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Hey!💕 I'm in a ldr and I had known my boyfriend for 2 years and we've been a couple for one Despite the ups and downs (He has OCD and anxiety attacks now and then, I help him in every way i'm capable of) We're doing pretty well! I love him deeply and so does he My question is: Is there anything you did to motivate yourself to keep going? Do you have any advice? Thank you so much! 💕💕💕

Idk how religious you guys are, but I’ll share what I did. For a while I had panic attacks when I wouldn’t here from my bf. When we couldn’t talk I’d isolate myself from basically life. My advice bc it’s super easy to fall into a dark place and it’s SUPER scary is to find your peace or a way to keep you guys grounded. Some things I did that worked was sand my bf got matching promise rings. It was or symbol and sign that even though we were apart we are still tied. I started meditating and doing yoga, which I feel helped my mental state. I bought a healing stone bracelet and essential oils. And I began to read my bible. If you want to know what I read, what yoga channels I did on YouTube, or where I bought my healing bracelet let me know. I also kept a journal, which I bought from Etsy. I would write when I was lost and feeling dark. I would write when I had amazing moment. Importantly I’d step back and think we made it this far we pushed this long. Why give up? What’s the gain of giving up? It might hurt but I would think of how much hurt it would cause to lose my bf and throw us away? Ask yourself those questions. Bc it made me cry soo much harder thinking about a life without him. So I pushed on. Make long term goals. Goals and a plan for what you guys will do when your ldr comes to an end. Goals on where you see yourselves as a couple and as An individual. Refer back to those goals. Keep your eyes on that prize. On the idea of it WILL end. Take away you guys as a couple have the advantage of learning your partner in a while nother way! You are seeing some raw emotions. You are learning the real them. Breathe bc you can do it!

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LDR Survivor

I didn’t have it as bad as some other couples, but it was a long distance relationship none the less. Some won’t and don’t get it but I do. Im here for moral support, ask me question, or advice. I’m all ears. I made it through a 5 yr ldr!