No pain no gain

Gwen. 22 yo. European affairs Masters

[ohk4te]

moved my bookshelves around and now sitting at my desk feels like sitting in a library

[yeon-studies]

12.03.16 -

Saturday morning essay cranking, feat. french press coffee and a cozy fireplace

[eggsaladstain]

current mood

[delusgs]

Iced coffee and pancakes

[elienstudies-deactivated2019082]

Today I’ll be reading some papers, meet with our research group and go to my lecture for psychodynamic consultation. It’s going to be a very productive day! Also; isn’t @emmastudies her October wallpaper the prettiest?

[thentheysaidburnher]

All men benefit from women’s reinforced fear of being hurt for saying no.

[goodbyesocialconstructs]

read it again and again

[lierdumoa]

Understand that this applies even to non-sexual situations. Women are more likely to be asked for favors from coworkers. Regular “can you file this for me” / “can you cover my shift” / “can you finish up this paperwork” workplace favors. Men are less likely to return those favors. Women are more likely to be seen as “difficult to work with” if they refuse to do favors when requested. Being viewed as ungenerous has negative social and professional consequences.

So yes, even gay men benefit. All men benefit from women’s reinforced fear of being hurt, not just physically, but also socially and professionally, for saying no to anything at all.

[galina]

📓 🔅

[huitingreads]

essay brainstorming notes (in the most haphazard manner)

[beamingsuggestion]

don’t be afraid to say “i deserve better” and pursue it – in relationships, in your career, and simply in life

[fah-roosh]

a productive day to treat my self as I don’t have any classes today ~ (3/100)

[yourcoffeeguru]

[slytherin-psych-studies]

13/09/2017 || I’m actually learning to like studying in the morning 😱

[ourstudyworld]

11:45 - (30.3.17)

refreshing my notions in Java for my exam in introduction in coding

[galina]

Final proofreading of this journal before it is published. I also came up with a title last weekend and it feels right, like it’s all finally coming together. I’m going to miss being a co-editor and spending so much time thinking about the Mediterranean (!) but mostly I am looking forward to being able to share this work at last 🌝

[betterself]

04.03.2020; online university = lots of planning.

i have also applied to a lot of jobs lately and i haven't had any positive responses yet. that's kind of taking a toll on my self-worth. i'm thinking about doing a video-cv to differentiate me from other candidates, but that will take a lot of work. i guess i'll tell you how that goes!

[mohtivations]

[02/17/20]

1.07

new week; new me; new mind. 

resilience + strength. i can do it.

currently listening to:

run - joji

[synqra]