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[sadforuactually]

I must confess, when I first came back to Sebastian Stan fandom, I didn’t give a fuck about AW. I left when the whole shitshow with Ale imploded, so I didn’t know anything about his personal life anymore.

I read some positive things about her and started following her, mostly because I knew Sebastian was no longer active on social media, thinking I would see content from him through her account (thing that never happened but I saw his elbow and his shoe though so thanks Annie I guess) and that’s when I understood she didn’t post anything about him at all, so I unfollowed her, but kept seeing her content thanks to Sebastian fans and I almost had an aneurysm seeing the way they all act towards her 😣

Honestly I don’t have a problem with people being their fans, I guess we’re all allowed to support whatever actors or artists they want—the real problem is when people overcompensate and has this cult-behavior around her.. and not enough with that, the fact people were always looking out for what the “haters” say about them, taking screenshots and posting them in their space. I’ve been in fandoms since 2010 with different people and I’ve never experienced that, like, why would you be feeding that?

I gotta thank them, I discovered anti-blogs thanks to them, first I started reading things with skepticism, the more I read I was sort of fascinated with people’s point of view on things and I built my own opinion on her.

Yes folks, she’s not a sweet person as you all claim she is. She has shown mean girl behavior, but my breaking point was when she posted people from Mexico as if they were attractions, people defended her in the comments and I was like wtf?

Do you really think she posted this things out of ‘admiration’ for our culture? Even watching her behavior at the red carpets where she side eyed Sebastian’s fans and mocked Nicolas Cage’s wife? (And no, sadly it’s not something we invented, there are videos that are very telling)

The way Sebastian’s smile dropped so fast while he says no? God knows what she was saying.

Moving forward to my next point… some of you people are not her fans. Y’all just follow her because she ‘gives you access’ to Sebastian, which, fair, like I stated earlier I also did at the beginning. What it’s not fair is the way you ‘blindly’ support her and defend her behavior just because she’s with him. There’s some problematic behavior there, and when people point out what is your defense? “Oh well, yeah, Sebastian did worse, he’s with her, so he must be like her”. Or your favorite one: “He’s not going to fuck you”— girl, if you think that’s an insult you must be projecting so bad.

And honestly, let’s face it. He’s handsome and everything, but to have a partner who always looks like this while he’s out with me?

People’s excuse has been “oh it’s just that the paps piss him off”

Sorry to disappoint you but..

While he’s like this with other women…

So yeah, I wouldn’t want to be in her place.

And I understand there are some people who’s extremist in both sides, but it’s time for you all to open your freaking eyes and loose your rose-tinted glasses.

Wake up! Defending her won’t give you a free-pass to Sebastian, and given her attitude I bet she would probably scoff past you if y’all ever had the chance to meet her.

And I’m sad to let you know… You’re not her fan either. You always keep making everything about him, even when it’s her life, her projects, her friends you always dissect every pixel of her story looking for scraps of Sebastian. You just treat her as an extension of him, which honestly it’s sad for her.

[sebsoracle]

I think Sebastian was going through some shit and Ale wasn't really stepping up to be a reliable partner when he needed somewhere to land. I think they were seen as being happy together which kind of became an extra sort of pressure to have everything actually be fine.

From what I remember, they were together when his father passed away (as you asked in the tag). And I'd venture to say she's out partying over there.

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And I oop—

[sebsoracle]

Why didn’t things work out between him and Ale? I truly doubt it was because of her public perception, because Annabelle has had a more negative impact on his public image, but here we are 😁

The Tower, Reversed—According to one account, the same (misery, distress, ruin, indigence, adversity, calamity, disgrace, deception) in a lesser degree, also oppression, imprisonment, tyranny)

The Moon, Reversed—Instability, inconstancy, silence, lesser degrees of deception and error

Nine of Cups—Concord, contentment, physical bien-être; also victory, success, advantage, satisfaction for the Querent or person for whom the consultation is made

Eight of Swords—Bad news, violent chagrin, crisis, censure, power in trammels, conflict, calumny—also sickness

The Sun, Reversed—The same (material happiness, fortunate marriage, contentment) in a lesser sense

I think Sebastian was going through some shit and Ale wasn't really stepping up to be a reliable partner when he needed somewhere to land. I think they were seen as being happy together which kind of became an extra sort of pressure to have everything actually be fine.

Ultimately, I think Sebastian might have learned that he can't always expect others to react well in a crisis and that moving forward the breakup was for the best.

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[sebstanposts]

this is a friendly reminder for everyone to not forget about annabelle and her close friendship with her “bestest friend” jared leto.

she can promote mutiny all she wants, running around, flaunting jewellery and fake laughing for the cameras, but this will not distract from the elephant in the room 📣📣

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[riricitaa]

Today we celebrate Seb's day !!

