Sunny

A chaos blog because I need to organise my stuff but need somewhere to dump it in the meantime. A mix of all my interests. Mostly things I've 'saved for later'. Neurodivergent and queer. Now have a separate fandom blog @Why-Are-We-Like-Thiss

[danphil]

embrace the void

[leighlew3]

ALL. OF. THIS.

[imtryingstill]

Imagine I was calm and normal about things

[aro-ace-culture-is]

Aroace culture is watching people talk about media where two friends are willing to go to hell and back for the other and hearing them say: ‘There is no way they are just friends. You don’t do this for a friend.’ And it just reminds you that according to so many people, you will never be worth the effort or care you desire. Even though you would genuinely put that much effort towards your friends, they wouldn’t do it for you.

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[laterkiss]

happy pride month 🏳️‍🌈

[redstonedust]

happy pride month to everyone who cant pick a consistent label. we may not know what flags we're waving at the pride parade but we're at the party anyways babey.

[just-another-cat-blog]

pride month!!!

[nullpointr]

this pride month remember to love and appreciate aromanticism, aromantic people, aromantic love, aromantic relationships. this pride month get more aromantic

[luxthegenderlessblob]

it’s pride month! Let’s try not to lose our rights!

[sergal]

my favorite mashup emoji is this one and i wish it was real so bad

[coastal-mangos-one]

[weekly-eons]

IT IS TIME! The whole gang is here! Separated ones under the read more

[spinsterrants]

Hey happy pride month! aroace representation should be treated with respect and a readiness to learn from those who aren’t aroace themselves.

There’s this habit in fandoms that contain aromatic or asexual characters to go “aroace people can still be in relationships and have sex” and then disregard their entire identity. Because yes, obviously we can, but there is more to those actions and intent behind them, and it becomes a wildly different experience for all parties than it would with an allo couple.

It’s annoying as a aroace reader to want to interact with those characters and then constantly be reminded that no one cares about us. It’s always a “right person” or a “learning intimacy” or changing their identity entirely, even when it’s canonical. And it becomes a running joke to me that when an aroace character is close to someone in media, their identity goes completely out the window in the eyes of the fandom. Because to be happy you must be in a romantic and/or sexual relationship, and they’re not allowed to be single.

It’s important to me that people understand this, obviously as an aroace person myself, but also because the perpetuation of acephobia and arophobia spurs from misinformation and misunderstandings. It also doesn’t help allos that we keep putting relationships above everything else, because then no one can be single and happy.

Im also not saying that you can’t ship aroace ppl with anyone else that is not my intent, just be more aware of if you’re accidentally perpetuating homophobia against the aroace community.

Its just stupid ig im posting this at 1am and may very much regret it in the morning

[yesornopolls]

When you imagine a red apple which do you see?

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Remaining time: 5 days 17 hours

[mostbelovedqueer]

Most Beloved (non-canon) Queer Ship Tournament - Round 1 - losers' bracket - 2.14

Which queer ship do you love more?

Endeavor and Hawks (Endhawks) (My Hero Academia)

timon and pumbaa (the lion kng)*

how dare you make me choose

Remaining time: 1 day 13 hours

Disclaimer: This tournament is based on submissions! Please respect all identities, characters and fandoms! Hate or aggressive language (even if jokingly) will get you blocked instantly!

[rat-thingo]

gender is a scam made by bathroom companies to sell you more bathrooms

[cutecipher]

whether or not men benefit from feminism has no bearing on whether feminism is worthwhile

[cutecipher]

put another way. i dont care about how men are impacted by feminism

[cutecipher]

already have people mad about this. okay here's another take. men should be feminists for no benefit.

[mantis-lizbian]

just as white people should be anti-racism for no benefit, and cis people should be pro-trans for no benefit. the only "benefit" that should be required is the creation of a more just world, not because you, personally, actually do get something out of it.

[pansyfemme]

it really is crazy how there are so many influencers with millions of followers i have never heard of in my life

[pansyfemme]

every day someone is like ‘have you heard about the situation with johnny youtube?’ and i go. pardon. who the hell is that