This post came to my attention and I just wanted to share my experience with postmoderngrouping. This isnât a callout post, I donât want to get into any unnecessary drama. I am just here to share my experience and some evidence.
So postmoderngrouping reached out to me in a DM last year, just a simple hey, how are you, and I politely told them I was doing fine. They asked me about how I feel about James and Emily and I responded politely telling them that I just see them as friends.
They wanted to roleplay with me, more specifically James x Emily. I did play along a little bit, but I didnât really want to role play. Hereâs a screenshot after I posted the TTTE ice skating headcanons. I kept it innocent, usually one message at a time, I did tell him after a while that hey, I donât really do role playing. And he stopped.
It got weird after I posted the Jamesâs butt tattoo post, he left these comments underneath. I did respond to them politely, I had no clue what he was up to, I just figured that he was a teenager giggling over butts. I did post a headcanon about butts after all, so I expected to receive comments like that. Again, I tried to keep my answers simple and as clean as possible. I mean, I would be a hypocrite for calling someone out for talking about butts when I myself have an NSFW account and draw naked people.
But then things got weird. He left an ask still going on about Jamesâs butt, And I did answer, it was weird. I am completely guilty of engaging with this guy, I shouldâve ignored him or told him to stop. But I wanted to be polite, and I do have an extremely hard time judging people with my autism, I have gotten in trouble with being too trusting. I didnât want to make the mistake of misjudging someone. Again I tried to keep it clean as possible.
Then later he sent me a message asking me to draw Jamesâs butt with the tattoo. I drew the line there and told him no. It was weird because it started out innocent and escalated quickly. I was planning on asking shiikarin privately âhey, have you happened to have any encounters with this guy?â Since she has more followers than me and probably encountered him before. But after I asked her if I could ask her something and she asked what it was, I chickened out and changed my question. (I am so so so sorry I had to drag you into this, I didnât want to drag you into my drama before but here I am, once again dragging people into my drama)
Postmoderngrouping did apologize for his messages and I just thought maybe he didnât know my boundaries and is just a teenager. And maybe it was just a one off thing. And maybe I was reading too into it. My gut was definitely telling me something was wrong, but I didnât want to cause a scene if itâs just a nothing burger. Not to mention I am guilty of bringing up butts and engaging with him.
Then zocomotive posted about them and I just wanted to share my experience. I am so so sorry to air out my dirty laundry, I donât want to cause a huge problem, I just wanted to post any potential evidence and leave. I am sorry for dragging you all into this and Iâm so so sorry for allowing this creep on my page, I did block him and will be taking down his asks and comments. I shouldnât have answered his asks. I am truly sorry for potentially causing any drama, thatâs not my intention with this post.