[sebstanposts]

they’re her biggest haters when they think anyone will give her and engagement ring that’s not and engagement ring, well it’s the low standards ig 🥀

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Watch shippers say they married

[sebstanposts]

It’s fairly simple, people don’t want to support someone that enables abusers. It doesn’t matter who they’re dating, no one wants to support someone that condones that shit, or someone who doesn’t mind being near it if it means profiting from proximity to someone more famous. Especially considering the allegations have been floating around for years.

The best example of this is when a popular band gets hit with allegations and fans want answers. They don’t wanna support terrible people, right? But it doesn’t stop there. Then, you see said shitty band continue to get opportunities, another band you admire adds them to their tour bill. Now you have two shitty bands. Because clearly, shitty band #2 didn’t care enough about victims to not invite shitty band #1 on their tour. But wait, there’s more. An artist you like just posted photos with a member of shitty band #1. That festival you attended yearly? Just booked shitty band #1 as a headliner. The fans? Are online discrediting victims because “how dare you demand answers from them”. “I’ve been listening to them for years, they would never!” “They were groupies!” “That person isn’t as bad as them, they were just friends!” “Why are you not calling out x,y, and z?”(As if any of them should get a pass???).

Now not only are fans let down, but the victims have yet another group of people that have let them down because they’ve chosen the side of the abuser. Abusers thrive because of an environment that allows them to thrive. A lot of people keep forgetting that part. They’re online, they can see the shit you post trying to downplay everyone’s involvement. It’s so much bigger than “oh, you just don’t like Sebastian’s girlfriend”.

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[sebsoracle]

Also anon mentioned they had proof she did do it in the past, I'm asking anon if they can elaborate because I hadn't seen anything solid about that, just mutterings in the fandom that it's something that happened, but no details on what it was. I'd love the tea 🍵 //

Not the original anon but there was a time back around late 2024(?) I think where Sebastian was publicly pining for Leighton Meester—taking about her in interviews, reminiscing about gossip girl (particularly her)—as well as acting very single for a certain period, and then suddenly a blind item comes out about Sebastian cheating on leighton with the whole infamous "couch fucker" story.

Pretty convenient timing that Sebastian was actively distancing himself away from Annabelle, and then soon after the blind item appears, and he's back again looking cozy, spotted with annabelle, shopping on christmas eve and then the whole circus that was award season.

So yeah, I wouldn't part it past Annabelle to go to lengths to manipulate and get her way.

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[sebsoracle]

I used a different guide to interpret your cards for the blackmail reading. I hope that isn't a faux pas, if it is, I don't mean to offend and I'm a beginner and I don't know if it's against the rules to reinterpret someone else's cards or not.

“Did she blackmail or threaten him to get her way in the past?”

Seven of Swords, Reversed: Points toward deceptive, underhanded, or manipulative behavior being exposed or coming to light. This card leans towards No, maybe not something as severe as blackmail or threats. But it can mean that she used questionable, manipulative, underhanded, or deceptive tactics to influence him to get what she wanted, and either he knows she did this after the fact, or people in their lives know about it.

Is she currently blackmailing or threatening him to get her way?

Ten of Cups, Reversed: This card can describe dysfunctional emotional dynamics, broken trust, resentment, or a breakdown in harmony. While this card leans towards No in something as severe as blackmail or threats, it can manifest in less overt forms of pressure or manipulation, like trying to influence him through emotional manipulation (pressuring him, guilt-tripping, or persistent pushing) rather than actual threats or blackmail.

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This is actually one of my favorite things about tarot is the way every card can be interpreted in different ways! Tarot really isn't best suited to yes/no because of that. I don't mind the discussion of different interpretations at all, and that's actually part of the reason I include the cards and the explanations from the deck I use! As readers, we all bring our own perspective, biases, and flair 🩷

[ssteamingtea]

I legit think Annabelle is going to have to be sedated or arrested when he moves onto his next rs oop///

not to get too astrological but Sebastian began both his PR with Annabelle, and previously Ale, during the eclipse seasons in 2022 and 2020. so when he gets with someone else I’d put money on that timing. the next eclipses will be Feb 2027 & July-Aug 2027 👀

sebastian stan rolled the worst blunt and was asked to leave marvel studios

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Yeah- put on that gloss 💀😂

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Always gotta look at that camera

Is Adam showing his watch ? Cute 😩

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Now to my knowledge, the last time he brought a GF to a red carpet was the Civil War premiere with Margarita. And the only reason I knew she was there, was because of this GIF.

The man did multiple interviews at this premiere, and you do not see her in the background. Why? Because a TRUE and RESPECTFUL partner lets you have your moment.

Now, who knows if he’s gone back and watch interviews from the 2025 award season and seen AW’s desperate behavior to be on the background. But if he has. You just know he was annoyed. The Golden Globes may have been bad but the Oscars was a bigger night for him and she did at least once when he was with his mom.

Well atleast he did an interview with his mom.

