Living Without Limits.

#TheRealist #Logistic #Gay #PursuitOfHappiness #Love

[kym-vampire47]

This is the kind of photo a wedding photographer wants-scratch that,needs-in their portfolio…super well done & impressive

[innocentlovelylove]

“If you’re gonna bail, bail early. This applies to relationships, college classes, and sledding.”

— Advice from my high school science teacher, Mr. Miller (via zackisontumblr)

[hairstylesbeauty]

[para-la-ultima-vez]

losing you meant finding myself. watching you move on meant forcing myself to be happy. i loved you more than i understood at the time and in a few ways i still do. but i cant continue to try and find people to fill the void you left in my heart. i cant continue to form unhealthy attachments. i miss you. i want to talk to you. but the you i miss, isn’t there anymore. and the me i was, has changed a million times by now. and that void you left in my heart, no longer resembles you.

[im-barely-surviving-but-its-okay]

₣Ʉ₵₭ł₦₲ ⱤɆ₥Ɇ₥฿ɆⱤ ₮Ⱨ₳₮!

[igmakeup]

[longing-words]

the thing that fucks me up the most

is that you never once apologized.

you break me over and over,

but not once have you apologized

for leaving me in pieces.

you say that you’re awful,

just the worst kind of person,

but nowhere in there

is any kind of apology.

am i not worth the words?

or are you truly not sorry,

not the smallest bit remorseful,

about the way you keep me bleeding for you?

[lifeafterpsychiatry]

Your pain is valid even if they never realize they did something wrong.

[traumasurvivors]

Sometimes you just need to accept that you did what you had to do to survive and forgive yourself for it.

[furiousgoldfish]

You might be suffering the consequences of long term abuse if:

you feel uncomfortable taking credit for things you did

you feel uncomfortable being praised or complimented, and you feel like sudden expectation or blackmail are coming up afterwards, you need to find intentions behind praise

someone getting mad at you is absolutely terrifying and you’ll do anything to avoid it

you don’t ever feel it’s safe to stand up for yourself, you can predict that even if you did that, ultimately you’d only be punished and hurt even worse, and you can’t risk it

you always analyze every situation with „am I bothering these people? Is my presence a burden to everyone?“ even when you’re with friends or at a place where you were invited

you don’t feel like a part of anything, not your family or your peer group, you worry everyone is going to figure out that you’re out of line trying to pretend to be a part of their group and reject you

you worry that you have no value to anyone and you feel like you need to deserve to be a part of society

you feel inexplicably ashamed of yourself, there are so many situations you can’t talk about, or even think about without feeling overwhelming shame

you keep feeling everything bad that happens is your fault, even for things that aren’t related to you directly, you feel responsible and like you should have done something to prevent it

you feel like everything would be better if only you didn’t exist

you struggled with suicidal thoughts before (or still struggle with them)

you feel like anyone who hurts you is justified in doing so and you deserve to be hurt

you’re terrified of being punished for anything you do, and don’t do, to the point where you paralyze and can’t do things you’re supposed to do at times, because you can’t tell if it’s going to end up in you suffering punishment

you don’t feel comfortable being touched or cuddled, you feel like it makes you weak if you desire it

you don’t feel okay showing big emotions in front of anyone, you feel your feelings in secret, or not at all

nobody knows just in how much pain you are. You don’t show it.

you can tell that even if you did talk to someone about your problems, you’d be accused of exaggerating, asking for attention, faking it, or being weak for not controlling your emotions better

you feel like the dream of a good life, where you’re loved and happy and cherished, is something completely unrealistic and it feels silly to even imagine it, it’s out of reach for you

If it’s only a few you can relate to, they can be caused by outside factors, but if you relate to almost all of these, it’s likely you’ve been living in a situation that is unbearable for human being without severely affecting their personality and mental health. Abuse can cause all of this, and these are not little things, this is lowered quality of life.

[theinformantofficial]

[survivor-positivity]

convincing yourself that your trauma isn’t valid is often a coping mechanism to block out what happened. admitting that you were hurt by what happened is scary, but it’s the first step towards recovery

[survivor-positivity]

even if it was unintentional, even if they thought they were doing the right thing- you’re still allowed to be angry or upset about how you were mistreated

[shelookshappier-deactivated2025]

[traumasurvivors]

Every time you go to say “well, it could have been worse,” I want you to stop and remember that it should have never happened at all. 

Please don’t invalidate your experiences or yourself. It is okay to feel whatever it is that you feel about it. The bottom line is that it should not have happened, and you deserved better. 

[riotneko]

[studyingwithmi-deactivated20220]