is a bird enthusiast and notices a goldfinch fly across the yard. He might say to his wife, âLook at that beautiful bird outside!â Heâs not just commenting on the bird here: Heâs requesting a response from his wifeâa sign of interest or supportâhoping theyâll connect, however momentarily, over the bird.
The wife now has a choice. She can respond by either âturning towardâ or âturning awayâ from her husband, as Gottman puts it. Though the bird-bid might seem minor and silly, it can actually reveal a lot about the health of the relationship. The husband thought the bird was important enough to bring it up in conversation and the question is whether his wife recognizes and respects that.
These bidding interactions had profound effects on marital well-being. Couples who had divorced after a six-year follow-up had âturn-toward bidsâ 33 percent of the time. Only three in 10 of their bids for emotional connection were met with intimacy. The couples who were still together after six years had âturn-toward bidsâ 87 percent of the time. Nine times out of 10, they were meeting their partnerâs emotional needs.
Those who showed genuine interest in their partnerâs joys were more likely to be together.
This isnât romantic only btw. This is whatâs going on in this modern day, when you send links to friends.
one hundred dollars for this man.Â
[image description: screenshot of an ebay listing. the title is âUgly Pikachuâ and the price is $100.00 USD. the photo is of a 3" tall bootleg yellow pikachu plush lying on grey carpet. it has simple black bead eyes, one higher than the other, dirt on its face, and a mouth shaped like a crooked w. its tiny cone-shaped ears have what look like black pom-poms on them. its expression looks simultaneously mischievous and vacant.]