[damnmmmmmmmmmm]

Her very first trial period of her new title as "award season +1" and AW literally positions herself in the background between SS and the interviewer in every single red carpet interview, making sure the camera catches her. The way she keeps checking and making eye contact with the camera, rolling her eyes when SS is taking too long is so cringe. She is not subtle at all. Makes me wonder if SS has watched some of the footage afterwards and felt that she was embarrassing him. I can't wait for the next round of red carpet event interviews where she's his +1. If she suddenly don't appear in the background anymore, we can assume she got a stern talking to lol. Or if she don't appear at all, then she's been relegated to homemaker and not red carpet +1 anymore. Think she'll regret getting pregnant then?

Imagine him looking back at those interviews and seeing her behave that like ? Even better ? Those things were all over social media- His godmother and his mother seeing those ? Cringe 😬

[sebsoracle]

I did a geomancy reading, and this is what came through regarding him:

Beginning of the Relationship, Early 2022

2022 → 2 + 0 + 2 + 2 = 6 (Venus)

Venus in the year the relationship began = strong attraction, a romantic beginning.

The natural Mars-Mercury cycle in relationships = 3 to 5 years.

2022 + 3 = 2025, the first major point of internal change. 2022 + 5 = 2027, the point of resolution.

The Pregnancy in October 2025, What Does the Geomancy Reading Say?

First internal turning point: early 2025 Pregnancy: October 2025 Difference: only 7 to 8 months.

The pregnancy came at a moment when the decision was already beginning to take shape, neither long before it nor long after it.

The pregnancy delayed a separation that was already beginning to form in 2025. The number 7, representing the child, appearing in the year 2025, whose number is 9, suggests that the pregnancy occurred at the height of tension in the relationship rather than at the height of its stability.

The Nature of Their Current Relationship

594 + 94 = 688 → 6 + 8 + 8 = 22 → 4 (Saturn)

The geomantic figure is Carcer, meaning The Prison, appearing in the house of partnership.

This represents a constrained relationship rather than one freely chosen.

Saturn in the house of partnership = constraint rather than choice. The relationship appears to be sustained more by circumstance, particularly the child, than by conviction or genuine emotional commitment. Carcer is considered one of the heaviest figures in geomancy, indicating that both parties feel trapped or confined by the relationship.

His Feelings Toward Her

Sebastian (9, Mars) toward Annabelle (4, Saturn):

9 × 4 = 36 → 9

Mars collides with Saturn.

His feelings appear to be a mixture of responsibility and suffocation. It is not hatred, but rather the feeling that she represents a wall restricting his freedom. Mars values freedom above almost everything else.

Her Feelings Toward Him

Annabelle (4, Saturn) toward Sebastian (9, Mars):

4 + 9 = 13 → 4

Saturn does not retreat easily. It holds tightly to what it considers its rightful possession.

Her feelings appear to be deep attachment mixed with a fear of loss. The child strengthens this attachment. This does not necessarily indicate exploitation, but rather a distinctly Saturnian tendency to protect and hold onto what has been built.

Is There Genuine Love?

The figure appearing in the house of the heart is Via, The Empty Road.

Via in the house of love = emptiness, with nothing stable or firmly established.

The reading does not show deep, firmly rooted mutual love. There may have been a powerful initial attraction, but what binds them now appears to be circumstance more than emotion.

The Child's Influence

Sebastian (9) + the child (7) = 16 → 7

The number 7 appearing in the house of fatherhood indicates a deep and unusually powerful love for the child.

The child will become the greatest transformation in his personality. He will love her in a way that may even surprise him himself. However, this love for the child does not necessarily mean the continuation of his relationship with Annabelle.

Fatherhood and marriage are separate paths in the reading.

When Will the Separation Happen? Three Stages

Stage One, the Internal Decision

5 (Mercury) + 7 (the child) = 12 → 3 months from August 2026 = November 2026

This is when the internal realization becomes clear.

Stage Two, the Triggering Event

4 (Saturn, Annabelle) + 9 (Mars, Sebastian) = 13 → 4 + 3 = 7 months

7 months = March 2027

This represents the event that sets the separation process into motion.

Stage Three, the Actual Separation

The 2022 to 2027 cycle = 5 years, combined with the weight of the child, represented by 7 months.

Summer to autumn 2027, approximately June to September 2027

The reading therefore gives the following progression:

November 2026: He knows internally, but does not act.

March to April 2027: An event occurs that moves things forward.

Summer to autumn 2027: The actual separation, and the strongest timing indicated by the reading.

What Happens After the Separation?

Contact because of the child is certain to continue, but it will be formal and practical rather than romantic.

Annabelle, represented by Saturn, will resist the separation through demands and pressure. Sebastian, represented by Mars, will tolerate this for a period of time before eventually closing the door decisively.

I know pretty much nothing about geomancy, damn