โข Occasional non-explicit adult references and mentions of weed/smoking
โข No sexually explicit kink or NSFW content here
All of this is tagged
If that doesnโt work for you, feel free to curate your space. I do the same and wonโt take it personally.
Full intro under the cut!
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Iโve always had a โsmallโ streak, long before I had words for it. Long before I was even โbigโ. I relate to both regression and ABDL, and I prefer nuance over purity culture or fetish-only framing. I appreciate emotional depth in littlespace, and Iโm comfortable with sexuality existing without it being the entire point.
Online, dualcom feels like the right middle ground.
IRL, Iโve attended ABDL events since 18 and value those spaces a lot. I just donโt kinkpost really itโs not my thing
I am AuDHD and I have trouble making new friends, and past experiences have soured a lot of the effort iโm willing to put in as an adult to put myself out there. So basically, Iโm a little shy. I donโt tend to do babytalk and my typestyle can be a little dense.
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Interests rotate, but currently include:
Sonic (SA2 my beloved), Steven Universe,Persona 3/4, Ace Attorney, Minecraft (not mcyt), Dungeon Meshi, fursuit making, drawing, houseplants, pet rats, old games/music, Y2K nostalgia, TADC, and assorted hyperfixations that come and go.
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โข I work a lot and burn out easily, so Iโm low energy socially.
โข My littlespace is usually toddler-aged, sometimes slightly older or younger.
โข Iโm in a committed relationship.
โข Iโm generally open-minded and pro-ship/fiction/kink. I am not interested in debating or arguing about this
I might come back and edit this later. I donโt do dni lists, but I do block people I think I wouldnโt get along with. Iโm chill!!! I prommy!!!
I was a really soft-hearted little kid who cried a lot and liked to play games about making big families and nurturing things, which, since I was a boy, meant I got the shit kicked out of me a lot by other boys for being girly. Boys were supposed to be tough and fight and compete and try to be the best, you see, that's how our imagination games were supposed to go. And that's what media aimed at boys when I was a kid focused on - heroes who beat the shit out of people and are tough and don't cry et cetera et cetera.
And I learned to like that and see the appeal in that, sure. There are lots of stories that were made for an audience of little boys that I ended up liking. But I always wanted something that told me boys like me, who didn't want to be violent or competitive, who liked nurturing things and making friends, who avoided fights whenever allowed, were valid.
So I was really happy when Steven Universe came around and was exactly that - the kind of show a sensitive little boy like I used to be would have killed to see. And very shortly after that I was crushed when the growing criticism of the show repeated the refrain that it was bad mainly because Steven was a pacifist who cried and didn't want to be violent and liked nurturing things and making friends instead of killing people. I wasn't surprised, no, it made perfect sense people would hate it for being that, but I was crushed all the same.
Our society only accepts a very narrow definition of masculinity, and kindness isn't allowed to play a very big role in it. That's one of the reasons I quit it.
Anyway, I'm a daycare teacher now, and one of the kids in my class is a really sensitive little boy with big feelings and a bigger heart, who acts very nurturing to his little 3-D printed dragons, and gets very upset at how mean and rude the other little boys can be when they're trying to prove they're mature and tough. Recently he's been talking to me about a show he found and has fallen in love with called Steven Universe, and I've been delighted to hear him regale me about how much he loves it. I bet it's doing him some real good to see that it's ok for a little boy like him to have a big heart and to want to make friends instead of fight all the time. He's making up his own crystal gem OC too, isn't that nice?
It doesnโt matter how much you emphasize how not interested you are in bad faith arguments in your intro, posts, whatever, people will still choose to try and start shit instead of just blocking you ๐ซฉ
Like today is not the day and I am not the one, kick rocks
Years ago, I watched all of the educational Timon & Pumbaa safety videos on the resort TV at Disney World and I'm very glad I did because this is incredible